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 Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 9:53 am
Ok...I'm back with more boy issues. Still the same people from before Christmas, but different problems...
Ok, well first off, boys are stupid. The one who I thought likes me, well, hehe, he's ruined it for me. He went and got himself suspended for an incredibly stupid reason. I thought he'd grown up from his middle school self, but apparently I was wrong. I laughed really hard, but I also realized would I really like to get myself involved with him? And for the first time I had a definite answer about that one.
Next boy. Well, I really started to believe he liked me. I really did! I mean, we started being able to have really positive conversations, and cheer each other up in our own ways. I mean, usually he picks on me, and he still did, but not as much. Well, now he has a girlfriend. =P It sucks, it really does. I mean, I really thought for once someone would actually like me in a situation where it would be possible for us to be a couple (as apposed to the last one living 6 hours away). I mean, there was one time I was waiting for someone else, and I was sitting all alone reading a book, and he was running for sports, down a different hallway, and he came out of his way to see what I was reading, tell me it was a good book, and then run off. And then yesterday, even , he was extremely nice to me, and everything. I must have misinterpreted it all for him just wanting to be friends with me, and that makes me extremely upset. Gah! See, and its someone I would have been embarrassed to even admit they might like me, and because of my suspicions, I started liking him as well.
Well, this brings me to this quote I don't remember where I saw it, but it made me feel better remembering it:
"Boys are stupid, throw rocks at them!"
=P
There's my venting. I give up. This is why I didn't want to trust my feelings, because they'd mislead me like this...
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Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 11:39 am
Well... The first boy... Eh... x-x; He probably wasn't your type, anyways. And no, boys don't mature as fast as girls do. They still will be their middle-school selves while we're in our high school selves. You can't expect them to mature as quickly as we do, because it's impossible for them (for the most part).
And as for the second guy... Well that's your fault for not speaking your feelings first, and asking him out first. Now you'll never know if he would've said yes or not... And now you'll be kept guessing ^^; Maybe when he's single again you could express how you feel...
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Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 1:11 pm
Asashina Well... The first boy... Eh... x-x; He probably wasn't your type, anyways. And no, boys don't mature as fast as girls do. They still will be their middle-school selves while we're in our high school selves. You can't expect them to mature as quickly as we do, because it's impossible for them (for the most part).
And as for the second guy... Well that's your fault for not speaking your feelings first, and asking him out first. Now you'll never know if he would've said yes or not... And now you'll be kept guessing ^^; Maybe when he's single again you could express how you feel... Yeah, hehe, the first is definitely not my type. ^_^; I honestly don't know what I was thinking when I thought he could be a possibility. I guess I just figured since we weren't arguing like we did in middle school, he'd be different. Oh well! I really don't want to get involved with someone who does stupid things like he did.
And yeah, it is my fault...that's the way I always am. I'm too shy to go and ask a guy out or anything. With him, especially, it would have been so awful if it wasn't the case and he said no...the other thing that sucks is he's a senior and I'm a junior, so I don't have much time left before he graduates.
Thanks for the advice. It kind of felt good to vent!
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Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 1:45 pm
Guys do have a way of misleading us. We as women need to learn to take the lead though. If you start liking a guy then you need to make the first move and ask him out. Honestly. At least that way you know for certain that there is no miscommunication.
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Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 2:43 pm
Syrinx330 Yeah, hehe, the first is definitely not my type. ^_^; I honestly don't know what I was thinking when I thought he could be a possibility. I guess I just figured since we weren't arguing like we did in middle school, he'd be different. Oh well! I really don't want to get involved with someone who does stupid things like he did.
And yeah, it is my fault...that's the way I always am. I'm too shy to go and ask a guy out or anything. With him, especially, it would have been so awful if it wasn't the case and he said no...the other thing that sucks is he's a senior and I'm a junior, so I don't have much time left before he graduates.
Thanks for the advice. It kind of felt good to vent!
I'm glad it felt good <3 We're always here to listen to anyone vent ^o^ I'm glad you feel better, though x3
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Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 4:56 pm
@ Kaleiah: Thanks. Its more like I need to learn not to be shy in general. I'm getting better! I did ask a boy to dance for the first time... of course he's the one that got suspended recently for the stupidest of reasons. Next time, I hope I just have enough courage to ask someone out, or just flirt so they ask me out. Yeah, it'd be a heck of a lot easier if they just asked me out xD.
@Asashina: Thanks again, oh I feel ten times better now that I've gotten it out of my system. Hehe, at least he's still being nice to me, so at least we're developing a friendship of some sort. Also, listening to depressing symphonic metal all of today (because of snow day) has helped as well.
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Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 5:42 pm
Syrinx330
@Asashina: Thanks again, oh I feel ten times better now that I've gotten it out of my system. Hehe, at least he's still being nice to me, so at least we're developing a friendship of some sort. Also, listening to depressing symphonic metal all of today (because of snow day) has helped as well.
I'm glad you feel better :]
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Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 10:01 pm
hmmmm, that seems confusing to me...
But let me tell you that not all boys are stupid, just most of them. Throw rocks at the stupid ones and marshmellows at the not stupid ones!!!! LOL
I don't trust my feelings either... Or at least most of the time. I really like Von though. He's sweet and I think he really likes me too. I'm not sure exactly on the same level as me liking him but I can tell he likes at least as a friend. Probably more!! See, my sister does the wrong thing about the guys she likes. She just pretty much likes them from affar. She doesn't talk to her crush or anything really. As for me, I talk to Von everyday and we are pretty tight. He even showed me a picture of a guy's butt on his phone!! LOL. No it was really funny though. But that's off topic.
Anyways, try to become good friends with the guys you like and if you stop liking them then at least you'll be friends with them!!
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Posted: Sun Feb 03, 2008 4:52 pm
Oh my goodness! I do have a chance before the end of the year!
Well...lets just say I don't have a myspace, but I do look at the myspaces of people I know, and so I've been checking his, just because it didn't seem that his girlfriend was the too fondest of their relationship, and what do you know, he's single again! This is guy number two, just so you all know. I wouldn't be so happy about the one who got himself suspended by breaking into the school's pool to go swimming (what an idiot, my Spanish teacher jokes around saying, "Usually kids try to get out of school, let alone breaking in.").
Oh man! I really don't want to cause problems, I've never seen the girl in my life before (I don't even know what grade she's in), but if he really does like me, I'll let him approach me for now. I'm not going to all of a sudden right after he breaks up try and cause trouble and see if he'll go out with me, that's how I got upset when my boyfriend broke up with me to go out with someone else. So yeah =P I still should probably wait it out for a little while. Darn, that still would leave me dateless to the Valentine's Dance (not that I like Valentine's Day or anything, but its kind of a dance you'd like a date too...).
This has made my weekend! I mean I finally talked everything out with a friend (I at first refused to tell her, since who it was was kind of embarrassing since we usually are fighting and everything), and she said she noticed him flirting with me, and he's not very nice to many people (I mean, he picks on people, all good humor). No, the nice stuff was before he was going out with his girlfriend...
Ok, that's my happy rantish thing. For once, I have a chance!
-dances around and goes to play her flute instead of finishing her essay she should have finished at 10 this morning-
Hehe, the art of procrastination. Not only in friendship/relationships, as you see, but also in homework. I do it, and I get good grades, and am in top courses, but I tend to procrastinate a lot. Now, I shall go play the evil modern piece that I almost decided to do for competition, and my Hungarian piece I am doing for competition, along with the French one I did last year. Yay! I might sing while I'm at it!
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