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 Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 6:17 pm
I think that my boyfriend might have slightly ripped me open down there. A couple weeks ago, we were going at it pretty hard....
Sex from that point has been slightly painful. It takes time to get comfortable once he's inside and, for some reason, he seems to feel larger now.
And it really hurts when he wears a condom!!! I don't know why but it does. Everything is well lubricated so I don't understand it. Eventually, he has to take it off (yes, I know it's dangerous and can lead to pregnancy ). Once he takes it off, it feels a little better.
1) if you're ripped open, does healing down below make your hole smaller?
2) does anyone know why the condom hurts me now?
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 7:40 pm
No, a tear in your v****a will not make it smaller in any way. Although if you keep having sex before you are healed, it can cause you some pain and cause swelling.
Never take the condom off unless you actually want a baby. Never forget that if you are ready for sex, you are ready to be responsible about it. So rather than just taking it off, do something about it. If condoms hurts you, you could be allergic to latex or spermicide. You can try a non-latex condom or a condom without spermicide. You can also get a hormonal method of birth control.
You can talk to your ob-gyn about both issues. You should be seeing an ob-gyn anyway if you are sexually active. If you think you might have a tear or some swelling, schedule an appointment. If that is the problem, your ob-gyn can give you a cream to decrease the swelling and help you heal.
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Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 11:47 pm
Maybe you've developed a latex allergy? You should try spermicide. Or birth control pills.
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 8:10 am
The Acid Queen Maybe you've developed a latex allergy? You should try spermicide. Or birth control pills.
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