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 Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 6:11 pm
My girl and I are planning on haveing sex sometime soon, but before we do, we wanna stretch her because she is SUPER tight and it'd hurt far too much. Is there any way we can stretch her without it hurting too badly? We thought fingering and working in extra fingers would help, but does anyone have any tips or ideas? Thanks a lot guys.
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 7:34 pm
Well, the first step is understanding the v****a. Many people think the v****a stretches out from fingers or from penises. That is not true, however.
The v****a stays the same after manual sex, masturbation, or sex. A baby can stretch the v****a permanently, but fingers and penises will not.
Chances are your partner is not too tiny for sex. v****a size does not vary as much as p***s size does. The average v****a can handle an above average p***s with no problem at all if the woman is in the mood and well lubricated. The v****a expands a great deal when a woman is in the mood.
So before having sex, make sure your partner is relaxed and in the mood. Make sure you have a water-based lubricant handy. Also make sure you use protection and that she sees an ob-gyn.
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 8:34 pm
I dunno, I mean I can get one finger in, but not even close to two, even if she is really in the mood and about to orgasm from manual stimulation.
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 9:12 pm
Try a water-based lubricant. If that does not make it better, she can talk to an ob-gyn to make sure things look normal.
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Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 7:38 pm
Shes been going to her obgyn lately, and they put her on BCP so I'm assuming that everything looks alright. I tried, and got 2 fingers in today, it helped that she was relaxed, but she said afterward that it hurt a lot and I think I tore her lining or something, as we did that and I started to eat her out again, and it tasted more metalic, and she said that later she'd had a little bit of blood, and decided to use a pad. So yeah, I don't know. Also, she said that it didn't hurt the second time as much, (I just did it twic).
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Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 8:49 pm
That's great that she is going to an ob-gyn. If she gets paps, then she probably gets a metal tool that is larger than your finger put into her v****a to hold it open. So if she does that with no problem, she is capable of having your finger in there with no problem. You can ask her about it. Ask her how big the tool is and how lubricated it is. The one my ob-gyn uses is about the size and shape of a p***s, and they put a great deal of lubricant on it. If she says it is the same at her ob-gyn, then the difference would probably be the lubrication or her comfort level.
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Posted: Mon Jan 21, 2008 8:01 am
I don't really think you need to 'stretch' her out, and like Lorien said you couldn't if you wanted to. Vaginas are stretchy as it is and will pretty much accomodate most sizes if gone about the right way. Try different possitions and see if that effects the tightness and try to get her really relaxed and not worried about it hurting.
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Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 7:07 pm
i agree with both of them, you can't really get it stretched out, a girl just gets use to it. my boyfriend use to just stick an inch of it in and then i'd get use to it and eventually he put it all the way in, so just get her comfortable and use to the feeling so it feels good going in, not painful
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