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 Posted: Fri Jan 11, 2008 9:37 pm
******** MY EX! SARAS A FOOL! SHE NEVER GOT IT AND SHES SAYING SHE DOES AND I KNOW SHE DOESNT! ******** I DONT CARE ANYMORE!
ok just ahd to get that out in public
[edit] See David's post below. [/edit]
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Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 12:57 am
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Why bother posting that when you're not asking a question or explaining anything? This is really just spam.
Sure, maybe it's 3am and I'm tired and not going to sleep before working a 10 hour shift in two hours... so if I'm a bit harsh, sorry.
Also, I have a pet-peeve against people making emo, online posts about other people on websites. I've had people do it to me, for me to see but not able to respond to since it isn't clearly directed at me and so that I randomly ran across it, take it to the person or to a friend in private. At least where you kinda have an idea of who it is.
I don't know what's going on, and I'm sorry, but at least state the problem so people can help, or something.
I will say, it takes two to tango.
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Posted: Mon Jan 14, 2008 5:45 pm
Agreed... Unless you want to explain, it's kind of silly to post that here. Why not in the CB, or in a journal or something?
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Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 1:54 pm
This looks an awful lot like spam/rant. If you would check the rules... this is frowned upon. I understand that you seem to be upset in this post, and while i do not enjoy deleting posts, you will need to edit it to include some kind of discussion or question or I will need to take the thread down.
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Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 3:35 pm
Just letting it out really helps a lot, guys. Having someone pay attention who isn't obligated to helps a lot. I've had to do that on an unadvertised blog I had after my first gf.
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Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 4:24 pm
The problem is, you have to let out in the appropriate place in the appropriate way.
I wouldn't go into congress and start ranting about my toe socks. As awesome as I think they may be, or as much as I may be infuriated by them, I'm just not going to.
The rules clearly state no spam, and it's generally known spam makes you less liked than not-spamming.
I know he has my number, if he wanted to call me he could and I'd be more than happy to lend an ear when I'm not obligated to. I also imagine he has more people more than willing to listen... in fact, I feel certain he does. Perhaps he has even more friends in the guild than just me? I don't pretend to know who he's friends with... but he could PM one of them or message them on some messenger/website or something.
There are plenty of days I come in here upset about something, but I don't make a vague angry post... I either try to explain my feelings and get other's views or I just let it be and talk to my friends/boyfriend/whoever is around that will talk to me about it.
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Posted: Fri Jan 25, 2008 8:04 pm
ok now that im calm i can speak
my ex broke up with me on xmas day, and for the weeks afterward she constantly blamed me, and i refused to take her back because of her lack of regard for the words she uses, for example, she said and i quote "if we break up were not getting back together" when shes begging me to get back with her all the time, when i nkew those words, and each time she talks its always like guilt tripping me into getting back with her, which im not doing since she was more than mistreating me, i know im better than that now
but the whole idea was that she was toying with my emotions to try and make me want her again and i couldnt take it anymore
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 12:34 pm
Davidthechaosman ok now that im calm i can speak my ex broke up with me on xmas day, and for the weeks afterward she constantly blamed me, and i refused to take her back because of her lack of regard for the words she uses, for example, she said and i quote "if we break up were not getting back together" when shes begging me to get back with her all the time, when i nkew those words, and each time she talks its always like guilt tripping me into getting back with her, which im not doing since she was more than mistreating me, i know im better than that now but the whole idea was that she was toying with my emotions to try and make me want her again and i couldnt take it anymore
You shouldn't take her back, don't make yourself settle for less than you're worth..and i don't think being dumped on Christmas is what a female should do to you =/
Tell yourself, you wont go back, and no matter what don't settle for less than best. Honestly, and don't look for a new girlfriend/partner. Just focus on yourself and it will come naturally. Don't worry, nice guys never finish last, there is a wonderful girl out there made for you..so if you spend your time with this Sarah person, you may never find her sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 9:04 am
PiercedPixie56 Davidthechaosman ok now that im calm i can speak my ex broke up with me on xmas day, and for the weeks afterward she constantly blamed me, and i refused to take her back because of her lack of regard for the words she uses, for example, she said and i quote "if we break up were not getting back together" when shes begging me to get back with her all the time, when i nkew those words, and each time she talks its always like guilt tripping me into getting back with her, which im not doing since she was more than mistreating me, i know im better than that now but the whole idea was that she was toying with my emotions to try and make me want her again and i couldnt take it anymore
You shouldn't take her back, don't make yourself settle for less than you're worth..and i don't think being dumped on Christmas is what a female should do to you =/
Tell yourself, you wont go back, and no matter what don't settle for less than best. Honestly, and don't look for a new girlfriend/partner. Just focus on yourself and it will come naturally. Don't worry, nice guys never finish last, there is a wonderful girl out there made for you..so if you spend your time with this Sarah person, you may never find her sweatdrop as you spoke, someone so much better did come along ^.^ and with her shes actually getting along with all my girl-friends instead of the other... stare but i should stay more active in this guild if anything, and i know am much happier with myself, and now that my efforts can stop being fruitless and start lving for me and those who i promised i would (long backstory behind that statement)
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Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 9:18 am
all i can say is:
theres two sides to every break up.
sure one of my exs was a whore (quite literally and figureativley). but i realized after the relationship that i wasnt giving enough attention (or i was but wasnt showing it.) among other things.
maybe things will get better with the new girl. maybe not if you dont work on your own faults as well. if you dont think you have any you are sadly mistaken, we are only human.
also, im with everyone else where next time you feel like you need to vent, by all means do it, make sure you do it appropriatley within guild rules.
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Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 11:44 am
if i defied any rules i humbly apologize
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