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 Posted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 9:04 pm
First off, this is a rant, if you don't want to read it, well don't. ^^ Other wise, I suppose proceed.
Alright, I would like to know why some guys are shallow? No, not all, just some. Short background story: I'm talking to a friend of a mine, earlier today she was talking to a friend of mine we have in common and he said that he finds girls who are bigger with big boobs disgusting. No, he didn't out right say my friend was fat or anything, but it still hurt her feelings and it was really rude because she and I fit that body type. So she tells me, it hurts my feelings too and I want to know why the ******** he is my fiend if he things girls like me are disgusting.
Maybe I'm being too emotional about this, but I've finally slowly started to accept my body. For years I've been told how my sister is 'smokin'', 'sexy', and 'hot' so on so forth; she's skinny and petite. Now on the flip side I'm not attractive because I'm bigger hipped, really big chested, and a bit pudgy. I'm not disgusting fat, I don't have fat rolls that hang out of my clothes or off of my body, I am just a little pudgy in the stomach area, and my thighs are a bit bigger. If I were really skinny I would look so disproportionate and odd, not to mention my body build is stocky, I got my father's genes.
I just don't get why, if I'm so disgusting he bothers to talk to me, and what not. Better yet, why he would be so shallow and rude as to say that, because I won't like, it hurts.
Well there's the end of my rant and wall of text.
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Posted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 9:28 pm
Talk to him. That's all I can say. When I guy friend says something to me that upsets me, I hit him in the arm and say, "Gee Thanks!" It's amazing how fast they then try to cover their tracks... "Oh! I didn't mean it that way!"
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Posted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 9:31 pm
If I could I would, I'll be tracking his a** down tomorrow to say something.
However! Right now I am working on my wish list! I've designed a new Avatar. Woot me.
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Posted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 9:54 pm
i've found that a lot of the time, if a guy makes a comment like that in front of someone, it's usually because he doesn't see that person like that. so i wouldn't be offended.
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Posted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 9:59 pm
I agree with thed. Why would a friend purposely hurt your feelings? He probably didn't even apply you and your other friend into that statement.
But what he said was just mean in general. Definitely punch him for it. xd
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Posted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 10:07 pm
Alright, I shall punch him anyway for saying a mean comment in general. However I won't punch him for hurting my feelings, I shall go with Thed's idea and give him the benefit of the doubt. 3nodding
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Posted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 10:15 pm
Bleh... I shouldn't be here, but... I think guys say things a lot of the time before they think about it. Personal experience. I don't think it would hurt him if you punched or slapped or did something to him...
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Posted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 10:19 pm
I'm a vicious short person, I dunno, I could hurt him possibly, but I wouldn't try. Just ruff him up a little and slapping is for pansys, I would rather punch someone I find it much more satisfying. I mean the most a slap does is sting and have a red mark, less you back hand, then you can leave a bruise.
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Posted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 10:26 pm
Oh?... then maybe you should punch lightly?
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Posted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 10:36 pm
[C]harlie[K]at I'm a vicious short person, I dunno, I could hurt him possibly, but I wouldn't try. Just ruff him up a little and slapping is for pansys, I would rather punch someone I find it much more satisfying. I mean the most a slap does is sting and have a red mark, less you back hand, then you can leave a bruise. i love you. punching is way better. the greatest moment of my life was punching my ex in the face. almost broke my hand, but his face looked worse. XD
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Posted: Sat Jan 05, 2008 7:52 pm
Dayum. >_< Boys are... One track thinking machines. -Sigh- Guys also don't think before they speak. My best guess is that he doesn't realize that he's insulting you or your friend. And if he's a really close friend, then he doesn't think you're disgusting at all. =D And I'm sure he doesn't think of you in that way where he'd consider checking you out or anything. Now, he shouldn't have said what he said the way he did. "Disgusting" is a harsh word. D:
I just hope he hasn't made you grow a grude against petite girls. >___< Always remember that EVERY girl is beautiful in their own way, even if some people don't see it.
Z-Snap in his face and be like, "Oh, NO you didn't!" XD
YOU GO GIRL! <3
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