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 Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 12:22 pm
Honestly I'm 18 and I still don't really feel I'm ready, even if things start going way better with the girl I'm trying to hook up with, even if she thinks it might be a good idea. I've had a few sexual mishaps more than experiences, hell I had a chance to lose my virginity prom night with a girl I'd been dating for maybe 2 months, yeah not a lot of respect for her self? I'm sorry, but me and her hadn't known each other long enough to go that far, then she threatened to cut my d**k off the next day... but that's a different story.
In a way, I believe in abstinence, but at the same time I really believe sex is more of a sacred thing, sure it feels good, hell if I know to be honest, but damnit that action can have so many consequences if you're not careful. I believe if you're gonna get physical with anyone, make damn sure you love them.
My friend Z tried talking to the girl I like about sex once, ends up the girl doesn't even really know how it works, just that 1 + the other = sex. There is being innocent and then there's being INNOCENT, she was the first girl I'd ever met that really didn't say or know anything about sex. I mean even the girlfriends I've known were virgins wouldn't shut up about sex sometimes. That's right, I'm a guy that doesn't care about sex! God my first kiss alone was weird to me, I mean I felt great that I finally kissed a girl, I was 17, but it just felt really weird to me. Everything feels weird to me in a way, physically speaking.
I'm more or less afraid of sex because so many relationships I've been in get destroyed thanks to someones white lies about themselves. You know it hurts a lot less to come out and tell a guy or girl the truth about yourself. Sometimes they accept what there is, and they forgive you for being dishonest at first. If you keep lying until the day you ******** up and it all comes crashing down, well then things get pretty awry. 2 girls have lied to me about being virgins, I have no idea why they would tell me that to begin with. 2 weeks into a relationship and I'm supposed to give a ******** about sex?
I've hit some low points in my life all because people can't just be honest about sex anymore, either you can wait for it or you can't. That applies to virgins and non-virgins, really, I'm not kidding. I dunno I'm rambling right about now... I'm gonna go crawl up in the fetal position and cry some because I'm feeling low.
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Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 5:07 pm
The Dread Pirate Ghosty el cabong (this could be my sad attempt to try and breathe some life in this place...) you know. i wonder when most teenagers get their first kiss....im pretty sure its much later than we think....
And then 18-20 for the rest of us.My first proper kiss I was 8 >.<
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Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 6:48 am
MadameStoner *sigh*
i had a nice steamy make out session about a week ago, but thats the most i've had in a really long time
i haven't had sex in ages...
i miss it
i'm extremely sexually frustrated, grr! it's finally changed!
well, it actually changed like a month ago
madame is no longer quite as horny, as she's been gettin' some every weekend since like... valentines day
but i need to put the ho away for a while... 3 different guys in 4 weeks? not a good thing
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Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 8:30 am
XXX Zombie Porn My first proper kiss I was 8 >.<
I didn't even know about sex... well, I knew about it, but it didn't register as I grew up in a single parent household and my mom never had boyfriends.
So I just never really thought that it was a part of everyday life, haha.
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Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 9:20 am
i've known about sex since i was at least 6
bad things happened to me as a kid, which is why i've known about sex for pretty much my entire life. a 7 year old should not know what sex is all about, but s**t happens i guess...
i think its a bad thing for kids to know about sex at young ages... i'm probably one of the only 17 year olds out there who are as comfortable about sex as i am, and i'm pretty sure it stems off the fact that i've known about it for so long. and it probably doesnt help that my therapist and my mom were all like "sex isn't a bad thing. its a natural thing that occurs between two people, blah blah blah" at the tender age o' 7.
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Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 11:05 am
MadameStoner MadameStoner *sigh*
i had a nice steamy make out session about a week ago, but thats the most i've had in a really long time
i haven't had sex in ages...
i miss it
i'm extremely sexually frustrated, grr! it's finally changed!
well, it actually changed like a month ago
madame is no longer quite as horny, as she's been gettin' some every weekend since like... valentines day
but i need to put the ho away for a while... 3 different guys in 4 weeks? not a good thing
Just be careful chick, i was like that too =/ And i have HPV ((STD detected by Pap smears)), do yourself a favor and get the Guardasil Vaccine. It makes it hard to get a serious boyfriend after you tell them that..but thankfully, i met a guy that didn't mind, because after talking for a long time, after visiting him, we'd like to get married - so he wont have to worry about giving it to other girls - I'll be his last..unless something awful happens..but i don't really plan on that x3
But now, im in this waiting period >_> When i visited my boyfriend in England, we had sex, like 3 times a day for two weeks, even though he was a virgin, he caught on damn quick 4laugh
Preparing for this...2 month wait...But he's worth waiting for :3
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Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2008 8:31 am
PiercedPixie56 MadameStoner MadameStoner *sigh*
i had a nice steamy make out session about a week ago, but thats the most i've had in a really long time
i haven't had sex in ages...
i miss it
i'm extremely sexually frustrated, grr! it's finally changed!
well, it actually changed like a month ago
madame is no longer quite as horny, as she's been gettin' some every weekend since like... valentines day
but i need to put the ho away for a while... 3 different guys in 4 weeks? not a good thing
Just be careful chick, i was like that too =/ And i have HPV ((STD detected by Pap smears)), do yourself a favor and get the Guardasil Vaccine. It makes it hard to get a serious boyfriend after you tell them that..but thankfully, i met a guy that didn't mind, because after talking for a long time, after visiting him, we'd like to get married - so he wont have to worry about giving it to other girls - I'll be his last..unless something awful happens..but i don't really plan on that x3
But now, im in this waiting period >_> When i visited my boyfriend in England, we had sex, like 3 times a day for two weeks, even though he was a virgin, he caught on damn quick 4laugh
Preparing for this...2 month wait...But he's worth waiting for :3 cha, i know. which is why i'm putting a stop to it now
it was fun for a while, but i don't wanna be "that girl", heh
and thats so awesome you found someone worth waitng for
4laugh
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 5:36 am
MadameStoner i've known about sex since i was at least 6
bad things happened to me as a kid, which is why i've known about sex for pretty much my entire life. a 7 year old should not know what sex is all about, but s**t happens i guess...
i think its a bad thing for kids to know about sex at young ages... i'm probably one of the only 17 year olds out there who are as comfortable about sex as i am, and i'm pretty sure it stems off the fact that i've known about it for so long. and it probably doesnt help that my therapist and my mom were all like "sex isn't a bad thing. its a natural thing that occurs between two people, blah blah blah" at the tender age o' 7. My mum was always open about sex with me, and well it did the complete opposite, I can't stand hearing about sex a lot of the time. 7 year old doesn't need to know what sex is. Seriously, she feel she needs to be open about the idea of a sex life with me to provide trust or something; that's weird as hell!! By all means I love my mom, but the way she carries on about sex and the number of partners she has I can't help but call her a complete whore behind her back... having a little brother with a different father than me doesn't help either. Ugh, she has no shame on anything, she'll never trust me that sex isn't my intent, I'd been hanging out with Emily for a week or so and this was my mom's first question. "So have you ******** her yet?" Not, have you two experimented, she blatantly asks if we're ********... sure mom, I use intercourse as an ice breaker. No I don't function particularly well in normal society because everything makes me uncomfortable due to parental stimuli.
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 8:33 am
My boyfriend's dad and I discussed Natalie Portman's nipples while watching V for Vindetta, lol... that always amuses me. Actually, it went from her nipples to nipples in general, and would have been more awkward had it gone much further beyond him saying "I like nipples" I wanted to be like "I'm so very proud"
He's the type his son turned out completely different from him because he told Rob to go out and have sex every night when he was 17, because he had when he was 17. When Rob was coming to visit me he told him to not get me pregnant but "if you could get a blow-job out of her, that'd be awesome" And when he found his box of condoms he was like "I'm so proud son, way to go." I mean, I've never heard of a father telling their son if they prefer girls shaved or anything, I was like "what??"
Of course, I think Rob turned out very differently from the rest of his family, lol.
His mom just asked if he was a virgin, and if we used protection... and I think that's the best route to go.
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 8:50 am
My dad is completely vague and normal about all things like that, though I hardly ever get too see him, only like 6 days a month. I asked him for advice about Emily and he just told me to take my time, it's the one thing that men in his family always screw up on according to him. Just be patient and be a good friend... doesn't that seem kinda backwards? A dad that gives the good thoughtful advice? The only time the conversation ever leaned towards sex was the day before Prom my dad said, "If yu know... you're gonna use one right?" That was it, placing complete trust in my decision making. eek
The only other time we talked about sex was when we were watching Alien, and we started talking about Sigourney Weaver... she has a cute butt.
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 9:57 pm
MangaJoe My dad is completely vague and normal about all things like that, though I hardly ever get too see him, only like 6 days a month. I asked him for advice about Emily and he just told me to take my time, it's the one thing that men in his family always screw up on according to him. Just be patient and be a good friend... doesn't that seem kinda backwards? A dad that gives the good thoughtful advice? The only time the conversation ever leaned towards sex was the day before Prom my dad said, "If yu know... you're gonna use one right?" That was it, placing complete trust in my decision making. eek The only other time we talked about sex was when we were watching Alien, and we started talking about Sigourney Weaver... she has a cute butt.
Then again, I don't have one to base that judgement off of, since he died before I was born... sweatdrop
And I view Rob's dad as a-typical.
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 10:05 pm
The Dread Pirate Ghosty MangaJoe My dad is completely vague and normal about all things like that, though I hardly ever get too see him, only like 6 days a month. I asked him for advice about Emily and he just told me to take my time, it's the one thing that men in his family always screw up on according to him. Just be patient and be a good friend... doesn't that seem kinda backwards? A dad that gives the good thoughtful advice? The only time the conversation ever leaned towards sex was the day before Prom my dad said, "If yu know... you're gonna use one right?" That was it, placing complete trust in my decision making. eek The only other time we talked about sex was when we were watching Alien, and we started talking about Sigourney Weaver... she has a cute butt.
Then again, I don't have one to base that judgement off of, since he died before I was born... sweatdrop
And I view Rob's dad as a-typical.Well I appreciate my dad's advice so much more than my mom's, he actually went through all the awkwardness and geekiness that I did. lol, once again I've proven my mum as too being worst person to give advice ever. Her phone broke and I happened to be at her place, so I let her use mine, and well she starts looking through it. "Wow, you have a ton of girls phone numbers on here." "Yeah, I just love college." most sarcastic tone... ever. "I knew you'd love it!" "Oh yeah, the drunken booty call was just wonderful." "What?" "Yeah one of the girls on their called me up drunk... for a booty call." "Well did you?" "Did I what?" "Did you go with it?" "I have standards mom..." "You're in college just go have fun." "I am having fun, with one person, you know... faithfully... by not going around getting any I can." "You're boring."
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