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 Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 6:49 pm
i know how i told you all my friend's boyfriend was a major cheater and he almost had me gaia banned....well she and i became friends again and we kinda fell inlove but her boyfriend(him being him) made her like just basically get rid of me.....one last time i just wish how i knew how she felt about me......i dont know why i want to know maybe because she had
this made of us.....i just want to know if she still loves me....WHAT CAN I DO!?!?!??!?!?!? my friends have tried asking but they all ******** up......
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Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 7:33 pm
:/ Seems to me that that situation altogether is bad. Try to distance yourself away from it, and after the girl has gotten some space, ask her one more time. And if she says she has no feelings for you, then try to move on as best as you can, okay?
Hope this helps.. <3
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Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 7:45 pm
Asashina :/ Seems to me that that situation altogether is bad. Try to distance yourself away from it, and after the girl has gotten some space, ask her one more time. And if she says she has no feelings for you, then try to move on as best as you can, okay?
Hope this helps.. <3 cant she blocked me
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Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 8:09 pm
Tsume-Fluff Asashina :/ Seems to me that that situation altogether is bad. Try to distance yourself away from it, and after the girl has gotten some space, ask her one more time. And if she says she has no feelings for you, then try to move on as best as you can, okay?
Hope this helps.. <3 cant she blocked me
Then there isn't much you can do... I guess try to move on and if she ever PMs you, or unblocks you, try talking to her. Otherwise, just try to move on. There's not much else I can tell you Dx
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Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 8:29 pm
I think that in a situation like this, the best thing to do is just move on. This girl and boy have caused you nothing but a great deal of grief, and at this point in time, it doesn't appear as if she wants you in her life. Now, you can blame that on the boyfriend if you want, and it's possible it is all his fault, but either way, that's the truth. As painful as that is, it's just something you have to accept.
Now, in the future, something may happen between this boy and girl to drive them apart, at which point the girl may attempt to contact you once more. At that time, you can make a decision as to whether or not you want to allow her back into your life. The more distance you have from the situation, the better the chances that you can make decisions that are the best for you.
However, this girl may never attempt to contact you, and that is a fact you need to come to terms with. You can't force yourself on her, and if she doesn't want to be with you or talk to you, that's something you don't have control over. That's why it's best to start the healing process now, instead of waiting in vain for something that might never happen. I know it might, but it also might now, and the longer you try to hold on, the harder it will be to let go.
I understand that you are worried for her, because you care for her, but you can only help her if she wants to be helped. As it stands, she seems willing to be with this guy and unfortunately, there's nothing you can do about that. You've gotten to a point where things have reached a standstill, and you have two choices: one, you can hold on, or two, you can move on. Really, it's up to you, but I know which one I would choose.
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