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Respectful Rhino

PostPosted: Sat Dec 15, 2007 9:23 pm


Send me five overbearing and overemotional humans!


Okay, first clarification, I'm a gay guy who's a junior in high school. I am out.

Ready... and... GO!

So if you guys have heard I got 'cheated' on by my friend with benefits. So I broke it off with him. So he's out of the picture.

Now I used to like my ex-boyfriends hot ex step-brother starting off early last year. And I've liked him off and on ever since. We were never really friends until this year. I joined choir this year and so did he, we ended up in the same choir as folder partners. Which was kinda awkward at first cuz' I didn't know how to really act around him. Then we became friends, so the awkward was gone. But there's also this other kid who sits right next to us in choir and we talk with him too. He's known I've been gay for a bit and he ended up telling Eric, the kid I like. Eric didn't really care. His mom's a lesbian so it doesn't really phase him I guess. Apparentally Graham, the other kid, figured out that I like Eric again and ended up telling Eric. Eric didn't seem to care. They both just kinda joke around with me. Like Graham will say things about Eric 'liking' me. But as a joke.
I'm pretty sure Eric is straight. But on the other hand he's really metro so he could be bi. I personally believe that everyone's a little bi at least but that's not too important. For our winter concert that we had this past Thursday Eric and I worked with two others on some percussion accompaniment to some of the songs. So we were all together the entire 2+ hours of the concert. While backstage we were all sitting down for out one set of songs that we weren't on stage and Eric ended up with his knee resting on my knee. Usually I'd expect him to move it but he kept it there and didn't seem to mind. Then during our all combined choir piece he was right behind me. And when I say right behind me I mean his pelvis almost pressing against my butt because we had to fit 170+ people on three small risers. He ended up grabbing or hitting my a** at least seven times during the 1 minute 45 second song. So I'm starting to get some vibes of him being gay or bi and actually liking me. To top it all off I've ended up thinking I love him. But not in a true love way.

How do I go about finding out without sounding completely desperate.


No! Not teenagers!
PostPosted: Sun Dec 16, 2007 12:04 am


Do you deny liking him when they talk about it? If not you could confront him nicely, something along the lines of this:

"Dude, what're you doing. You know I'm gay, you know I like you. Are you trying to tell me something with all of this contact or is it just accidental? I'd really hate to think you're doing it just to drive me nuts."

If he's just messing with you he'll probably stop. If not, well.. need I go there?

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korikun the cat

PostPosted: Sun Dec 16, 2007 3:53 am


User ImageOkay, first of all, i'd say go for it. Second of all, love is a really strong word, And personally, I think it's probably not love. When you really put it in perspective, you can't really love someone you haven't dated because you wouldn't know how you'd like them being intamite and alone and what not. That really worry's me, because if you start saying you love somebody, you might be setting yourself up for heartbreak.

But still, go for it.

This was written at 4:00 in the morning, so my thoughts may not be all there.


~<3
PostPosted: Sun Dec 16, 2007 7:18 am


I doubt it's love, babe. No offense, but it's very, very unlikely.

and hahaha
he's a dumbass.
like a REAL dumbass
from what I've heard at least.

Just be like. In a "joking" way... when they say stuff about you liking Eric/whatever, be all "Ahaha yeah thats why he totally grabbed my a**."

See how he reacts. :]

` l e x i i


Respectful Rhino

PostPosted: Sun Dec 16, 2007 8:18 am


Send me five overbearing and overemotional humans!


Yeah, I doubt it's real love but at this age I perceive it as love. It's probably not true love though.

I'm pretty much used to the heartbreak and stuff but I dunno. I'll probably take your guys' advice and stuff.

The other thing is that since it is my ex's ex step brother he doesn't like the fact that I like Eric.


No! Not teenagers!
PostPosted: Sun Dec 16, 2007 8:26 am


Firstly, I wouldn't say love, I'd say have a strong like for. Because it's not love till its given in return.

Second, You could always go with the "get a friend to do it" approach. You know, have em go...

"Heeeeeey Eric? Do you like Rhino-kun? Because I saw you during the show..."

It usually avoids any sort of conflict if you avoid mentioning that you like them in return. xD

Hirun Hikari


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 17, 2007 5:07 am


korikun the cat
User ImageOkay, first of all, i'd say go for it. Second of all, love is a really strong word, And personally, I think it's probably not love. When you really put it in perspective, you can't really love someone you haven't dated because you wouldn't know how you'd like them being intamite and alone and what not. That really worry's me, because if you start saying you love somebody, you might be setting yourself up for heartbreak.

But still, go for it.

This was written at 4:00 in the morning, so my thoughts may not be all there.


~<3
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I agree and disagree. Looking back on s**t I've been through I can truthfully say I've been in love twice, and once I never ended up with the kid.

But it wasn't anything like this..DAN YOU SERIOUSLY LIKE HIM. USE ******** it, just talk to him about it.
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