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 Posted: Wed Dec 22, 2004 5:35 pm
First off, you have to be happy with yourself before anyone else will. 3nodding Like with me--I've always been teased because I have a pear shape and I carry most of my weight in my hips, butt, and thighs. Everyone loves to point out that I'm not a size 1, no, I'm not the ideal weight of 110, but I could care less anymore. Don't let silly ignorant people bother your self esteem. What you need to ask is, hey, am I happy with myself? And I'll tell you what, if you're not happy with yourself, then start doing something that pleases you. If you're absolutely sure that your physical appearance is not going to change unless you go on one of those silly diets...then that's fine! You should try doing something you love, whether it be playing with legos (^^ those are cool beans) or building models, playing video games, whatever! Get good at something and then I promise you, you'll feel a whole lot better about yourself. Something I actually recommend is pilates. This is the ideal workout for me because I'm lazy and hate getting sweaty. Get a box of pilates cards and all it is is basically putting yourself in weird positions. xp It makes you feel great, look great, everything! The best part is, it will make you feel accomplished. So, try something new, etc. I know you can build your self esteem. 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Dec 22, 2004 7:16 pm
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Posted: Wed Dec 22, 2004 11:16 pm
God I hate people like that. I got into a few fights cause of jackasses like them people.
Here's one thing you might be able to do if nothing else works for you, go along with them, that's what I did whenever somone made fun of my cause my weight, me being in special ed for 3 years, or my crying when I got upset.
For me how I did it is if anyone made fun of my weight like saying "nice boobs!" I'd say something like "Yeah they keep me from getting too lonely at night." or something like that and they'd laugh and never make fun of me again.
That is a last ditch effort though for me cause I tried fighting, talking about it with them, and the other stuff but I just find that going along with the joke/tease makes them realise it don't hurt you so they give up.
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Posted: Thu Dec 23, 2004 2:54 am
I suggest you join the wrestling team, or some other activity that provides excercise and serves as a good reminder to everybody else just exactly how extra weight can be used to inflict massive spinal trauma on them.
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Posted: Thu Dec 23, 2004 8:54 am
Inuyasha20649 God I hate people like that. I got into a few fights cause of jackasses like them people. Here's one thing you might be able to do if nothing else works for you, go along with them, that's what I did whenever somone made fun of my cause my weight, me being in special ed for 3 years, or my crying when I got upset. For me how I did it is if anyone made fun of my weight like saying "nice boobs!" I'd say something like "Yeah they keep me from getting too lonely at night." or something like that and they'd laugh and never make fun of me again. That is a last ditch effort though for me cause I tried fighting, talking about it with them, and the other stuff but I just find that going along with the joke/tease makes them realise it don't hurt you so they give up. A most profound answer... I like to think that I retaliate to assholes from school by being funny, but most of the time I just slag them off back and it all ends up in a fight scream . Also, what usually works for me is that they know that I'm crazy as hell, so I just sometimes flip out on them... Everyone ph33r5 t3h cr42y guy...
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Posted: Thu Dec 23, 2004 12:04 pm
Phantom_Dragmir Inuyasha20649 God I hate people like that. I got into a few fights cause of jackasses like them people. Here's one thing you might be able to do if nothing else works for you, go along with them, that's what I did whenever somone made fun of my cause my weight, me being in special ed for 3 years, or my crying when I got upset. For me how I did it is if anyone made fun of my weight like saying "nice boobs!" I'd say something like "Yeah they keep me from getting too lonely at night." or something like that and they'd laugh and never make fun of me again. That is a last ditch effort though for me cause I tried fighting, talking about it with them, and the other stuff but I just find that going along with the joke/tease makes them realise it don't hurt you so they give up. A most profound answer... I like to think that I retaliate to assholes from school by being funny, but most of the time I just slag them off back and it all ends up in a fight scream . Also, what usually works for me is that they know that I'm crazy as hell, so I just sometimes flip out on them... Everyone ph33r5 t3h cr42y guy... i be the carazy chick..... I stopped 95% of my teasing and torment by FLIPPING out and shreiking and screaming at this one kid. I had 2nd period sci with him last year. The teacher, known school wide as a b***h, was in the room. She just looked at me, smiled while i was doing it. She hated the kid as well. An odd thing happened afterward though....I got a 3/67 on a test, yet my grading sheet said 67/67. silly silly computer glitches ^__^
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Posted: Thu Dec 23, 2004 1:27 pm
TenshiDarkAngel Phantom_Dragmir Inuyasha20649 God I hate people like that. I got into a few fights cause of jackasses like them people. Here's one thing you might be able to do if nothing else works for you, go along with them, that's what I did whenever somone made fun of my cause my weight, me being in special ed for 3 years, or my crying when I got upset. For me how I did it is if anyone made fun of my weight like saying "nice boobs!" I'd say something like "Yeah they keep me from getting too lonely at night." or something like that and they'd laugh and never make fun of me again. That is a last ditch effort though for me cause I tried fighting, talking about it with them, and the other stuff but I just find that going along with the joke/tease makes them realise it don't hurt you so they give up. A most profound answer... I like to think that I retaliate to assholes from school by being funny, but most of the time I just slag them off back and it all ends up in a fight scream . Also, what usually works for me is that they know that I'm crazy as hell, so I just sometimes flip out on them... Everyone ph33r5 t3h cr42y guy... i be the carazy chick..... I stopped 95% of my teasing and torment by FLIPPING out and shreiking and screaming at this one kid. I had 2nd period sci with him last year. The teacher, known school wide as a b***h, was in the room. She just looked at me, smiled while i was doing it. She hated the kid as well. An odd thing happened afterward though....I got a 3/67 on a test, yet my grading sheet said 67/67. silly silly computer glitches ^__^ Gotta love those glitches wink Well I would be smiling too!!!! I hate it when people make fun of others. I be the person who stands up for people, but is beaten up sweatdrop
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