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'Kay, so like... my ex's birthday is tomorrow. We were best friends since 8th grade, then in 10th she asked me out, then she ignored me for a year and a half, and last month she started talking to me again.

And I dunno if she just wants to be friends or if it's more than that or if it's like just guilt or what and ugh I dunno.

AND HER MYSPACE SAYS SHE'S STRAIGHT. gonk

But she's the only person I ever really felt that way about and she's important to me besides that too and I still don't know whether to trust her and it's crazy and she never told me why she ignored me in the first place and ahhhhh.

PPS, what do I do? Do I buy her a present for her birthday? I want to, but will she get the wrong idea? Should I even want to? What do I get for her? The only thing on her wishlist is that realy expensive top that's like 40k that I can't remember what it's called, and I know that buying her something expensive would be a bad move, but I don't wanna be cheap either, but what do I get for herrrr? ;_;

No, I mean that's the ONLY thing on her wishlist. Not even joking.

I'd rather just have something that I can send as a gift, that way I don't have to accept trades and whatnot... You can't just send gold, y'know?

Ooh, that's actually a really good idea. They're usually between 8-11k, right? That's probably not too expensive.

Thanks, Sonic. <3

Have you tried talking to her?

winterberries: What, you mean during the ignoring-me-for-a-year-and-a-half period? Yeah, I tried talking to her about a kajillion times. XD She... just always sorta brushed me off. We're talking again now, but she still won't tell me what happened. I've got theories, of course, but no way of knowing for sure... Anywaaaaay, we talk now.

Breathless: Aww, sorry to hear about your ex being a douche. Don't worry about it too much; he's not worth it if he puts you through that. (Ouch, the hypocrisy.) But yeah, I sent her an MC letter-thing with "Happy birthdaaaayyy! You're officially old. XP" attached to it. (She's 18 now. XD)