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Spiral Out

PostPosted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 6:27 am


I was watching the Early Show, and Harry Smith was interviewing a woman named Stephanie Anderson, a DA from Maine, I think. She was outraged by schools handing out birth control, and she's seen to it that in her state, it is illegal for anyone of the age 14 or under to engage in any sexual act, regardless of who they're with.

She went so far as to say, that instead of encouraging teens to have protected sex, that they go back to teaching an all abstinence based sexual education, AND if anyone 14 or under is caught in a sexual act they should be charged with Criminal Sexual Assault and prosecuted.

Now, as a parent myself, the idea of 14 year olds experimenting with their sexuality terrifies me, my friends and I were a few years older before any of us even had boyfriends, however, I think that this is beyond ridiculous. I don't understand how people can possibly think that abstinence-only education is an education at all.

I was happy to see that Harry didn't agree with her points of view. He said something along the lines of "Who are you to decide who gets to be the sex police?" and I was pleased.

I couldn't find anything about this particular interview online, but I did find a small article involving Anderson's views on the topic, here.
PostPosted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 6:45 am


Also, if they're a couple of 13 year olds experimenting, who the heck is being assaulted? And what defines "sexual activity"? Is it genital-genital contact? Oral-genital contact? Touching each other's genitals? The boy touching the girl's breasts? Deep kissing?

Dear God, I had my first french kiss at 14, by 15, I'd gotten halfway naked with my boyfriend. By 14, he'd touched my breasts, and I'd at least touched him through his pants. He didn't see me all naked until I was 17, didn't have oral until I was 18, and didn't have sex until I was in college (about 3 months after oral). Banning all sexual contact is WAY too open to abuse, unless the definitions are clear, and also, Criminal Sexual Assault? That's RIDICULOUS. Isn't that a FELONY? Two young teens experimenting too far is a call for counseling, and possibly Children's Services, not criminal prosecution!!!!!

As for the abstinence only education, that's just plain stupid. There was a discussion in the ADT a while ago... The U.S has a higher rate of abortion than some countries with more liberal abortion laws! And why? Because they have much better sex education!!!

RoseRose


Spiral Out

PostPosted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 8:05 am


Yeah, I'm pretty sure it is a felony. The schools are supposed to report ANY activity that's sexual, unfortunately (or maybe fortunately) there aren't any strict guidelines as to what acts would be "offensive."

The idea is, that if they caught two 14 year olds "experimenting" together, they would both be charged, and if Anderson had her way, prosecuted.
PostPosted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 8:23 am


So the idea here is not to protect children (since not only would they be denied birth control... the children would be punished for having sex rather than those who take advantage of them), but to punish and discourage sexual activity through invasive government intrusion into personal lives.

Children cannot consent to sex, to this I agree... but the rest is cutting your nose off to spite your face. confused

Talon-chan


PhaedraMcSpiffy

PostPosted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 10:32 am


Alternet on 'Harmful To Minors' by Judith Levine

Best book ever written about underage sexuality. Basically, it argues that "protecting" young people from sex is what's harmful. Read it.

Anyway... I think this law is bullshit. They're both kids, and as long as no manipulation or coercion is going on, it's perfectly healthy. They just need to use safer sex practices.
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