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Ok, so me and my bf are having sex but I can't come(my v****a sucks...) I've tried finding my G-spot but I can't! also, some positions feel great one day and then the next time we try it they hurt like hell! Is it the cervix(spelling sorry...)

When we taalk about he says things like "no it's not your fauly it's probablly mine" So is it possible to suck at sex? i mean what can a guy do to suck and what can a girl do to suck(to not be good not oral)

so yeah, is it possible? I'm pretty sure we got it right=_=

Well, it sounds like your problem is just a simple lack of knowledge about your own body. The more you know, the better the sex will be.

Your first mistake is that you're looking for your G-spot in order to orgasm. The vast majority of women orgasm from clitoral stimulation. Very few women claim to orgasm from G-spot stimulation. In fact, it's not even proven that all women have G-spots. So you should probably try starting out with finding your clitoris. If you don't masturbate, that might be a good place to start. Locate your clitoris and see what kind of stimulation works for you. When you learn about your body, you can apply that knowledge to sex.

If sex feels good one day, then hurts the next, make sure you are well lubricated first. Most pain and discomfort during sex is caused by lack of lubrication. You can buy a water-based lubricant at the store and see if that helps. If it does not help, you can mention the pain to your ob-gyn just to make sure nothing is wrong. As you said, it might simply be that he is hitting your cervix sometimes.