|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
 Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 6:47 pm
Things happened between me and a friend/person I liked.
We had a fight.
I ended things, the good way.
Despite the crap that happened between me and my friend, I apologized and praised him for the goods things.
I thanked him for being my friend.
I told him he was a beautiful person.
I told him I loved him.
Then said good bye.
Then I realized two things.
There is a difference between 'lust' and 'love'.
What I felt for him was lust, even though I loved him, as a friend.
Ladies, I'm still in love with my ex, Sammy.
Bad news for me, he just got taken about a week ago.
To a girl he described as a good match for him.
Ugh...
I hate love. :/
Any advice, on anything at all?
|
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 6:50 pm
Awww.... ;[ *hugs*
I don't give good advice, so I won't even try, but....
Hopefully things will work out for you! <3
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 7:00 pm
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 7:10 pm
Aww. *Huggles*
I dunno what to say that would help, doll.
Is the friend situation completely unsalvagable? Because, if it were me, I'd try to make up with the friend... but I can see how awkward it would be to talk to him now.
What to do, what to do...
Well, on the plus side, Sammy's only been taken for a week. Maybe something will happen, they'll break up, and then you could try telling him how you feel? If it's only been a week, then maybe their bond isn't that strong yet, y'know?
Sorry I'm not more helpful. Love isn't exactly my strong suit. XD
But good luck, sweetie. heart
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 7:58 pm
-huggles back-
Nn. He told me he still wants to be friends.
I do as well, but... despite that I feel lust for him, I wouldn't mind dating (again).
But I made a thread a while ago that you probably didn't see. He likes me and another girl. But doesn't want to deal with any drama right now or choose.
Doesn't avoiding dating and not choosing a girl create more drama...?
Blah, anyway, on to Sammy.
Him and that chick had been friends for about 2 months, I think he said.
They both share the same interests - anime, video games, and they "throw Futurama quotes at each other."
That sounds like Sammy. =|
I'm not much into that...
I'll share something with you (the PPS) though.
I was talking to Sammy on AIM yesterday and we had a good discussion.
Then I started petting him, like I used to when we dated (he likes to act like a cat).
I pet him a lot, started rubbing behind his ears and under his chin.
...He made me stop after a while because he said that got him horny...
Then, I told him about the hoodie/jacket I borrowed from my brother.
I complained that it was too tight around my chest.
He groped me.
=|
He has a girlfriend that he likes.
...What does that mean if he gropes me and I made him horny?
*Note: I don't know if only I made him feel that way while petting him, or if everyone has that effect on him.
I tried to pet him today to see if anything similar happened, but he wanted me to stop.
Blah~.
Confused.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 8:13 pm
Aw that sucks :[
I hate it when that happens!
I think...despite everything,
You should go with what you feel and what your heart feels :]
So, Go tell him! <3
If not, I wish you luck anyway x3
*(honestly im not sure i would do that in real life ^^'
Though, I encourage you to go with you heart ..
For you wouldnt wanna think of stuff you could have done.
And things that might have happened if you did do it..
you might regret it O;
And you wouldnt wanna do that.)
BTW; Hope my advice helps x3
<3
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 10:54 pm
 You got so much love in you If anything, I think I might be in the same situation as you, or about to be sadly. :[
I think you should try and talk your way through it, with either one of them. I've been friends with ex-boyfriends and stuff, no matter how awkward the situation. xD
And, with the one you're still in love with, atleast tell him how you feel, even if nothing comes out of it. It can make you feel better to atleast know you told him everything. You look like the songs that I've heard my whole life coming true.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 4:02 am
Well, maybe you should stick to being friends with him, see if its lust or not.
You never know, you could fall for him?
And the ex, well..those signs seem like he might still like you...idk...maybe.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 10:55 am
@t.a.t.s.u.m.i: Thanks t.a.t. I'll try to gain some courage and express how I feel.
@PlastikStars: Nn. I'll try to work things out the best I can. It's sad loosing a friend and I could deal with that, but he seemed to be very upset about it. After I said, "Good bye" he stopped me and told me not to go... :/
Yes, you're right. It's better to get it out there, than keep it bottled inside. Even if nothing good comes from it.
@winterberries: Maybe... He didn't seem disappointed when I told him that I'm in love with Sammy. That kind of gives me a hint he doesn't care that much.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 4:23 pm
Gretteh. Do you remember me? xDD
Don't stress out over this stuff. D: I love you anyways. DD:
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 4:43 pm
AWW poor Rawr! -huggles- i dun wanna see cha sad! that happend to me once..but it ended.....um...lets just say..he had an accident wink
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sat Oct 20, 2007 1:36 pm
@ninner: Heck yes I do. ;D
@Pandaa: -huggles back-
xD Oh my.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Reply
