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 Posted: Thu Oct 04, 2007 5:04 pm
Hangin' round downtown
By myself
And I had so much time
To sit and think
About myself
And then there she was...
I have wondered about this for a long time and I tried to look it up but nothing was helpful. Is there a way that you can tell if a male is a virgin or not? Does something happen to the p***s when he has sex?
And I know if I don't say this now a few people will tell me " the Hymen has nothing to do with virginity,..bla bla bla"
I get that,..but you know a hymen it connected to virginity...is there some thing similar for males? I have never heard of it being painful, like a lot of first times are for a lot of females. so please let me know
...Like double cherry pie
Yeah there she was
Like disco superfly
I smell sex and
Candy here...
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Posted: Thu Oct 04, 2007 6:34 pm
Sorry. There is nothing on the male body to tell you he has had sex before.
UNLESS, he has some type of STD like genital warts. gonk
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Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 8:54 am
No, the p***s does not change in any way after sex. Assuming a man does not have a child or STD, there is no way for you to know whether or not he is a virgin.
Females are the same way though. Assuming a woman does not have a child or STD, there is no way for even her ob-gyn to tell if she is a virgin or not.
You mention that hymens have nothing to do with virginity, but then in the very next sentence, you say the hymen is connected to virginity. That's not the case though. You were right the first time, hymens have nothing to do with virginity. Most girls tear their hymens long before they ever have sex. Other girls have an intact hymen even after sex.
You also mention pain, but that's irrelevant to virginity as well. Sex should never be painful for either person, whether it is the first time or not. If sex is painful, it means something is wrong. Usually the problem is simply not having enough lubrication. The reason that many first timers have pain is because they are clueless about their body and don't know what lubrication is. So girls who are knowledgeable and aware of their body don't usually feel pain the first time. Also, many women feel pain all of a sudden after decades of painless sex. This is because many women have lubrication problems later in life or due to certain medications.
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Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 10:05 am
Hangin' round downtown
By myself
And I had so much time
To sit and think
About myself
And then there she was...
I am not Incorrect when I said that the Hymen is connected to virginity. The world and most religions have made it so. So I was giving you a comparison. Anyway, thanks for answering my question.
...Like double cherry pie
Yeah there she was
Like disco superfly
I smell sex and
Candy here...
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Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 10:51 am
Ah, I see what you mean. Yes, virginity was defined by the state of the hymen at one time, but now we know more about anatomy. We do not connect hymens and virginity in developed nations anymore. Many people in third world countries may still define virginity in that way though.
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Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2007 1:44 pm
Hangin' round downtown
By myself
And I had so much time
To sit and think
About myself
And then there she was...
I'm sure they do :3,..its to bad. I feel sorry for any girls who have gotten in trouble for it getting broken with out sex and parents going mental.
...Like double cherry pie
Yeah there she was
Like disco superfly
I smell sex and
Candy here...
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Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2007 9:46 pm
Exactly. Imagine being an outcast, or not being able to marry, etc. just because of a little confusion about a very misunderstood body part. A little education goes a long way there!
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Posted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 1:40 pm
Hangin' round downtown
By myself
And I had so much time
To sit and think
About myself
And then there she was...
Yeah, I was worried about my mom freaking out with a Tampon incident but she was more of less worried that I would get sick if it had been up there to long. So I was relieved :3
...Like double cherry pie
Yeah there she was
Like disco superfly
I smell sex and
Candy here...
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 6:57 am
no nothing physical that can tell you anything but, he's behavior will. if his hands shake, if he's nervous, if he's not smooth he's probably a virigin, or jsut lost it. if your a good judge of people then you'll be able to guess pretty good.
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 9:02 am
The Cursed Crow no nothing physical that can tell you anything but, he's behavior will. if his hands shake, if he's nervous, if he's not smooth he's probably a virigin, or jsut lost it. if your a good judge of people then you'll be able to guess pretty good. I don't agree with that at all. Some people are just very nervous people, whether they are virgins or not. Some people feel a lot of pressure their first time with a new partner. I have been with people who were very experienced and people who had no experience at all. If I did not know their sexual histories a head of time, I honestly would not have been able to tell you had was experienced and who was not. My partner who seemed the most nervous was actually very experienced.
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Posted: Wed Oct 10, 2007 12:10 pm
The Cursed Crow no nothing physical that can tell you anything but, he's behavior will. if his hands shake, if he's nervous, if he's not smooth he's probably a virigin, or jsut lost it. if your a good judge of people then you'll be able to guess pretty good. He is right in a way, becuase you tend to take more care if its the first time. Anxious, but thats the case for most people.
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Posted: Wed Oct 10, 2007 12:52 pm
No, he is not right. I think it is absolutely absurd to pretend everyone acts the exact same way in the exact same situation.
Some people are careful and nervous their first time, other people are not. Some people are careful and nervous even after they have had a few partners, other people are not.
The truth is, people act in a very wide variety of ways for a very wide variety of reasons. We absolutely cannot pretend to know someone's sexual history just by the way they act. To claim otherwise is ridiculous.
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