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Posted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 8:35 pm

Okay. Well, my boyfriend and I have been together since Dec. '06. We'd been friends and liked each other long before that; but that's when we officially claimed ourselves a couple.
Well, We've been having sex for a while. Always protected with a condom; and I was supposed to go see a gyno a while ago, but then we had some financial problem and then my mom forgot. stare
But, the other night, we were having sex again (we actually hadn't done it for a while before then).
But when he came; I felt something different.
I felt the usual throbbing, but then I felt this like... rushing-squirt feeling, and then I felt full.
Did the condom break or have a hole in it?
Am I going to be pregnant? o_o;
And what should I do?
Can someone explain what happened? xD;;

Posted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 9:51 pm

What you described does not really sound like a condom breaking. It's tough to say exactly what happened though. Women can't usually feel it when a man ejaculates into them. Couples usually describe a condom breaking as being little more than a snapping sound.

Whether or not you are pregnant, we can't say. Every time you have sex pregnancy is a possibility.

You really need to be seeing an ob-gyn. You should have been seeing one a long time ago if you've been having sex for a while. Money has nothing to do with it. If you're short on funds, go to Planned Parenthood or Family Planning.

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Posted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 10:10 am

I figured it wasn't exactly it breaking, cause I didn't hear a snap and someone said it hurt a little or stung when it breaks; and it didn't hurt either.

And I know I need to see a an ob-gyn; I'm not sure why she didn't take me a while back. And even when she said that we were having financial troubles, I had mentioned PP. She seemed to wave it off. So I don't really know what to do. neutral

My boyfriend, when I talked to him about it, he said "Well, there was alot. Maybe you just felt the condom fill up?"
Is that possible?

Posted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 12:42 pm

Even when a man ejaculates a lot, we usually don't feel it with or without a condom. The v****a only has sensitive nerve endings within the first couple of inches. So once you go in deeper than a couple of inches, we just don't feel as much.

If you or your boyfriend can drive, then you can go to Planned Parenthood or Family Planning without your mother.

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Posted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 10:23 pm

It could be one of two things:

1) You could have cummed. The filling up feeling could have been caused by your cervix pulsing, basically in and out. (It does this while orgasming, it is the body's way of collecting the sperm to increase the chance of pregnancy.

2) I know from personal experience that you can feel a guy come. This could be the cause of the "filled" feeling. When a guy comes, his p***s pulsates... this may be large pulses or small pulses. It really depends on how hard a guy comes.

You would have known if the condom broke. There would have been a lot of fluid either running down your legs or on your bedsheets if you decided not to get dressed afterwards, or a lot of fluids would be on your underwear. If that happened, I would say go to Planned Parenthood... or whatever they call it in the US. I have had condoms break on me before and whatever has been said about them breaking in the v****a hurting, don't listen. I didn't feel it at all, but then again some people do. I guess sometimes it does and sometimes it doesn't.

But I do have a piece of advice for you (I tell this to everyone who is sexually active): Double up on contraceptives. Go on the pill as well as using a condom. Neither is 100%, but doubling up decreases your chances by even more, so if the condom does ever break, you have a back-up.

Posted: Thu Oct 04, 2007 9:09 am

Tsuzuki-san

1) You could have cummed. The filling up feeling could have been caused by your cervix pulsing, basically in and out. (It does this while orgasming, it is the body's way of collecting the sperm to increase the chance of pregnancy.

This is a good example of why it's tough for us to answer your question. People experience things in different ways. When I orgasm, I do not feel "full" in any way. Most women describe orgasming as feeling like the walls of the v****a clench and release a few times, but everyone is a little bit different.

Tsuzuki-san

2) I know from personal experience that you can feel a guy come. This could be the cause of the "filled" feeling. When a guy comes, his p***s pulsates... this may be large pulses or small pulses. It really depends on how hard a guy comes.

To clarify, I never said it can't be felt. It's just very extremely rare for the female to feel the male ejaculating during vaginal sex given the placement of the nerves in the v****a. Most women cannot feel it.

Tsuzuki-san

You would have known if the condom broke. There would have been a lot of fluid either running down your legs or on your bedsheets if you decided not to get dressed afterwards, or a lot of fluids would be on your underwear.

How much semen there is can vary, so it might not be that black or white. I have had partners who seemed to have a lot, to the point where if I got dressed right after, it would all be running down my leg and making a wet spot on my pants. Then I have had other partners where the semen wasn't really very noticeable, and I did not need to sit and "drain" before getting dressed.

Also, a condom could have a very small hole allowing only a little semen to get through.

Tsuzuki-san

But I do have a piece of advice for you (I tell this to everyone who is sexually active): Double up on contraceptives. Go on the pill as well as using a condom. Neither is 100%, but doubling up decreases your chances by even more, so if the condom does ever break, you have a back-up.

I agree. A hormonal method and a non-hormonal method are a great team. That's another reason why it's so important to get to an ob-gyn!

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