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 Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 10:49 pm
so me and my g.f love each other alot and what not and we've had sex but like she has never given me oral before and so how do i approach her about it?
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Posted: Fri Sep 14, 2007 7:37 am
If you're having sex with her, you certainly should be able to talk to her! xp So I would suggest just asking her outright. Just say something like, "How do you feel about oral sex? Would you be comfortable trying it on each other?"
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Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2007 8:16 am
Offer to do it on her. wink
Honestly, though. If neither of you has given oral to the other, bring it up in conversation (while you're not doing sexual stuff). Ask her if she would like to try giving and receiving oral sex to see if she and/or you like either one.
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Posted: Thu Sep 20, 2007 10:37 pm
I've had way too many bad experiences with boyfriends demanding or asking for oral sex and then refusing to reciprocate because they thought that I was "weird" in my vaginal area (and this is referring to guys 18 and over, for your info).
And then, after I FINALLY gave oral sex (which I wasn't interested in because it's kind of gross for me, and it's painful when some guy start thrusting his p***s down my throat, and on top of that, I'm not getting anything out of it, not even a little reciprocal oral action), it was like, they just asked for it all the time, and soon it got to the point where they'd fondle me a bit and then pull down their pants and ask me to do all the work.
So for me, oral sex is a big no-no most of the time. I've actually consensually and of my own volition given oral sex to him a few times, but I wouldn't let him orgasm in my mouth (it makes me sick), and he made sure not to move against me so I wouldn't get scared or hurt.
You have to find your limits and really trust each other.
IF she's not interested, don't push her.
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Posted: Sun Sep 23, 2007 8:06 pm
buy her jewelry?
no, no, just get the curage up and talk to her about it, approach slowly, and always ask to make sure its ok, so she doesn't feel bad about ditching it.
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 1:20 pm
Oni no Tenshi I've had way too many bad experiences with boyfriends demanding or asking for oral sex and then refusing to reciprocate because they thought that I was "weird" in my vaginal area (and this is referring to guys 18 and over, for your info). And then, after I FINALLY gave oral sex (which I wasn't interested in because it's kind of gross for me, and it's painful when some guy start thrusting his p***s down my throat, and on top of that, I'm not getting anything out of it, not even a little reciprocal oral action), it was like, they just asked for it all the time, and soon it got to the point where they'd fondle me a bit and then pull down their pants and ask me to do all the work. So for me, oral sex is a big no-no most of the time. I've actually consensually and of my own volition given oral sex to him a few times, but I wouldn't let him orgasm in my mouth (it makes me sick), and he made sure not to move against me so I wouldn't get scared or hurt. You have to find your limits and really trust each other. IF she's not interested, don't push her. Thats soo true, well it should only realy be given in a 69 if you get what i mean. It also kinda looks disgusting with a p***s in the mouth.
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