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 Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 12:09 am
Well, best of luck on the seniors, thing. Keep talking to your husband and I'll keep checking with my wife on when I can sleep in the bed again.
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Posted: Fri Oct 12, 2007 9:43 pm
Glad to hear you and the hubby are taking those baby steps and things are starting to look a little better. We're still here for you ~ hugs heart
Harbone ~ when it comes to winning the argument or sleeping on the floor ~ the floor tends to be cold, hard, and unforgiving... oh wait, we don't know who won the argument. Worse than winning and finding the floor would be losing and still finding the floor. Good luck getting back in Umbrella's good graces. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Oct 13, 2007 8:11 am
Baby steps are a good place to start! Good luck.
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Posted: Sat Oct 13, 2007 10:24 am
Baby steps are a good thing. It is better to light a single candle than sit and curse the darkness.
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 5:52 am
Goodness, I am late in this. Let me just say that I am so happy you are doing better and that if I had my way I would snap my fingers and all would be perfect 3nodding .
On a more practical note, have you talked to your Dr. about depression? I have had Chronic Depression and a really god-awful anxiety disorder for years and am just now getting them under control. I have so many psychiatric disorders they may name something after me blaugh .
I just want you to know that you have my support and if you like this kinda thing, my prayers. heart
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Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 2:27 am
Mellissandria During a recent argument with my husband, I realized that thru the years, I've lost who I am and who I was in order to be what everyone else wanted me to be... That means if I liked something on TV that no one else did, I learned to pretend I hated it, too ( especially something like the Smurfs..I used to collect the figurines). Ditto music. I really liked the Bay City Rollers later stuff, (after Leslie McKeown left them), but no one else really does. Hubby thinks I love the early stuff only...which can be cringe worthy. I also like Rick Springfield, but hubby gets jealous...and who can blame him. Man is in his fifties and his son refers to him as the chick magnet...! I used to like soppy romance movies...and in a guy dominated household, there is no room for soppy romance movies...(friend stays with myself and husband...which means at times, it feels like I am living in a frat house) Drama as well. Musicals as well. I also used to like to sing..I don't sing anymore because no one can stand to hear my voice....so I am told. I'd like to go back to college, but I have no idea what to study. My knees are such that I don't think I could stand for too long (which leaves library assistant out, and also most jobs). And I think I am a bit old to study for my masters in English Literature....I'd love to go into radio, but stopped listening to it in the nineties when they all went talk shock..... Help?
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Posted: Mon Sep 01, 2008 4:40 pm
Keep in mind that he fell in love with that smurf-collecting girl you once were. People change over time. Some of what you're feeling could be nostalgia, but there's no harm in trying a couple of the older fads to see what you still like. In fact, that's probably one of the least harmful ways to test who you are now.
College is a good plan, and it expands a person greatly. However, if money is a problem, explore in the library, go to meetups with people who have similar interests, and just... well, explore everything! 50 is not too late to find yourself. wink
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Posted: Wed Sep 03, 2008 2:12 pm
Keep it simple go take a class that you might like to try for fun..Music appreciation, art appreciation, cooking.. Something you might love to do, even a dance class..
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