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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 1:45 am
Miguel OHara Ms. Karen Starr I've managed to become the stereotypical relationship advice dispensing gay guy at my store without the being gay part. Of course the best incident like that ever was when I was sitting on a couch at the gay club without a shirt on (take the time to consider the tattoo that goes right up my ribs, then continue reading), this strange and annoying woman comes up to me and starts spilling her guts to me about relationships and life and all this until she said to me how different it is for "you guys," which prompted my response of "who guys?" and the dropping of the other shoe. I haven't seen anyone beat that hasty of a retreat away from me since I threatened one of my baristas with a can of whipping cream. So ... do you normally hang out in gay clubs without a shirt on? Are you asking for an invitation?
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 1:49 am
Ms. Karen Starr Miguel OHara Ms. Karen Starr I've managed to become the stereotypical relationship advice dispensing gay guy at my store without the being gay part. Of course the best incident like that ever was when I was sitting on a couch at the gay club without a shirt on (take the time to consider the tattoo that goes right up my ribs, then continue reading), this strange and annoying woman comes up to me and starts spilling her guts to me about relationships and life and all this until she said to me how different it is for "you guys," which prompted my response of "who guys?" and the dropping of the other shoe. I haven't seen anyone beat that hasty of a retreat away from me since I threatened one of my baristas with a can of whipping cream. So ... do you normally hang out in gay clubs without a shirt on? Are you asking for an invitation? Hey, man, whatever you Canadians do in your spare time ...
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 1:56 am
Miguel OHara Hey, man, whatever you Canadians do in your spare time ... That'd be the needles and inks thread. wink
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 2:09 am
Ms. Karen Starr Miguel OHara Hey, man, whatever you Canadians do in your spare time ... That'd be the needles and inks thread. wink  You Canadians...I don't know why we put up with your guff. Maybe it's because you saved us in the Australian-Indian War.
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 8:11 am
Mig, from experience. Don't put up with it. She wants to act like a brat with the 'it's not what you said, it's how you said it' and the 'I'm not going to tell you what you did because you should have telepahic powers and just know', then you don't need it. Forget the trying to be friends. It's not worth the hassle.
And Roger, you cheatin' sum'b***h! You lead me on, and then just right over to Mig when you see he's vulnerable! I'm on to you! I know your tricks!
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 9:38 am
I'm so sorry! Sex is an analgesic to me! crying
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 12:17 pm
Miguel OHara Well, she called me. Apparently it wasn't anything I specifically said, it was my tone combined with how I've been treating her lately. Is there a facepalm emote? Get rid of her then. I am frequently shocked by the ammount of bullshit people will put up with from anyone. Which hurts the rest of us, because not calling them on it means they think they can continue to get away with it.
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 2:04 pm
Selina's right. You don't deserve the headache, and she needs to move on.
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 2:33 pm
See, there's a problem. She lives at my buddy's house (it's complicated). I can't really just get rid of her. I need to find some way to be done with her, but on good terms.
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 2:53 pm
It's a lot simpler than you think. Don't hang out there, or only hang out there when she's not there. Or if she's there, it's not as if she has to (or is even going to) intrude on your time with your friend. If she does, then take your buddy to YOUR place, or go out somewhere. No one is making you hang out with her. I have friends who live with people I cannot stand. To date it has never been a problem. You work around it. It lowers the stress level in life immensly.
And terms sherms. Tell her, outright, that this friendship isn't working for you. That you'd like to remain civil and don't hold anything against her, but that you can't continue to be friends. You hope things go well for her, yadda yadda yadda, but you don't personally want to be involved in it. Yes, it will be awkward. Yes, it will be uncomfortable. There is no way to make it pain free, happy fluffy bunny time. This is rather like breaking up with her all over again. And in the long, it's going to be a lot better for you than dragging it out.
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 8:35 pm
Roger the Homunculus You Canadians...I don't know why we put up with your guff. Maybe it's because you saved us in the Australian-Indian War. Nah, because if you came after us all we'd have to do is take our name of the map and you'd never find us.
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 8:45 pm
Ms. Karen Starr Roger the Homunculus You Canadians...I don't know why we put up with your guff. Maybe it's because you saved us in the Australian-Indian War. Nah, because if you came after us all we'd have to do is take our name of the map and you'd never find us. You're assuming Americans can read a map! Ha HA.
Wait, that didn't come out right...
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 8:49 pm
Tad Ryerstad Ms. Karen Starr Roger the Homunculus You Canadians...I don't know why we put up with your guff. Maybe it's because you saved us in the Australian-Indian War. Nah, because if you came after us all we'd have to do is take our name of the map and you'd never find us. You're assuming Americans can read a map! Ha HA.
Wait, that didn't come out right...No problem, with both of us here our Canadian friend can only think of Chuck Dixon. CHUCK DIXON PWNS YOUR VERY SOUL! scream
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Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 9:18 am
I got picked for jury duty.
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Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 9:24 am
Miguel OHara I got picked for jury duty. Cool. It's really not so bad. You get to meet new people and hear some interesting stuff.
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