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 Posted: Tue Jun 30, 2009 7:10 am
Well, yeah.
We had some pretty good times.
We went to helsinki once with his parents, and we got our own hotel room.
I loved waking up beside him and roaming the streets of helsinki.
I was talking to him on msn yesterday, and he misses it too.
He's really skinny, so I love huggling him..
But, I'm kinda 'in love' with this other guy... He doesn't want a girl friend right now... (You know, the old 'it's not you, it's me' thing... [YEAH, RIGHT!]).
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Posted: Tue Jun 30, 2009 7:15 am
Ooh. That is awkward. It sounds like you are still very fond of your ex, though. Do you think you'll end up getting back together? And, for the record, I hate that "It's not you, it's me" thing...although I have used it myself!
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Posted: Tue Jun 30, 2009 7:16 am
I used it once. ninja It made me giggle.
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Posted: Tue Jun 30, 2009 7:21 am
Did it really? lol
The problem is that sometimes it really is true! It just gets overused so much that nobody believes it any more.
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Posted: Tue Jun 30, 2009 7:23 am
What if it's him and not you though?
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Posted: Tue Jun 30, 2009 7:28 am
I used it once too...
With a guy that was perfectly okay, but I was simply madly in love with another guy....
And yes. I think it's very possible that I'll end up with my ex again.
We've broken up quite a few times. We officially broke up in November, but I've visited him a few times since. D:
But well, he's a bit... Broken. Or something.
I feel like I need to fix him.
I was 'broken' when I was with him. And before I was with him, but I've mostly fixed myself.
It really hurts to notice that he hasn't been able to do the same...
I mean, I used to think about sad things for a long time... And it would make me really sad.
But then. I fixed myself somehow. And now I don't need those thoughts anymore.
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Posted: Tue Jun 30, 2009 7:50 am
I know how you feel about wanting to fix him. Don't, though. Take it from someone who has been through it. You can't fix a guy. They may fix themselves or they may not, but you can't do it for them any more than they would have been able to do it for you. Don't give up on him, though. I think it just takes some people longer than others to figure out how to not be broken any more.
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Posted: Tue Jun 30, 2009 7:53 am
It's not the usual fixing though, usually it's a personality flaw, or something.
This guy only has one friend...
Okay, my ex is an a**, and I won't fix him.
-suddenly remembers why she dumped him-
Why do guys always have to like more than one girl at a time?
Mine liked like 5.... D:
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Posted: Tue Jun 30, 2009 7:57 am
I'm not a guy, so I can't really say! Maybe it had some sort of advantage back in hunter-gatherer days. I just want my guy to want me and me only for forever.
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Posted: Tue Jun 30, 2009 8:03 am
I agree. I think that's how most females feel.
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Posted: Tue Jun 30, 2009 3:52 pm
Definately. 3nodding 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Jun 30, 2009 10:01 pm
It makes it difficult in a relationship if a girl doesn't want to share and a guy doesn't want to choose just one...
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Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 5:30 am
Maan. Sometimes I wonder if it'd be easier to be a lesbian. cool
Guys suck. wink
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Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 3:56 pm
The guy I like is a jerk. But he's a smexy jerk. ninja Pffft. Shallow smexy jerk. Well no, not shallow. He just acts like every other boy in my grade. -_-
It seems that most of the guys in my grade like pretty girls. Mokona does not fall under the pretty category. I don't go to far lengths to make sure I look good, so I shouldn't complain when guys aren't interested in me. Then again, the way I look at it, I have a "Why bother?" attitude when it comes to making sure I look good. I don't think I'm very pretty (Which puts me along with 75% of the teenage girl population's opinion about themself. Hooray.)
Haha, shallow tweenager girl ravings. Do ignore.
So! Anywho.
Am I strange for having a crush on three different boys? o.o
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Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 4:26 pm
I don't think so. It's normal to like a bunch of boys.
ninja
And they get nicer by about sophomore year.
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