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Do you agree with homosexuality?
Yes, I see nothing wrong with it
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 28%  [ 18 ]
No, I think it's wrong
62%
 62%  [ 40 ]
I dont have an opinion
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Total Votes : 64


Comatose_Factor

PostPosted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 6:03 pm


... You might not be able to choose who you are at birth. Or how you are raised, or all the other factors that go into your sexuality. IT DOES NOT MATTER, YOU HAVE A CHOICE! Chose God's will, how He intended you to be from the beginning. Homosexuality is a sin. Pure, simple and simple cut. There are scriptures to prove it, the number does not matter. It can say it only once and be clean cut, straight forward. I was bisexual. I changed for God, because I loved Him more then what I wanted. I loved Him enough to say "... I give my body to You now, take care of me, cleanse me and let me be Yours, Daddy." I chose my path. I chose my Father's way. I don't doubt it for a second.
PostPosted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 6:51 pm


At this point you guys are preaching to the choir...

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Comatose_Factor

PostPosted: Sun Jan 20, 2008 2:45 pm


So long as it's preaching and someone's listening. That's what counts.
PostPosted: Mon Jan 21, 2008 4:24 am


Preaching what? I'm here to debate. 3nodding Anyhoo yes it is a choice I agree as much of a choice as to whether you will allow your anger to get the better of you or to become envious to somone else. The only thing about homosexuality is that I see it as being harmless in a non religious view. As in, if two men marry who does it hurt? Funny thing is that most of these theories and outlooks based on the bible keep changing faster than the rules of a TCG. I mean it's insane and annoying. From one moment somthing is wrong, people start looking at the bible from a differnt perspective, and then suddenly the wrong becomes a right. I'm sorry, but a church thats not united is a church thats falling apart and thats why people need to stop with all these ways of looking at the scriptures and agree on somthing. Sadly that is never going to happen. Why? Because someone has to be right. Some people want it all, too keep their current lifestyle and follow a religion. A friend of mine IRL was will to sacrifice his Saturdays and certain, and might I add delicious, foods to follow is religion adamantly. Though I do admit I do not see the point of such sacrafices, I respect him for it. It's somthing not many people will do. Addictions don't just range from booze and tobacco, it ranges from lifestyles.

Mein I wish you would give that same link I saw in our last debate that takes scriptures that people use against homosexuality and tries to disprove them. Most of those site basicaly state is it possible we are wrong about this? Maybe the Scriptures mean this? How can God discriminate? Direct me to somthing solid please like a debate should be done. Don't send me off to read alot of links that are full of theories or unanswered questions. Yeah I admit I didn't read it all I skimmed through it and you might say, "CW your not a very good debater by doing that." And yeah I might not be, but your the one who is trying to prove your point so why make me work for it. I want to see somthing alittle more solid than "Maybe we are wrong, there is no way God can hate my sins." For the record this is the only quote I agree to be correct "God does NOT hate homosexuals." Because God only hates sin, not the sinner commiting it.

CW Hart


CW Hart

PostPosted: Mon Jan 21, 2008 4:45 am


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However, every single one of them has told me that it was not a choice that made them homosexual. Whatever it was, it was not something they wanted.

Just like how murderers never choose to kill or Petophiles never choose to be attracted to children. Like people over weight can't help it, and like people who smoke not being able to quit. It's just one big load. Everyone has problems, everyone wants sympathy.

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Why would someone choose to live a live where they're constantly going to be insulted and hurt?


How about Jesus Christ, Paul, Simon Peter, and so on? Men who died for the Christian religion. How about all those who stayed faithful to the Islamic faith during the crusades and died for it? How about Adolf Hitler who died for his beliefs and as well killed others for theirs? Ya wanna a list of good and bad people who had more happen to them than simply being insulted and hurt than I can give it to ya brother.

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I can think of no good reason to choose to be gay.

Because they enjoy the company of the same gender as them. Maybe they enjoy making love in that fasion? I can't think of any good reasons to take away someones right to speech. But people have then taken away.

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My best friend in the world is a lesbian. I've seen the way people look at her. I've seen the hurt they've caused her.

Now heres a little secret for her, she should look those people in the eyes and say, "******** you, your no better than me you hatful d**k."

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"Why couldn't I have been born straight?"

And I'm sure there are hairy old men jacking off to little girls coming out of preschool thinking "What the hell is wrong with me?"

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It's not a choice. It's something that is forced upon them.

Your hiertage is somthing forced on you, not whether or not you like someone. Mental Retardation is somthing forced on them. Are you saying these people are equal to being mentally retarded? No? Okay then.

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Sometimes they are able to take it and even come to appreciate it,

Good. I said one day, "Ya know I don't care if I'm fat. I won't make excuses and I won't blame others for it." Yet people want to force these theories that fat people can't help but be fat. Well thats some BS right there.

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but all to often, because of people who tell them things like that they're going to hell or that God has rejected them or that their sexuality is a choice, it becomes a curse.

Once apon a night, black people expeiranced spite
That even happens today, but ya know thats ok
Because now blacks are making money, For their kids and honey
They are proud of their race, thats why they ahead in the race
Ya see if your friend is gay, she shouldn't care what people say
Just go along in life, feeling little strife
Make her money get her lady, buy a house adopt a baby
Cause if you care what people say, then you can't live your life in a peaceful way.

Yeah that didn't have good flow to it. But there ya go.
PostPosted: Tue Jan 22, 2008 7:16 pm


CW Hart
Preaching what? I'm here to debate. 3nodding Anyhoo yes it is a choice I agree as much of a choice as to whether you will allow your anger to get the better of you or to become envious to somone else. The only thing about homosexuality is that I see it as being harmless in a non religious view.


I'm curious, exactly how do you back up your claim that it's a choice?


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As in, if two men marry who does it hurt? Funny thing is that most of these theories and outlooks based on the bible keep changing faster than the rules of a TCG. I mean it's insane and annoying. From one moment somthing is wrong, people start looking at the bible from a differnt perspective, and then suddenly the wrong becomes a right. I'm sorry, but a church thats not united is a church thats falling apart and thats why people need to stop with all these ways of looking at the scriptures and agree on somthing.


I prefer this method. If we ever actually AGREED on any one thing and carried that banner off into eternity, we'd fall into stagnation. The only way to keep growing as a people is to keep learning and debating.


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Sadly that is never going to happen. Why? Because someone has to be right. Some people want it all, too keep their current lifestyle and follow a religion.


Describe my lifestyle based on my sexuality, please.


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A friend of mine IRL was will to sacrifice his Saturdays and certain, and might I add delicious, foods to follow is religion adamantly. Though I do admit I do not see the point of such sacrafices, I respect him for it.


And I don't see the point of sacrificing the traits that God gave me to follow him.


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It's somthing not many people will do. Addictions don't just range from booze and tobacco, it ranges from lifestyles.

Mein I wish you would give that same link I saw in our last debate that takes scriptures that people use against homosexuality and tries to disprove them.


Describe it a little more fully please?


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Most of those site basicaly state is it possible we are wrong about this? Maybe the Scriptures mean this? How can God discriminate? Direct me to somthing solid please like a debate should be done. Don't send me off to read alot of links that are full of theories or unanswered questions.


Any Biblical interpretation will be theory, because nobody can truly say "THIS is what the Bible REALLY says HERE, and THIS is what it says HERE, and there can be no further debate on the matter!11"


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Yeah I admit I didn't read it all I skimmed through it and you might say, "CW your not a very good debater by doing that." And yeah I might not be, but your the one who is trying to prove your point so why make me work for it. I want to see somthing alittle more solid than "Maybe we are wrong, there is no way God can hate my sins."


But, saying something in the thread is not going to make something any more concrete than giving you a link to something on a webpage.

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For the record this is the only quote I agree to be correct "God does NOT hate homosexuals." Because God only hates sin, not the sinner commiting it.


Gotta go.

Mein Kulturkampf


Comatose_Factor

PostPosted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 4:42 pm


Personally, the scriptures and what they mean to individuals will change as time goes on, yes.

But when it comes down to it, analyzing a clear cut peice of scripture bit by bit and trying to find loop holes is just an excuse for ignoring the will of God. And you might not want to be homosexual, it can be differant things that attribute to that. If you love your God, your faith, He will help you to find a way to cut off those urges. You need to have the will power, the mind set that it's wrong, that God had a plan in the beginning for you.
PostPosted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 7:31 am


people use loop holes to intrepret GOd's word all of the time.
liek the WBC church in texas, which makes all christains look bad.
Some people say it means one thing, while other;s say another, but if you read things for what they are and under the context (sp?) of the times. YOu will get the right answer.

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CW Hart

PostPosted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 1:21 pm


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I'm curious, exactly how do you back up your claim that it's a choice?


Well as soon as it can be proven people are born homosexual, which as far as I know has not been, then I will conceive defeat in this matter. To answer with concrete evidence I have non what so ever. To be honest the idea of being born with a thing you can't help with is somthing doctors can tell as soon as they are born, like the obvious race and heritage, other other more serious matters like physical birth defects and mental retardation. At the same time I know people have fooled themselves into believing they can't do somthing no matter what or they can't help somthing. A prime example is people who believe they can't lose weight. I weigh over 300 pounds and know very well I can lose it, but instead of acting like others and make excuses I admit I like my current lifstyle and I'm not worried about th consequences of it. Like wise I think people who are homosexual hide behind the idea that they can't help but be that way when deep down they really enjoy that way of life better as it is, instead of bending it to fit others out looks. Which is somthing that I commend them on. My sister when she was between 14 to 16, and I can't say I'm not alittle uncomfortable saying this but I will anyways, tried the lifestyle of a homosexual to see if she liked that way as much or even more than the other way. I would also like to break down the term preference, like as in sexual preference. According to dictionary.com

Preference:

1. the act of preferring.
2. the state of being preferred.
3. that which is preferred; choice: His preference is vanilla, not chocolate.
4. a practical advantage given to one over others.
5. a prior right or claim, as to payment of dividends or to assets upon dissolution.
6. the favoring of one country or group of countries by granting special advantages over others in international trade.

Now if it is what you say we should change the term sexual preference to sexual restriction.

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I prefer this method. If we ever actually AGREED on any one thing and carried that banner off into eternity, we'd fall into stagnation. The only way to keep growing as a people is to keep learning and debating.


Oh I agree whole heartedly that debating is not a bad thing. It's interesting, it's challenging, and to some degree it's very enjoyable. I'm just stating that a religion that keeps falling from what it says and keeps rewriting the rules either needs one quick read through or needs to be dropped by those who disgree and either presue another that fits their outlook.

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Describe my lifestyle based on my sexuality, please.


Everything you do effects your lifestyle, not just your sexual prefernce, but simply put you don't enjoy the company of a woman in that way as you would a man. I think either you misunderstood what I said just then about keeping a persons lifestyle. I ment it by making some changes in it, not completly restarting it over.

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And I don't see the point of sacrificing the traits that God gave me to follow him.


Either God gave yu or you developed. One of the two. Maybe God gave men the traits of being schizophrenic, or the traits of being hatful. Or maybe they developed those traits. Hell what am I saying there is no maybe about it. But as far as sacrificing them, I don't blame you because you should live your life the way you see fit to live it.

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Describe it a little more fully please?


If it's to the above statement, I mean routines. Things that you are use to doing, but don't harm you and others in anyway. Maybe it's always getting up late to take a piss, or maybe it's simply being a flirt. Things people do in their lifestyles they become use, or addicted, to it.

To your bottom statement I won't worry about that, because according to your statment below

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Any Biblical interpretation will be theory, because nobody can truly say "THIS is what the Bible REALLY says HERE, and THIS is what it says HERE, and there can be no further debate on the matter!11"


Makes me think, your right. We can go round and round in circles and never get anywhere if each of us is adament in out beliefs.

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But, saying something in the thread is not going to make something any more concrete than giving you a link to something on a webpage.


Acourse, but giving quotes from that link would help out alot instead of me skimming through it to find the point YOUR trying to prove.

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Gotta go.


Look forward to your reponse.
PostPosted: Sun Feb 03, 2008 1:30 pm


Leviticus 18:22
I will let the bible do my talking for me.

okiedokoro


CW Hart

PostPosted: Sun Feb 03, 2008 6:33 pm


Erm for those who didn't look it up, and sense he wasn't kind enough to give a quote from it that verse states and I quote from a New American Standard

"You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a woman; it is an abomination" The above verse speaks abut not giving up your children and not taking God's name in vain and the bottom verse talks about how you shouldn't have sex with animals.

But yeah now my mom walked in on me with a bible in my hands and started praising me for taking it more seriously. I can not find it in me that this was all in the sake of quoting a verse another neglected to quote XP.
PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 6:48 am


choice?
I have to disagree. You like who you like, the only choice is whether you act on your feelings or not. So really the only option is to be celibate forever for fake liking someone of the opposite gender.

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Caterham_Paladin
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 12:24 pm


This needs to stop guys! This thread is going no where and gives new comers to this guild and Christ a bad first impression of the nature of our Lord.

For CHRIST'S SAKE let this thread die!
PostPosted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 4:22 am


CW Hart
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I'm curious, exactly how do you back up your claim that it's a choice?


Well as soon as it can be proven people are born homosexual, which as far as I know has not been, then I will conceive defeat in this matter. To answer with concrete evidence I have non what so ever.


So in essence until you are proven wrong, you are automatically right? I have provided my evidence. You must refute that evidence comprehensively or concede.


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To be honest the idea of being born with a thing you can't help with is somthing doctors can tell as soon as they are born, like the obvious race and heritage, other other more serious matters like physical birth defects and mental retardation.


You're absolutely right. Autism, which shows up around 2-3 years of age, personality disorders, which appear in the teenage years, osteoporosis, which occurs in old age, Lou Gehrig's disease, which occurs in the teens to 40s, and eyesight loss, which occurs any time in life, are all obviously choices, and with counselling and Godly prayer, all can be overcome.



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At the same time I know people have fooled themselves into believing they can't do somthing no matter what or they can't help somthing. A prime example is people who believe they can't lose weight. I weigh over 300 pounds and know very well I can lose it, but instead of acting like others and make excuses I admit I like my current lifstyle and I'm not worried about th consequences of it. Like wise I think people who are homosexual hide behind the idea that they can't help but be that way when deep down they really enjoy that way of life better as it is, instead of bending it to fit others out looks.


That doesn't actually make homosexuality a choice. It makes flamboyancy, something commonly associated with homosexuality, a choice, but it does not equal the freedom to choose sexual attraction.

Also, homosexuality isn't the same as obesity; I cannot make a choice to BECOME homosexual, while I could easily become obese if I ate right. (Offtopic; It would be extremely difficult, I am a twig and always have been)


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Which is somthing that I commend them on. My sister when she was between 14 to 16, and I can't say I'm not alittle uncomfortable saying this but I will anyways, tried the lifestyle of a homosexual to see if she liked that way as much or even more than the other way. I would also like to break down the term preference, like as in sexual preference. According to dictionary.com

Preference:

1. the act of preferring.
2. the state of being preferred.
3. that which is preferred; choice: His preference is vanilla, not chocolate.
4. a practical advantage given to one over others.
5. a prior right or claim, as to payment of dividends or to assets upon dissolution.
6. the favoring of one country or group of countries by granting special advantages over others in international trade.

Now if it is what you say we should change the term sexual preference to sexual restriction.


Not necessarily. I can still CHOOSE to have sex with a girl. I just can't choose to like it. Do you consider being unable to find men attractive restrictive?



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I prefer this method. If we ever actually AGREED on any one thing and carried that banner off into eternity, we'd fall into stagnation. The only way to keep growing as a people is to keep learning and debating.


Oh I agree whole heartedly that debating is not a bad thing. It's interesting, it's challenging, and to some degree it's very enjoyable. I'm just stating that a religion that keeps falling from what it says and keeps rewriting the rules either needs one quick read through or needs to be dropped by those who disgree and either presue another that fits their outlook.


Christianity fits my outlook pretty well. It's the Christians that are a pain in the a**.



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Describe my lifestyle based on my sexuality, please.


Everything you do effects your lifestyle, not just your sexual prefernce, but simply put you don't enjoy the company of a woman in that way as you would a man. I think either you misunderstood what I said just then about keeping a persons lifestyle. I ment it by making some changes in it, not completly restarting it over.


Nonono. I want to know what the homosexual lifestyle is. Make a little list for me of the average homosexual's day.

Like this:

9:00: Wake up. Have long, drawn out a**l sex with the two men and dog laying in bed from last night at the club
9:40: Head into the washroom for a bubble bath before throwing on best sequined shirt for an exciting day shoe shopping
10:10: Eat breakfast; this, like all gay meals, must be gourmet.
10:30: Drive into town in ecofriendly hybrid Barbie car to the mall
10:45: Spend a few minutes worshipping the mall with all the other gay men in the parking lot.
11:00-6:00: Shopping. Heavy on hot pink and glitter, light on plaid and high-fat foods. Also, must pink up new red silk 900-count sheets.
6:30: Like, TOTALLY doing dinner with the boyfriend at that new sushi place everyones talking about.
8:30: Back at the apartment for more sex and bubblebaths. Must look your best for the clubs later.
11:00: Head to the ButtSexor; it's the biggest, most fabulous gay club in town.
3:00: Home with the boyfriend and all the hookups for some unprotected BDSM sex before sleeping.


Something like that, only not so obviously satirical. Subtler will always give me more enjoyment.


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Describe it a little more fully please?


If it's to the above statement, I mean routines. Things that you are use to doing, but don't harm you and others in anyway. Maybe it's always getting up late to take a piss, or maybe it's simply being a flirt. Things people do in their lifestyles they become use, or addicted, to it.


What's specifically gay about it though?



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To your bottom statement I won't worry about that, because according to your statment below

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Any Biblical interpretation will be theory, because nobody can truly say "THIS is what the Bible REALLY says HERE, and THIS is what it says HERE, and there can be no further debate on the matter!11"


Makes me think, your right. We can go round and round in circles and never get anywhere if each of us is adament in out beliefs.


I am not trying to convert you. I'm trying to convince the only people to whom it actually matters; the questioning Christians reading this thread.

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But, saying something in the thread is not going to make something any more concrete than giving you a link to something on a webpage.


Acourse, but giving quotes from that link would help out alot instead of me skimming through it to find the point YOUR trying to prove.
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Could you repeat your list of claims then, so I can find the relevant quotes? I mean, if you can't be assed to look through my links, there's no reason why I should bother finding your claims.

Mein Kulturkampf

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