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Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 9:56 pm
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Posted: Sat Jun 14, 2008 9:22 am
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wow, what a total trip reading through these older posts... kind of like reading peoples older journals you know? It is wonderful to see people being open and responsive, and caring.
My thoughts on being ones own rock: I grew up having to be the one constant in my mothers life. She continuously pulled us in and out of situations, clinging to me as her foundation really. That was of course always countered by making me responsible for her joy and happiness, it all being my fault when she was angry. This made me of course look for others in my life to be my joy or happiness by finding ME to be theirs, never feeling like I was enough on my own, not enough for anything really. If I didnt have someone else validating my existence, I wasnt really there. Of course I had to find people that judged me and put me down just like my mom so that I would also FAIL all the time in being someone elses happiness. See pattern; repeat... blech. Anyway... after years and years of the same old self abuse and insanity, and learning, and rial and error... what I believe I have learned is that I can never put my happiness in someone elses hands. FIND happiness with another, sure, but I am the one who makes my life what it is All other people are just as me, human, and we as humans struggle every day to know reality and be truly honest with ourselves. Sadly, but true I believe, is that we all die alone, or with a god of your understanding, but not with another person. I strive to be my own anchor, find my own spirituality, search out and create my own centeredness in my daily life. It is a blessing and a truly amazing thing to find another person that I feel I can truly be all of myself with, but I hope that I build my personal foundation on something that lies within myself, not within another person. Especially not my son.
Hey, did I write a book? LOLZ....
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