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 Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2005 9:36 am
The_mods_are_idiots_ about 3 or 4 years ago, when I was 6 or 7, I walked into my brother's room to watch televison.(it was after my bedtime, and my mom couldn't hear us watching cartoons at night from downstairs.) when I walked in he said I could watchi tv for thirty minutes and after that I'd have to do something for him. well, we ended up watching a movie. After the thiry minutes passed, he said' suck my d**k, or no more tv" so I did. This went on for months, then he actually raped me. Those went on until I was 8. I've told a few close friends about it, but no one else How old was he!? And how long has it been? Incest is not okay. sad
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Posted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 9:44 am
My story isn't nearly as serious as any of yours, but it still hurt me to the point where I'm still not totally comfortable with my boyfriend and I doing certain things.
I was thirteen, and I was on the bus on the way home from school. There's this complete idiot on my bus, and he loves to harass me. It's always sexual, but never physical, just verbal. But this day, he decided to make it physical. He came up to me when he got on the bus and lightly slapped my face, and started making all these sexual comments to me. Then, he went and sat down, and I turned around to talk to one of my other friends, and he started kissing the air and stuff. I told him to stop, and turned back around. Then he came up to me, and started grinding in my face, and by this point I'm extremely pissed off, and trying to fight back tears. Then, as I was going to get off the bus, he came up and slapped my butt. I started sobbing and ran off the bus as fast as I could.
I still can't let my boyfriend touch my butt or chest...it scares me.
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Posted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 10:26 am
hermione_granger919 My story isn't nearly as serious as any of yours, but it still hurt me to the point where I'm still not totally comfortable with my boyfriend and I doing certain things. I was thirteen, and I was on the bus on the way home from school. There's this complete idiot on my bus, and he loves to harass me. It's always sexual, but never physical, just verbal. But this day, he decided to make it physical. He came up to me when he got on the bus and lightly slapped my face, and started making all these sexual comments to me. Then, he went and sat down, and I turned around to talk to one of my other friends, and he started kissing the air and stuff. I told him to stop, and turned back around. Then he came up to me, and started grinding in my face, and by this point I'm extremely pissed off, and trying to fight back tears. Then, as I was going to get off the bus, he came up and slapped my butt. I started sobbing and ran off the bus as fast as I could. I still can't let my boyfriend touch my butt or chest...it scares me. have you talked to the school about this ? no one has the right to touch you or hit you did the dude get in trouble ? in my school if he would have done that to me he would have been kicked out of the school and sent to the alternative school for kids that just could not be around normal kids . And it is up to you not to let your boyfriend touch you do not feel ashamed of what happened it was nothing that you did and i hope that your boyfirend inderstands this and lets you be and does not pressure you to do things that you are not ready to do yet
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Posted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 11:05 am
Something a bit like that happened to me too hermione. I was in 12th grade so I think I was a bit more experienced and able to handle it better. The sad thing is it happened in class infront of a teacher! I'm sort of the quiet type and I was in class to learn. He obviously saw me as vulneable and I happened to be the only other one sitting in the front row so I was an easy target. My boyfriend (now fiance) had already graduated so I had no protection there. It was only ever words but it kept escalating as the semester went on. One day he was describing how he took me up to a snowey mountain and 'made love' to me and asking me if I remembered. I was so angry that he could get away with say such incredibly degusting things. A couple of people in the class actually stood up for me which made me feel better. A bit later in the year he was charged by someone else with sexual harrasment so I gave a statement to the police about what had happened. His conciquences weren't enough in my opinion but he didn't get to attend our graduation party so that was better then nothing.
Give it some time and let yourself mature. Most of this stuff doesn't bother me and I don't even think about a lot of it any more. When I see him or hear his nickname (which came from the name of an island around here so I hear it more often then I would like to) some of it comes back but as you get older a little bit of that stuff falls away and you are able to enjoy the things you want to enjoy. Give it time and don't push yourself. When ever you are ready is the right time.
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Posted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 4:49 pm
AkioRiku The_mods_are_idiots_ about 3 or 4 years ago, when I was 6 or 7, I walked into my brother's room to watch televison.(it was after my bedtime, and my mom couldn't hear us watching cartoons at night from downstairs.) when I walked in he said I could watchi tv for thirty minutes and after that I'd have to do something for him. well, we ended up watching a movie. After the thiry minutes passed, he said' suck my d**k, or no more tv" so I did. This went on for months, then he actually raped me. Those went on until I was 8. I've told a few close friends about it, but no one else How old was he!? And how long has it been? Incest is not okay. sad he'd have to be 10 0r 11. 4 or 5 year. yeah..I've noticed.
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Posted: Mon Oct 10, 2005 4:19 pm
gothicsaddness hermione_granger919 My story isn't nearly as serious as any of yours, but it still hurt me to the point where I'm still not totally comfortable with my boyfriend and I doing certain things. I was thirteen, and I was on the bus on the way home from school. There's this complete idiot on my bus, and he loves to harass me. It's always sexual, but never physical, just verbal. But this day, he decided to make it physical. He came up to me when he got on the bus and lightly slapped my face, and started making all these sexual comments to me. Then, he went and sat down, and I turned around to talk to one of my other friends, and he started kissing the air and stuff. I told him to stop, and turned back around. Then he came up to me, and started grinding in my face, and by this point I'm extremely pissed off, and trying to fight back tears. Then, as I was going to get off the bus, he came up and slapped my butt. I started sobbing and ran off the bus as fast as I could. I still can't let my boyfriend touch my butt or chest...it scares me. have you talked to the school about this ? no one has the right to touch you or hit you did the dude get in trouble ? in my school if he would have done that to me he would have been kicked out of the school and sent to the alternative school for kids that just could not be around normal kids . And it is up to you not to let your boyfriend touch you do not feel ashamed of what happened it was nothing that you did and i hope that your boyfirend inderstands this and lets you be and does not pressure you to do things that you are not ready to do yet I talked to the school about it soon after it happened, and he did get in trouble. As for my boyfriend...he knows, and is okay with it. There's this kid this year (note: I just turned fourteen) who is a sophmore...he is doing the same thing now as this other kid did. I've reported him, and he shouldn't be giving me crap anymore, or he'll be punished to the fullest extent for the offense. The problem is...I see both guys all the time. They both ride my bus. One is a sophmore, as I said, and the other is a junior. I can't wait till I'm a senior and they're gone. That way I'll never have to see them again. We had a dance the other night, and I was so paranoid. I'd be dancing with my boyfriend, and I'd constantly be looking around, waiting for them to come up and start bugging me. They never did, but...it kills me that I have to be so paranoid, even with my boyfriend standing right there.
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Posted: Wed Oct 12, 2005 4:16 pm
It's sad to hear so many stories.
I remember the first time I was molested, I was five-years-old. My babysitter had decided to take me into another room and made me watch porn with her. Then role played her being the guy. We had clothes on.
Then when I was thirteen, my neighbor's son had a strong crush on me. He was riding his bike one night, and I just happened to be walking up to the corner near his house to go meet up with my friends. He called me over and said he wanted 'talk'. When I walked over he wrapped his arm around me and began fondleing me. I told him over and over to stop and tried getting away but he tightened his hold on me. He finally stopped when we heard my friends calling my name.
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2005 9:54 pm
umm is this random but what qualifys as emotional abuse. Some examples maybe...
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2005 10:00 pm
Sakurachan2543 umm is this random but what qualifys as emotional abuse. Some examples maybe... Being yelled at constantly, being insulted or told mean things ("you're stupid", "you're worthless and you'll never amount to anything", I hate you", etc etc), being put down all the time, being blamed for things that aren't your fault... That's all that comes to mind at the moment, sorry.
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2005 10:03 pm
if a parent says they'll slap u if u don't stop is that abuse or just discipline.. sweatdrop
because they olny do that every once in a while so ya
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2005 10:06 pm
Sakurachan2543 if a parent says they'll slap u if u don't stop is that abuse or just discipline.. sweatdrop because they olny do that every once in a while so ya Does the parent actually slap the child, or just threaten to do it?
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2005 10:23 pm
well actually it's me.. on the cheek not to hard, or difg into my wrist with there nails. its always my mom though. Mostly it's just threaten to slap, but sometimes she'll do it if i've done somethin' stupid or wrong
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2005 10:29 pm
Sakurachan2543 well actually it's me.. on the cheek not to hard, or difg into my wrist with there nails. its always my mom though. Mostly it's just threaten to slap, but sometimes she'll do it if i've done somethin' stupid or wrong It's ok, I figured you were referring to you, but it's not my business so I didn't want to come out and ask. heart To me, if she actually slaps you, that's abuse. There's discipline, and then there's abuse. Slapping someone to me qualifies as abuse, especially if it's on the face. I was never ever hit growing up, and I turned out fine. There are other methods of discipline besides hitting a child. If it's bothering you, you can try talking to a teacher or counsellor at school. Although it's sometimes not enforced, the theory is that if you tell someone at your school, they are legally obligated to do something about it.
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2005 11:14 pm
well it's not like she does it often.. and stuff like maybe once every couple of months besides I don't want to get ther ein trouble. I may really not like my mom but, i don't hate her that much
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2005 11:28 pm
Sakurachan2543 well it's not like she does it often.. and stuff like maybe once every couple of months besides I don't want to get ther ein trouble. I may really not like my mom but, i don't hate her that much Ok. smile Just don't be afraid to stick up for yourself. No child should be hit by their parents, regardless of the reason. In my opinion anyways. ninja
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