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 Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 7:49 pm
Nikolita KajiMadoushi When i do that,am mostly in the shower,so i cant be all that much tensed up....but yea..like you said maybe its a psychological thingy sweatdrop Hmmm.... *thinks* Maybe it's because your skin is wet from the water in the shower?
Oh and by the way,remember when i was talking about having a conversation with my mother so that i could start taking the pill?Well i've had it on Wed,it all started while we were watching a tv show and there was a pregnant girl at the hospital and all and i started talking about it and asking questions,and my mom was answering,then she said Thats why its better to have two-three protection when you have a sexual relation
So i used that answer to put on the pill subject and asked if i could take it because we never know what can happen and that i better start taking it now so that when the time will come i will already be used to it and wont have to worry and all.
She said we would go at the hospital where i have a patient's file so that i could have an exam.All that,after christmas 3nodding *sigh of relief* That wasn't all that bad ^^
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 6:52 pm
HULLABALOOZA Well Ive got a question. Im not sure how common it is, since most of my friends are male, and my female friends Im not comfertable asking. Anyhoo, I find it very difficult to feel pleasure, and I definately have a problem obtaining an orgasm during intercourse, or being fingered with his fingers inside me. On the other hand, if I have clitoral (I think thats the word) stimulation, I can orgasm easily. Rubbing my clitoris can bring me to orgasm in minutes and I can do it over and over. Is this normal? How can I find the pleasure spot inside my v****a so I can actually enjoy sex and not need c**t stimulation to get an orgasm? That's VERY normal. Most women can't orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone, so don't feel bad. Personally, I think the c**t needs more attention. Very few women actually know what/where their clitoris is, and that's SAD!
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Posted: Sun Dec 04, 2005 11:44 pm
KajiMadoushi Nikolita KajiMadoushi When i do that,am mostly in the shower,so i cant be all that much tensed up....but yea..like you said maybe its a psychological thingy sweatdrop Hmmm.... *thinks* Maybe it's because your skin is wet from the water in the shower?
Oh and by the way,remember when i was talking about having a conversation with my mother so that i could start taking the pill?Well i've had it on Wed,it all started while we were watching a tv show and there was a pregnant girl at the hospital and all and i started talking about it and asking questions,and my mom was answering,then she said Thats why its better to have two-three protection when you have a sexual relation
So i used that answer to put on the pill subject and asked if i could take it because we never know what can happen and that i better start taking it now so that when the time will come i will already be used to it and wont have to worry and all.
She said we would go at the hospital where i have a patient's file so that i could have an exam.All that,after christmas 3nodding *sigh of relief* That wasn't all that bad ^^Glad to hear it worked out. biggrin
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Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2005 3:00 pm
Nikolita A member has PM'ed me saying that for masturbation for guys, using shaving cream for sensitive skin apparently works well. This can cause problems. Shaving creams contain soap, and if used for masturbation, this can cause the skin of the genitals to become dry, crack, and possibly develop sores. Also, if the skin cracks, the soap in the shaving cream will sting. This is NOT a good idea. Neither are lubricants which contain sugars (which can cause the body to react by creating a yeast infection) or oils (which seal out air and water, and can cause the body to overproduce bacteria). Your best bet is to use only water-based lubricants especially created for the purpose, such as KY Jelly. If you're masturbating with only your hands, silicone-based lubricants also work well. However, if you're using a silicone toy, silicone-based lubricants will actually MELT the toy, so don't use it for those toys.
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Eloquent Conversationalist
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Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2005 11:44 pm
Divash Nikolita A member has PM'ed me saying that for masturbation for guys, using shaving cream for sensitive skin apparently works well. This can cause problems. Shaving creams contain soap, and if used for masturbation, this can cause the skin of the genitals to become dry, crack, and possibly develop sores. Also, if the skin cracks, the soap in the shaving cream will sting. This is NOT a good idea. Neither are lubricants which contain sugars (which can cause the body to react by creating a yeast infection) or oils (which seal out air and water, and can cause the body to overproduce bacteria). Your best bet is to use only water-based lubricants especially created for the purpose, such as KY Jelly. If you're masturbating with only your hands, silicone-based lubricants also work well. However, if you're using a silicone toy, silicone-based lubricants will actually MELT the toy, so don't use it for those toys. I know, it was just what the user PM'ed me and told me. sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 9:39 pm
Just a question: I have masterbated before and my boyfriend and I haven't had sex together. My question is: How do you know when you have an orgasm?
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 9:56 pm
Musical Medli Just a question: I have masterbated before and my boyfriend and I haven't had sex together. My question is: How do you know when you have an orgasm? Check the "Sex Education 101 sticky" for links and information about orgasms. For women who CAN orgasm (because there are women who can't/don't), they generally know.
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Posted: Fri Dec 16, 2005 12:05 pm
masturbating is starting to get sorta boring im quite bored of the standard up and down movement of the hand. Is there any other postions/grips i can do to make orgasms better and more enjoyable?
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Posted: Fri Dec 16, 2005 11:49 pm
Daerious masturbating is starting to get sorta boring im quite bored of the standard up and down movement of the hand. Is there any other postions/grips i can do to make orgasms better and more enjoyable? Try reading the Masturbation Sticky. There's links in there that have information and pictures of different positions and techniques you can try. Or google it.
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Posted: Tue Dec 20, 2005 6:00 am
I have a question... When masturbate I seem to feel myself getting more pleasure by pushing, and not rubbing. Also right before I climax I stop rubbing myself and than a few minutes after I continue but only faster, and than before I climax again I stop... And than after doing that 2 times I go on rubbing... but the weird part is that I can climax over 13 times when I do that, is it bad to be able to over 13 times?
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Posted: Tue Dec 20, 2005 7:56 am
I would tend to say no, there's nothing wrong with that. surprised A lot of people would call you lucky, actually, because there's women like me who have never orgasmed before. So yes, it's ok, as long as you're not hurting yourself physically by over-doing it, or anything like that.
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Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2006 4:43 pm
Divash Nikolita A member has PM'ed me saying that for masturbation for guys, using shaving cream for sensitive skin apparently works well. This can cause problems. Shaving creams contain soap, and if used for masturbation, this can cause the skin of the genitals to become dry, crack, and possibly develop sores. Also, if the skin cracks, the soap in the shaving cream will sting. This is NOT a good idea. Neither are lubricants which contain sugars (which can cause the body to react by creating a yeast infection) or oils (which seal out air and water, and can cause the body to overproduce bacteria). Your best bet is to use only water-based lubricants especially created for the purpose, such as KY Jelly. If you're masturbating with only your hands, silicone-based lubricants also work well. However, if you're using a silicone toy, silicone-based lubricants will actually MELT the toy, so don't use it for those toys. Which is why I stick to nothing but my hands 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 7:03 am
Nikolita I would tend to say no, there's nothing wrong with that. surprised A lot of people would call you lucky, actually, because there's women like me who have never orgasmed before. So yes, it's ok, as long as you're not hurting yourself physically by over-doing it, or anything like that. oh ok, so 13 times is good? I didn't know that... I thought everyone did
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Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 12:45 pm
elena_lily Nikolita I would tend to say no, there's nothing wrong with that. surprised A lot of people would call you lucky, actually, because there's women like me who have never orgasmed before. So yes, it's ok, as long as you're not hurting yourself physically by over-doing it, or anything like that. oh ok, so 13 times is good? I didn't know that... I thought everyone did Well it's how you look at it. If you climax 13 times and have a problem with it, or are bothered by it, then don't masturbate as much. It's not really our place to tell you whether or not it's a "good" thing or a "bad" thing. If you don't like climaxing that much, then don't do it as much. If you're not bothered by it and you enjoy it, then you can continue what you're doing. The general rule of thumb for me is, "If you're enjoying it, and you're not hurting yourself in any way, why stop?"
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 8:08 am
Is it normal to feel low/down after masturbation?
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