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ture but if you look inside the box instead of out side the box you can see that i ma talking about like if you were a prep or a gothic or what ever!

Now why would I want to look inside the box when I know the truth? I know what you said.. Im just telling you that those labels will exist and you will be labeled with them no matter what. Do we need them? No. Will they stick around? Yes..and complaining wont do much.

You cant not be labeled. People will do that for you. Those without a solid label will be labeled non comformunists.

I find it mildly interesting how quickly you changed your tune as well. Not long ago you were implying you liked labels..you even made this thread.

But anyway..

Yes I would like to see the new Charlie in the Chocolate factory.

I say...that you fail at typing and cannot accept the fact that everyone is a poser no matter what...

Uh.. I dont really understand what you just tried to type.. but im going to try to respond.

I sort of understand the idea of repeating what people say about you. For example if someone is made fun of for a long period of time and called "fat" or "stupid" they will probly start to beleive it. I have been labeled as a freak and a "goth" for a long time and for a short period in time even called myself that even though I did not really like it. Why? Because I fit the sterotype with my black clothing and eyeliner and I enjoy quite abit of the music associated with the subculture. But you must realise like I did that it really does not matter.
I think the whole idea is kind of silly.. I dont feel the need to live up to something that will never amount to anything. Therefore I stoped refering to myself as that.
But usualy I dont bother correcting people when they call me that because that is pointless also. I mean.. what am I suposed to do about it? People will think that of me anyways. The label will continue to be there.
So really.. just because people call you that you dont have to call yourself that.

I also stopped calling myself that because it attracted a bunch of morrons that had no idea what they were talking about anyway and I just wanted them to leave me alone. I also did not want people to think I was anything like the doped up morrons at my school that think the gothic subculture is about Slipknott, cutting themselves to show the scars to random people, and getting high and falling over. I also got sick of the catty snobs and their "how goth are you" contests which involved who had the blacker blacks and who had more bauhaus cds (cant people just enjoy the music and shut the hell up?). So.. it did not take me long to try and push away the name people have given me. I am sure everyone can understand why.

The moral of this story is: Stop caring about things that wont get you anywhere.. mainly what labels people give you.

Thank you for the somewhat coherent translation but please start using spell check. Im not that a**l about spelling and typos but your typing needs to be practiced a bit more. Using numbers to replace letters will also cause alot of people to freak out at you.

I understood that much but she also said something about her friends and she repeating what people say to shut them up. I still stand by what I said which is that there is no reason to repeat what they are saying just to apease them. 3nodding If you dont like it dont bother with it.

your welcome i know what she was talking about becuz that is ome of my best friends amanda!

When you think about it, the weird is the normal. I know that sounds totally random but listen. If you look at numbers, the people labeled "weird" are the majority in today's society, making them the normal.