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 Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:41 pm
Neko-chan32981 I'm sorry you feel that way, Asala. I haven't had much time to PM people unless they PM me first. I do feel bad that you have been going through stuff. I have been friend enough to be praying for you, but you probably don't really care that I have. I do not wish to see you go. But if you feel that you must then you must. I have a life that is getting in the way of me being on here for a long period of time. And I have other guilds and threads that I have to contact. I am sorry if you are offended but it's life and real life tends to take presidence. Neko, of course I care. I was just being selfish. I'm sorry. I know. I'm sorry I offended you. God knows I wanted attention without causing pain. You did talk to me but you didn't ever message me first. That made me put you in the neutral pile. I don't know. It's a thing. Sorry, hun, you're a sweety, never mean to anyone I know.
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:46 pm
*walks in wincing, knowing he's in major trouble*
.... gonk
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:51 pm
*is completely losing my mind*
stare
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:55 pm
Tennyo-sama eek Asala! Please, calm down. Its not like nobody cares, we do care! But you have to stop looking at everything as though they don't care.... crying ~huggles you close~ Yes, I know Tennyo. See, I think the thing in my head broke 'cause I just had an epiphiny. I just realised that I have no idea who I am. Everything I do, I do out of fear of pain. I desperately seek aproval because my father wasn't abusive until he stopped getting his own way. I seek attention to seek aproval. And most of what I do and how I am is about seeking attention. So I don't really know who I am. It's a really a very strange thought. I wonder what I'm really like. I hope I get a good deal on my personality. XD And if all else fails, I should be able to return it for my old one. XD *strangely excited by the prospect of delving into unknown territory to discover who I really am* ^_^ Oh, and if you haven't all noticed, I've come crawling back again. XD Are you all as sick of my empty threats as I am? Geez, they're annoying. XD ^_^
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 6:02 pm
Geez. The things I do to this poor guild. Sorry everybody, I've been quite the handful at times. XD I'm the trouble-child of this family. XD One of these days I'm gonna grow up. One of these days. Hopefully before the world ends. XD Umm, hey do I even know you? Who are you girl? You been here long?
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 6:16 pm
Neal *is completely losing my mind* stare Oh hi. If I was a Pokemon, my attack for be confusion. Good thing I'm not a Pokemon. XD
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 6:39 pm
Jiyu Alright... in response to Asala's post and I mean this in the best possible way, although I'm sure it won't be taken as such... but here goes anyways.... Friendship is a two-way street... as is any relationship. If you want people to PM and check in on you, then you must first check in on them... this is mostly human nature. While it is true that we enjoy the company of others, many of us are solitary individuals. I personally enjoy spending massive amounts of time alone, but there are other long stretches where I enjoy the company of others... such as this week where I am staying at my boyfriend's house. But he and I aren't hanging on each other every second of this week... there's stuff he likes to do while there is stuff I like to do, so we leave each other alone. This is only for example purposes. So in the long run of what I'm trying to say is: Show some initiative and if the people you're trying to keep in contact with keep in touch with you in return then they are worthwhile enough to really be called friends. In response to the comments about the Guild.... Kindreds began almost two years ago. Most of us back then were already in our 20s or pretty close. We've gotten older and have begun to delve deeper into our adult lives... meaning we don't have the time we used to have. We can no longer just lounge around online all day long. I'm going to be student teaching starting next month and if you guys thought you haven't been seeing me lately, just wait... the same will go for Neko for she will also be student teaching. We may not be here physically, or as physically as you can get for the internet, but that does not mean that our minds do not wander to thinking about how certain people we know here. So in short... we have lives.... adult lives... that must come first if we are to succeed in life. Jiyu, I made many efforts to stay in contact with people. I said it several; times on here to the guild in general as well as to individual people. I also PM several members of the guild to talk. No one responded me my requests within the guild. I got responces to the first message I sent out to each person, but when I reply to them I recieved no further responce. I tried sending new messages and had the same problem. Some people didn't even respond to the new messages, if I recall correctly. I gave everyone serveral months to respond to my many attempts to keep up friendships. When no one held up a convo with me, I came to the logical conclusion that they didn't give a d# about me. Yes, Jiyu, we all have adult lives. But if people can't bother to make time for their friends then they don't deserve to have any. As adults it is our responcibility to learn how to fit in time for everything. It is difficult, I know, but it is our job as responsible adults. Edit: I got snippy at the end of this as I was rather annoyed with how many people assume I'll take things the wrong way. I find it very hurtful. Anyways, I'm changing the ending. I found your post to have an assuming and belittle tone. But, that might just be me as I was rather annoyed when I first read it. I hope you didn't mean it like that? I apologise if anything I've said tonight lacks tact. I'm afraid it never was one of my strong points.
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 6:44 pm
Neal *walks in wincing, knowing he's in major trouble* .... gonk What makes you think you're in trouble? Who are you in trouble with?
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 8:12 pm
Asala-Mai I found your post to have an assuming and belittle tone. But, that might just be me as I was rather annoyed when I first read it. I hope you didn't mean it like that? I apologise if anything I've said tonight lacks tact. I'm afraid it never was one of my strong points. I assume nothing, never have, never will about anything. Assumptions typically lead to arguements that never needed to occur, trust me I learned from experience. As for belittling tone, that is one of the major problems of internet communications... there's no tone to it. I do not belittle people unless they give me cause to do it... Neko can tell you about the stupid girl I dealt with in the exchange a while back. That and it does no good to belittle friends and acquaitences because once you start that you'll end up aloned and shunned by all. You have nothing to apologise for... the things I said came directly from brain to fingers as soon as I had read your post... the only reason I disclaimered my response is that I've known too many people to take things I say in the wrong way because they read the wrong tone into it... no offense was meant, it was me typing from old message board experience. This is my final comments to the situation 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 8:45 pm
hi everyone, I'm new here.
*looks around the room for some new friends*
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 8:53 pm
Arggh hi everyone, I'm new here. *looks around the room for some new friends* *tackle hugs*
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 9:09 pm
*puts Kineyas' cigarette out*
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 9:11 pm
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 9:13 pm
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Posted: Fri Jul 22, 2005 1:49 am
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