Umexchan
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Togiretogire Kitsune
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*glomps you* How are you today?
((Sorry about being a pain earlier. I got too carried away. I would also like to appoligize to you Ume.))
i ish gewd .^. *keeps pouring gasoline on teh phoenix*
((what are you talking about?))
*hugs* Is diesel right?
((I upset some people here recently and i thought you may be one of them. I know I upset Ume. At least the Elder Council thinks I upset her. I kinda think I did too but now I'm not so sure because of what she just posted.))
How do they think you upset me?
confused Because of how we were roleplaying last night with the pack of dogs/pies and such.......Rose even questioned my judgement as a lover because i took Ashie in to the non-existent pool......heres the conversation between Rose, Bity, and Ari and the pm I was sent from Rose.
Sorry it's kinda long.
PM from Rose:
Now having that out of the way down to business. You know before when you stepped in saying how upset my posts made you when I was angry with you? Well this is me stepping in as a responsible member of the guild. Recently you have been doing more than ruffling feathers with people. I was back reading this morning in the chat. You really pissed off Ume-chan and upset Ash. Ume-chan is a very nice person. There is no need to constantly aggravate her. And to take an Aqua-phobic person into a pool is just not necessary. I understand the whole facing your fears thing but you do it step at a time not hold her in water weather she is above it or not. I know, I have almost drown in the shallow end of a pool because some stupid boy was holding my head underwater. You can honestly drown in any level of water. Even drinking a glass of water. If you swallow wrong it can go straight into your lungs and drown you. It almost happened to my great grandmother in the hospital. They had to change her to drinking with a straw.
Now Bite also brought to my attention a post by you of why you bother people so. You say you want to see their true colors. This is not the way to get to know someone in my opinion. From what I have been taught you get to know someone through kindness. You know that saying you catch more flies with honey rather than vinegar? I think it holds true. You can get to know someone with being kind to them and talking to them. Irritating them only allows you to see the anger they have either stored up against you from the amounts of times you have irritated them or just anger in general weather it be caused by another source and you just added to the pile and they take it all out on you.
In my opinion Ume-chan handeled herself well in dealing with the pie issue.
I'm not saying this to be mean at all. I am just giving you a warning because it is more than likely going to be brought up in the elder council. Ari has said something about it and so has Muri who is speaking on Kaze's behalf. I am talking them into letting me work this out with you before a more rash decision is made. I love you as a brother and I don't want you to be removed from the guild because of your behavior.
Here are Ari's words himself so you understand that I am not making this up and others are starting to feel the same way towards your behavior.
Arionis Chambers Wrote:
Tell Chou that I really don't care for his bullshit when dealing with other members.
He needs to reign himself in, or there will be a vote, and I fear he would be in SERIOUS danger of being removed. I've recieved quite complaints about him since when I was still clan leader.
Let him know this is no threat, but a warning, as an Elder and as a friend.
Also please make him realize what the loss of him in the guild may do to Ash.
All I am asking is that you stop going so over board with the testing the limits of the mask thing. Not everyone wears a mask and the people that do have a reason for it. More than likely a reason they are less willing to discuss with you if you keep pestering them so. Lets please all just try to get along. The guild is already struggling with participation, we don't need to lose another member. Please take my request into consideration.
The Conversation:
Bity: *Poofs in*
Wow...Alot of problems have happened while i was gone...
Mainly all caused by Chou...
Rose: *emerges from the shadows* What do you mean a lot of problems?
Bity: Look back over the last few pages..
We find out that Chou has boobie trapped nearly everyones rooms, He forced Ash into the pool and somehow throws pies at Ume..
Rose: Yeah I was reading those. Not much of a lover forcing her to do something she doesn't want to. Especially when she is terrified of water. I don't understand why he has to pick fights with everyone then say he was just playing/ being silly/ joking. It gets really annoying and he knows it. *sighs*
Bity: His reason for annoying everyone:
Quote: chouthenekoarmyveteran Wrote:
I annoy to test the limits of the masks you wear. To see who you really are inside. To know what you are underneath the mask, good or evil. You Bit, are......difficult to see....that's why I annoy you. That's why I annoy everybody here. Demon, Angel, even if your one or the other I'll still like you as a friend just the same. I just want to know the real you. Not the mask you put on when you talk to me. And normally the only way to release someone of their mask is to make them blow up. Same goes for you Kit. Same goes for everybody in this guild.
Rose: *sighs* I am so over this mask thing he has going. He told me yesterday he looked into my soul and saw that I was a fallen angel so he said. I told him a lesser demon. He said he was going to say that but decided against it. I understand getting to know someone but you don't do it pissing them off. I don't care what your reason is, whether it's good or bad don't do it.
Bity: He really does test my patience sometimes...Pissing off someone certanly is not the way to go if you want to know them better..
And as a supposed 17 year old(I dont know if he is..but he doesnt act like one) its even worse..
Rose: He says it's to see the persons true colors. Well what kind of colors are you expecting when you make somebody mad at you. It certainly isn't going to be something like " Oh your so crazy" It's going to be something like "Knock it the hell off!" Poor Ume-chan. She handled herself quite well.
Ari: If he's becoming a problem, then have him dealt with. I do think of Chou as a friend, but I still place the clan before all else. Any thorns should be removed.
Perhaps this one can be dulled in warning?
Rose: Hi Ari. I already have a PM from him that I was unsure how to answer and now after what happened I think I do and I will talk to him about it. Maybe hint at a warning. In other words I'll take care of it.
Bity: Thanks Ari...^-^
Chous attitude can get annoying but you are correct he probably doesnt realise what a pain he's being...although taking my picture from the life photos thread and going in MS Paint and doodling on me is not really the way to say "I really wanna know more about you and i think we can get to be good friends"... but i dont care much about that unless he posts it here...
Ari: Tell Chou that I really don't care for his bullshit when dealing with other members.
He needs to reign himself in, or there will be a vote, and I fear he would be in SERIOUS danger of being removed. I've recieved quite complaints about him since when I was still clan leader.
Let him know this is no threat, but a warning, as an Elder and as a friend.
Also please make him realize what the loss of him in the guild may do to Ash.
Muir: Hi Kids! If you have any further complaints about members of the group, please inbox me, or ask Ume-chan to inbox me. Ari has no internet, and our leader Kaze is on extended leave. I'll be looking after things.
When I next get in touch with Kaze, I shall be discussing the matter of chou. He has no right to irritate other guild members, whatever his rationale may be.
Rose: Muri, I am talking to Chou about the situation now in a PM format. If things can't be settled I will be bringing it up in the elder council along with the PM for proof. Lets not do anything rash just yet. I'd like to give him another chance.