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I find that I do dream of having some, further, relations with some of my friends. Granted, its mostly with my female friends, but thats mostly becuase most of my guy friends are either gay, straight and non opened to try anything, or are just smelly. But, to get on track, I do sometimes feel the want to have further relations with some of my friends. It sucks sometimes though, because I have alot of really hott friends, and they are either Bi or asexual. *Sighs with a little tear that runs down the cheek in a simi-dramiatic way* Life, what a b***h..

I have bi friends, striaght friends, and one guy friend I distinctly think is gay, and we're all just friends. Well, except Cynthia and Cody, but that's another story.

I have had the same thoughts. When I hang with my friends I think of all of them in a sexual way and I think It's wrong but I can't help it. sweatdrop

I think the main determining factor of your opinion on this thing is your take on the potentials of attraction. If you think that being oriented toward males could potentially make you attracted to any guy, then no matter what, your'e always gonna think that you can't have "just friendship" with anyone of the gender(s) you're attracted to.

So this discussion question is the same thing as asking "Can straight girls ever have 'just friendship' with guys?"

I don't really think of my few friends like that, unless they've been heavily laying down hints that they think that way of me. Males generally are the ones who tend to lean towards the stuff, I've noticed. But who hasn't, ne? But most of my friends are either bi's or gay males.

I mean, I make jokes and such with the gay friends about that (funny, one gave me written owership of his virginity--I guess he figures no one's going to come around or I won't bank on it), and whatnot but it's rarely ever serious.

Despite my Bi-ness, though, I keep as far from females as possible. I've manage to have nothing but trouble, and I've managed to almost get myself killed a few times. Of course, I look and whatever, but I never act on my feelings even if they seem to like me too. *le shrug*

Edit: I've also noticed that I can't have a single actual friendship with a nongay guy. They all try stuff with me, and it's gotten annoying. redface

hello people. it is totally possible. although alot of bi people do think of each other sexually, never mind what people say about bisexuals, i have heards so many horrible things about us. its not the sex that people want some times its the love. some people love their friends so much they want to claim them. my friends seem to be like that. but i only do stuff with my girlfriend. i love being bi too bad i cant come out with a big bang. crying

Its possible you just need to know when to seperate sexuality from friendship.

See the reason I have learned is...when I dated a good friend of mien everytihng seemed ok but when I broke it off becuase it didnt seem right I couldnt bring myself to talk to him the same becuase we have kissed or hugged and it just was wrong.........and to talk as if taht enver happened would be wierd....

I think you have hit the closest to home on this one, at least for me. My closest friends (Who I might add are very straight) and I have been best friends from the first time we met way back in preschool. We have a bond that goes way beyond love, sex, or even family. Think the closest thing a civilian can get to the kind of bonds that soldiers develop in times of war, I would jump on a grenade for any of them, and I am sure that they would do the same for me. I can't say that I haven't ever been sexually attracted to a lesser friend, in fact there is a guy who I have known for almost three years who I almost had completely out of his clothing; then he realized that I wasn't joking, and made me stop, but the fact still remains, I do have friends, who loving sexually would be far worse then incest.