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I know ive found mine, we only met this year, but I love her so incredibly much, its like, unhuman. I can look into her eyes and just know, and even though she's a thousand miles away, I can still feel her in my arms when I talk to her at night, I can feel her lips against mine when Im feeling down, I can feel everything she feels, and know she feels the same way about me as I do her, and I cant imagine myself without her, she is my complete other half ^_^

I used to be skeptical as well. The only thing I really can tell you is that you well definetly know.

I was engaged once, it was a good relationship, but not anything to soar above all my others (excluding the time right around when the others ended obviously, but I'm only talking about the good times here). But I loved him and didn't mind staying with him the rest of my life etc...

Looking back now I can't believe the difference. It is on a whole other level. You WILL know. It will be COMPLETELY different than anything you have EVER felt before.

I'm not one to jump fast into serious reltionships beelieve me, but after a week of just talking with Adrian (not even dating) I knew he was the love of my life hands down. I have never trusted a man so completely, felt so good about myself, or have ever been this adored and appriciated in my life. I can honestly say he would do anything for me, and he trusts that I won't ask him to do stupid pointless things that he doesn't want to do just cos I feel like making him do it. I've never had so much balance in a relationship.

You'll think a lot of people are your soul mate before you actually do find your soul mate, but this is what really helps you to know when you have found them. You'll stop and go "I can't believe I thought that about those other people!!"

I had found someone that made me unendingly happy but she dumped me so I doubt we're soul mates..... One day though I shall find her.

I do believe in soulmates; but I also believe that it is possible to have more than one. I'd still say they are rare; so I don't think anyone has like dozens of soulmates- but having 2 or 3 is possible in my opinion. Afterall I believe in reincarnation- and if someone has been born many times, you meet alot of other souls. smile

I've found my soulmate though- I don't know if I have more than him or not. But he does complete me- I can talk about *anything* with him. We spend almost all our time outside work together and never seem to run out of things to talk about. We lived together for 3 years and now have been married 1.5yrs- and we met on the internet. lol We are opposites in so many ways, yet have the same core.

I don't know how to describe it- with other boyfriends I was always jealous if they looked at other women. With him I'm so secure we check out other women together! lol and guys too! Its just a completely different level with him than with any other relationship I've had.

Anyway, thats my thoughts. xd

Lunaria.....19 is not old at all.....you seem like you expected to find yours already at such a young age and I think that is being a bit hard on yourself and adding pressure that you don't need to be feeling at this point in your life.....anyways....as for soulmates I do believe in them in a sense....but I believe there are many(again not necessarily lovers) and I think of them as more of people that you have shared past lives with and you feel a connection with.....my boyfriend and I are that way...when I first met him I knew I had known him before and that we would be together eventually(and we have been together for over three years now)...but just because you find a soulmate does not mean it will be easy and wonderful all the time...we are all human...I do believe we are meant to be with certain people because those are the people you learn from and that can also learn from you...every relationship (good or bad) is relevent and is something you learn from...the person you stay with(I believe anyways) is the person you not only have a kinship(or deep bond with) but also that you will continue to learn from throughout your life....and I don't believe you are lacking anything without a soulmate...I just think they help us complete ourselves through love, companionship and knowledge...that's my opinion anyways

I'm 100% sure I found mine. The only issue is mine is in Australia whilst I'm in the US. It's hard, but I'll deal with it for him heart

I agree with most of what you've said Wing Goddess...

However, everyone is different and age is just a number. Just because you're young, that doesn't mean that you can't have already found your soulmate. The thing that I don't understand is how teenagers (or anyone else for that matter) can think that the first person they ever have an actual relationship with is their soulmate. How can you possibly know that when you've never been with anyone else? Most people would say, "because I've never felt this way about anyone before." Well, yeah... but that's because you've never been with anyone else.

I agree with the on-line relationships thing... if you've never met the person, then you don't know who they really are. For all you know they could be some 40 year old, bald man, with a wife and two kids pretending to be a 14 year old teenage boy. There'd really be no way for you to know that without meeting them first.

Long distance relationships... it depends on the people and the kind of relationship they have. Teenagers... I've known plenty of teenagers, myself included, who have been in a long distance relationship... none of them worked out. Long distance relationships require a lot of maturity and trust.