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Thanks your help. I think that explains it. smile

OH! I think I can figure this one out! I think it's a bit obvious that you're afraid of being alone, which means you're probably in a situation where it's likely that you and your friends will grow apart. This could be college or differing summer plans or just realizing that you have different interests while you're growing. It seems to be the same for your second nightmare: You're afraid that events you can't control are going to separate you and you guys wind up clinging to a damaged and/or thin relationship that eventually ends in a painful or emotionally scarring break-up. Are you going through a major change?


Well, it could be the idea of meeting your soul mate, or it could be a coping mechanism. I've actually just read something on how people 18 and younger (I don't know if you fit into that age group, but oh well) tend to make representations of the people they've lost until they don't need them anymore. The reason why they're so real could be because of a subconscious need to have someone who's always there for you in the physical (sort of) world that you perceive as real. Since your mind can't just produce a guy in real life, it might be giving you the comfort you need via this subconscious projection of the friend that abandoned you.


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Well, I think it COULD be because you feel guilty, but he forgives you, but I know it goes a lot deeper. I'm not sure if you approved of his actions, but I'm guessing not. His imagined future, should his wishes for a change in leadership be acknowledged and put through, would mean a better life for everyone. At least, in his mind. That would be his paradise. The people who would benefit from it would be his followers, figuratively. If you saw an entirely different landscape, then it could mean that you saw a negative aspect that he didn't account for, like the fear of him getting hurt, the faculty worrying about an assassination attempt, the cheerleader's thoughts on his myspace and so forth. When he was taking the fall due to his... I don't want to say foolishness, but not watching where he was going I guess? That would be him getting in trouble. You turned him in to try and help him, but he was expelled. I'll bet you feel guilty for that no matter how much he forgives you, so you see yourself as a demon or dark evil figure. He sees it as you saving his behind from something much worse than expulsion (I'm assuming) and sees you as a saving grace. At least, that's what I think. Does it sound about right?



Oh, definitely! New school, different classes, that can cause tons of stuff like this! Things are changing and it won't all be good. As for why he's more distant, I won't automatically go to cheating, though it's a slim possibility. Instead, it could just be that he's worried about school and any extracurricular activities that he's in. He might just not have all of his time set aside for you, leaving life more opportunities to screw with you. Change is always stressful, especially when you're worried that your main support group is spreading and weakening, or is at risk of weakening. Calm down and try to think of positives or schedule weekends with friends and your boyfriend so that you can have a bit more control of your life and try to keep ties. smile


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so a couple nights ago, my girlfriend had a dream, it began with a coronation, the male was dark headed and had red eyes, the female was dark headed as well, after the coronation they started to do some X rated stuff, but one thing that stuck out was that he had bitten the females neck like a vampire, she was IN the dream, like physically there, she turned around to leave but stumbled on something and the man noticed her, and grabbed a hold of her. thats when she woke up, any idea wtf is going on?

Well her summer classes started a few days ago, :I i honestly don't know a whole lot

For some reason, I've been having a lot of dreams about being pregnant lately. I know, for a fact, that I am not pregnant, so there's no way that my body could be trying to tell me there's a little me growing inside of my uterus at the moment. However, it's still starting to bother myself and my boyfriend. I do look forward to the time in my life when I am financially set (or as set as you can be) for children, but I've always been that way. And the dreams are rather strange.

For example, in my most recent dream about being pregnant, my boyfriend and I were living in either the late 1700s or early 1800s in a log cabin with some woman who was apparently my friend. We were all dressed in period costume and everything seemed as normal as it could be. The men were doing manly jobs (stacking and chopping logs for firewood and the like) and the women were sewing clothing and cooking. It was a wonderful dream, even when I realized that one of the women in the group was sitting down and making strained faces. Turns out, she was 9 months pregnant and having labor pains. The woman who owned the house told me to get hot towels and warm water, then to report to her bedroom to help with the birthing. Sparing you the gory details, we delivered a beautiful little baby boy and that was when I noticed I was pregnant. The strangest thing is that I could see little fists pushing against my skin, almost as though it were trying to get out. Or to signal that it was there. Apparently, I had actually known I was pregnant for a month or two, but no one else had. I finally told my boyfriend at that point and he was both nervous and excited. Then I... kinda woke up. Lol.

I wasn't sure if there was anything more to the dreams than me just wanting to grow up and have a family, but I figure that it really can't hurt to get an outside opinion.