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Posted: Fri Jul 10, 2009 8:52 pm
I'm gay too, well bi but for the time being I'm with a girl so I'm just claiming to be gay now? Because apparently bisexual people are like bad juju to the gay/lesbian/transsexual group...? *shrug* That makes me a little sad I suppose.
Also I've always wanted to donate to Gaia when I joined but I was 15 at that time so I didn't have money for that. sweatdrop Now I have money but they only have stupid crap. xD; -meaning all the random generating items...
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 12:07 am
XD bi isn't bad juju~ *hugs the sug*
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 6:02 am
Well I dunno if it's bad, but for some reason from what I've experienced/seen is that most people who are gay or lesbian seem to shun people who I guess "claim" to be bi....? I haven't seen it myself in person I've seen people on TV acting in such ways. Mayra told me that she had first hand experience with a couple of her gay guy friends who seemed shocked to learn she was bi, so she told me she just started saying she was gay instead.
However Mayra and I both agree we would like to be called gay versus lesbian because it sounds like derogatory to us or demeaning. I know that Dyke or butch are more derogatory, but in a sense the word lesbian sounds just as bad to us.
*hugs back* ^.^
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 12:54 pm
Meh, I don't have anything against gay people. I mean, I myself am not gay in any way, but hey, it's not my problem. I see people who are genuinely in love, even if they are both guys or something, and I go "Okay, that's fine. You didn't exactly ask to fall in love with another guy, and it's none of my business anyway." But, y'know, that's just me. Ty Ty Daniel that just sounds plain sexiest. also, why are you acting like gay is a bad thing?>_> I'm gay. I like my avatar to look rainbow special~ Like right now its not rainbow but its sparkly and has bloomers on, which are girls underwear that look like lil puffy shorts. Oh trust me, he can be really bad like that. I mean, he says that I can't help do work around the house with power tools and stuff cuz I'm a girl and it's guy stuff... stare
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 3:46 pm
what the hell? then do it anyway~! Hes so sexiest!
And i don't understand any bias against bisexuality o.O then again I've never actually witnessed it first hand. Wait, scratch that, i know some people that say you don't count as gay or bi until you've had sex.
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 4:13 pm
xD Yeah...he's not always that way; personally I think he has a split personality. Sometimes he's a nice older brother, and sometimes he's just a jerk.
>.< Well, I suppose that's a way of thinking of it...But does it really matter if you 'count' as gay to other people? I mean, are you just trying to prove you're gay?
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 5:46 pm
Hmmm, interesting. I don't think I've heard anyone saying that it doesn't count until you've had sex before. Not like that matters though.
Apparently the G/L/T community says you're confused and that you don't know what you want to be when you claim you're bi. At least that's what we've heard.
And that's sad! But at least he can be nice sometimes right...? xD;;; Maybe he's bipolar. We think that Mayra's dad is cuz he can be nice sometimes but the majority of the time he's an a**. >.> It's really weird.
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 5:52 pm
Meh, I'm the same way...He actually is surprisingly nice sometimes. .... But not right now, cuz he's demanding my chocolate... stressed
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 6:06 pm
NEVA!!!! scream
Don't give into the demand of chocolate, you might need some for later! gonk
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 6:13 pm
xD I got a hee-UGE bag of Hersey's Kisses for my birthday from my dad and sometimes if he's being good I'll give him a piece...And now he's become dependent on it. gonk Tis mine. I needs it for...Girly reasons. [aka, it helps PMS]
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 7:06 pm
Hmmm good choice. 3nodding I like Hershey kisses, I go in phases with my chocolate. I'll like to have a different kind or I'll keep eating the same kind for a while. So I buy a lot of it and eat a lot of chocolate and... >w>;;;
However I always stick to Hershey's chocolates because it is by far the best. 3nodding Nestle doesn't know how to make a good milk chocolate.. xp My favorite is any chocolate with nuts in them. I like just outright chocolate in very small portions otherwise, like kisses. But when I buy big bars of chocolate I gotta have my Hershey with almonds... whee heart
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 7:13 pm
Mhhhhhhh. I think I might be delusional, but sometimes I can taste almonds in my Hershey's Kisses.... sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 7:19 pm
Hmmm, I don't think so honestly and you know what that is...? Because on the back of a lot of the packaging it tends to say "this product may contain traces of peanuts" -or other nut products.
Which I don't mind but those who are allergic to peanuts kind of have it rough... Guh I would hate to find out I was allergic to chocolate or something else I love to eat. gonk
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 7:22 pm
I know...one of my friends' little brother is, like, deathly allergic to chocolate, so she can't have it. Which has to suck.
Another thing. One of my other friends, Bethany, likes chocolate milk. That's fine, right? But get this: She won't touch milk or chocolate. Ridiculous, right? I mean, for one thing, how can you not like milk or chocolate? But then you go and drink a mix of the two...? It's stupid...
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 7:33 pm
Homfg, that's kind of funny actually. xd I mean the whole chocolate milk liking but not milk or chocolate alone... xd xd xd xd xd I mean I don't really care for milk unless I'm eating a PB&J sandwich. x333 That sounds nummy I wish I had some bread.... sweatdrop
But that DOES suck to not be able to have something. ><;; Oh man I would be really sad if I was allergic to strawberries too! They taste so good! xD But then also since you have someone who is deathly allergic to something and it makes it to where you can't have it REALLY sucks! ><;;;
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