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Who cares? Dating is pointless for the most part. When the opportunity arises to grasp as some kind of fleeting joy in this cesspool of apathy and pessimism that is humanity leading to a more fulfilling, optimistic life style, go for it. If not, well chances are it's not really what you need.

Focus on school, financial security, amongst other things. Truth is you need a foundation and good land to build a solid house on. Otherwise it'll just crumble with the times.

The only experience someone could get from a multitude of relationships is sexual performance and confidence, or stripped confidence. Seeing as each person is unique to a point having been with a man or woman prior to probably won't matter except that you might be able to kiss better or have more stamina in the sack. Anything else is just acting. When you act you come off generic. Experience can make a person generic in some ways.

Oh, and Viking up there what with the drugs and the ******** and the shitolerance. Depending on the drugs, level of addiction, and personality you're probably better off with out those drug friends.

Ya I am still looking to.

It makes me feel stupid with my limited vocabulary emo Eh, but it's really not something I care about that much. I am focusing on school and the important stuff I'll need later on, but that doesn't mean there isn't time for free time every once in a while. I do agree with the whole generic thing though, if there's one thing I hate, is being like everyone else. I like being an individual, but it is always good to have someone to share your views with.

Blues, I never knew you had such a dark outlook on life. How did you come to those conclusions living in Hawaii? Hawaii is the closest thing to Paradise on Earth that some of us will ever experience. I am quite jealous. mrgreen

@Canis: Dude, aren't you like 14? You don't need anything serious, trust me. I wanted a girlfriend so badly when I was your age and it led to... well ALOT of crap that I'd rather not have experienced. The best thing anyone can do is try and be happy with themselves, especially in your teenage years when the toughest thing you have to deal with is your own self-image.

@Viking: Some things are worth losing friends over. I don't care how long I've known someone, if they ever tried involving drugs in my life, I would cut them out post-haste. No reason to have tolerance for that kind of thing.

15...but I do know what you mean, that's why I didn't count any of the non-serious crush relationships that lasted like a few days. I only had 2 serious ones, and I dealt with a lot of the problems in a relationship like that. Cheating, using, you name it. If I get into relationships, I doubt I'll take them seriously anymore as it just lets your guard down.

One, I'm playing folklore again. Two, Bush is still President. Three, I care. Four, Little Big Planet isn't out til September. Five, my general opinion of society is low because I flunked every single Math class simply because I liked figuring out different ways of solving problems and I'd get them ******** right. Math is a ******** science with room for interpretation so long as the end result reproduces the original outcome. Five, my second girlfriend stole my Vagrant Story and now a piece of my soul is missing.

Other than that I'm actually a happy, optimistic person that enjoyed the best surf of my life back on New Years day. Generally I'm happy and optimistic. I've just been in a mood for realism lately.

@Lupus: why do you keep saying you have a limited vocabulary? You seem fine to me...i'm primarily french and I understand at leasy 99% of what people here say.

@Blues: How can folklore give you a dark outlook on life...I just started playing and it doesn't seem that depressing...except for all the dying...and stealing souls...hmm, maybe you're right... sad