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 Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 12:30 am
Hellboy3280 Aileeya ?? *Moves over to Hellboy* How may I help? You can't. I'm sorry....I wish I could help....if you think of anything--don't hesitate to ask!
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 12:32 am
Arionis Chambers *is reading link*.......touching hair is a type of flirting? o0 And I'm not desensitized.....much.....honest.......>.> And Chou's the one who has the tapee, kill him XD Ihaven' sold any copies yetIMEAN I had no part in this <.<;
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 12:32 am
Aileeya Hellboy3280 Aileeya ?? *Moves over to Hellboy* How may I help? You can't. I'm sorry....I wish I could help....if you think of anything--don't hesitate to ask! Um...my friend is moving from Washington to New Mexico....
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 12:36 am
Aileeya Arionis Chambers *is reading link*.......touching hair is a type of flirting? o0 And I'm not desensitized.....much.....honest.......>.> And Chou's the one who has the tapee, kill him XD Ihaven' sold any copies yetIMEAN I had no part in this <.<; *finished reading* ......knew all that except the hair thing and hugs being considered flirting XD *shrugs* Oh well. I don't view signs of caring or affection as flirting, so I'm not going to worry about it.
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 12:36 am
Hellboy3280 Aileeya Hellboy3280 Aileeya ?? *Moves over to Hellboy* How may I help? You can't. I'm sorry....I wish I could help....if you think of anything--don't hesitate to ask! Um...my friend is moving from Washington to New Mexico.... Oh....I'm SO sorry! I HATE having to let go of friends when they or we move....it's so hard!! Some good friends of ours moved 4.5 to 5 hours West of us, and we've taken to visiting them every few weeks...it's been expensive, but worth it. My heart goes out to you.
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 12:42 am
//Some people don't like showing affection in public for example, so holding hands, hugging or kissing can be a big no-no.//
-.- Hugging is a friendly showing of affection. It can be more but it's usually not.
And further more I write poetry. I do it because I love to write and become inspired by many things. Once before I wrote for somebody. I no longer do that sort of thing. If I get in a situation where my poem can combine with someone elses to produce a sort of battle of beauty then it will. I however write from the inspiration of their poems and they my poems.
//Men are oblivious when it comes to the dangers of flirts.//
I flirt. I am a flirt. I can't control it. I just want to be loved. And so I flirt. And I am not oblivious to the effects of flirting.......my last girlfriend......cheated on me......she didn't want to be with him but she persisted in her flirting.......after she continuosly flirted with her bestfriend also known as her ex for several months she left me.....They both were idiots when it came to their flirting.....equally oblivious as to what they were doing.......equally stupid and naive....therefore I find this statement false on the grounds that each sex is equally oblivious. I have a sister to prove that.
Filled with both true and false I actually find this link intriguing.
One problem though. the test was performed on college kids.......college kids who are technically still children/teenagers......children who are still at that idiotic party phase in life......ask a 30 to 40 year old.....then you can talk to me.
Oh btw aileeya *hugs* how are you today?
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 12:51 am
Aileeya Hellboy3280 Aileeya Hellboy3280 Aileeya ?? *Moves over to Hellboy* How may I help? You can't. I'm sorry....I wish I could help....if you think of anything--don't hesitate to ask! Um...my friend is moving from Washington to New Mexico.... Oh....I'm SO sorry! I HATE having to let go of friends when they or we move....it's so hard!! Some good friends of ours moved 4.5 to 5 hours West of us, and we've taken to visiting them every few weeks...it's been expensive, but worth it. My heart goes out to you.
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 12:52 am
chouthenekoarmyveteran Shiro Ookamitoko chouthenekoarmyveteran Shiro Ookamitoko Arionis Chambers *grabs Shiro by wrist, pulls her back into hug, petting hair* Only for tonight. ^.^; Not sure when I'll be back fully. Is everything okay? Dude! You're freaking me out! I'm a chastity freak! I've never flirted! I hugged you 'cause I missed you! My dad's the only guy who can touch my hair, and that's only 'casue he rocks at french braids! Yeah, everything's fine. Although you must have heard that I've split into two people now. *clears throat loudly* Heya Shiro, Sukai! Whats up? *Shiro and Sukai reply simultaniously* Insomnia. *hands you a vaikadin(sp i know) and a bahama mama* Have fun you two. xD No thanks. It's the kind of insomnia where you get a headache, caffine wouldn't be a good idea.
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 12:52 am
Shiro Ookamitoko No thanks. It's the kind of insomnia where you get a headache, caffine wouldn't be a good idea. Yeah. By the way, what are those drinks you handed us? I've never heard of either . . .
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 12:55 am
Shiro Ookamitoko Shiro Ookamitoko No thanks. It's the kind of insomnia where you get a headache, caffine wouldn't be a good idea. Yeah. By the way, what are those drinks you handed us? I've never heard of either . . . The Bahama Mama? It's a liquor drink. It's one drink. *hugs you* You ish silleh Shiro! *hands you tylenol* You ok?
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 12:56 am
Shiro Ookamitoko Shiro Ookamitoko No thanks. It's the kind of insomnia where you get a headache, caffine wouldn't be a good idea. Yeah. By the way, what are those drinks you handed us? I've never heard of either . . . *takes the drink* Nope, your too young for this.
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 12:59 am
xD Looks like I scared Aileeya off.......Or at least pi$$ed her off. o0'"'
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 1:03 am
chouthenekoarmyveteran xD Looks like I scared Aileeya off.......Or at least pi$$ed her off. o0'"' *gives thumbs up sign* Because THATS what you want to do to your mothe in law personXD .......the first is usually true, but the second makes your life a living hell XD
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 1:04 am
Arionis Chambers chouthenekoarmyveteran xD Looks like I scared Aileeya off.......Or at least pi$$ed her off. o0'"' *gives thumbs up sign* Because THATS what you want to do to your mothe in law personXD .......the first is usually true, but the second makes your life a living hell XD -.- I ish scwewed ishn't I? Maybe she just got tired and went to bed? Or is yellin at Shiro? Oh please let it be one of those.
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 1:05 am
I'm fine--thank you!
I found the article amusing...It's been my experience thus far--that most men are oblivious to the dangers of flirting....the danger is to any committed relationship, whether current or pending, of course
When I was 9 months along with Shiro, my beloved and I were in a mall getting something to eat. As I negotiated sitting down--a big deal, because Shiro was anteriorly placed, and therefore I was H-U-G-E! We're talkin' BEACHED WHALE HUGE.....I could BARELY fit in the 'cut out' at the table---the chairs were bolted to the table, and only moved sideways---the table, to make up for the fact that the chairs could not be scooted away--had this CURVE in them--and I could just barely fit Shiro in there (she turned out to be 10.1 pounds at birth)
So, there I was finally sitting down--and my beloved was flirting away with the cashier!
I waited patiently....he was supposed to be bringing me my lemonade....he kept flirting instead. She was flirting away with him too--now, he HAD a wedding ring on---it was an antique ring and QUITE wide, VERY obvious...and I suspected she knew he was married--but just didn't care...he was cute, and there.
So! I very carefully extricated myself from the table and waddled over to them. The closer I got--I could SEE it dawn upon her face that *I* WAS his wife....her face turned white. She QUIT flirting--and frantically glanced at my eyes a couple of times in the time it took me to get up to him--practically silently begging my forgiveness...but he was still oblivious. I tapped him on the shoulder--guided him out of the store, and took him to task for treating me that way.
It took me nearly three days to truly understand that he actually had been completely oblivious--he actually had NO idea that he had been flirting--but here's the kicker you guys--SHE knew it the whole time and acknowledged it to me as well.
Just because you don't THINK you're flirting by no means does that mean you're not. LOL
It can be VERY dangerous especially in the early days of a relationship--and especially when one or more members are insecure.
Flirting also insulates one against forging any relationships with others who don't want to be in a relationship with a flirt....it can anyway.
More for girls than for guys. Guys are expected to flirt, to a degree...girls not necessarily...especially in more religious, or conservative families.
Superchick has an excellent line in Princes and Frogs (or Underdog)
But just because you haven't found your prince yet
Doesn't mean you're not still a princess
What if your prince comes riding in
While your kissing a frog, what's he gonna think then
So look into his eyes
Are you a princess or a fly
And that's why you will NEVER see me flirting in these threads...flirting feeds an appetite that I satisfy SOLELY with my beloved. None of you guys here are a "fly" to me...so I'll always treat you like Princes.
I come from a different background, and am OLDER, though, so I've not yet held you guys to that sort of standard...so don't worry. I'm more just acquainting you with the perspective than demanding that everyone here rise to that level....you guys ARE kids., and this is a secular environment...and I know that...it would be nice if you all had the chance to recognize our culture as well though---which you're not going to have unless we talk about it....so please take this information as informative, rather than judgmental, ok?
heart heart heart heart
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