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 Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 8:07 pm
*makes victory sign* Izzy brought me vodka and chocolate! I'm a happy woman. Now to go kill something! HERE ZOMBIE DOG!!!! *plays SH3*
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 8:08 pm
KasumiAngel I like this guild cause I can always come here for a bit of light-hearted fun... and also not have to deal with people who can't understand having kids before 30... I had my first at 22. I have four now and if all works out might one day have one more. I must be nuts... xp
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 8:09 pm
KasumiAngel I like this guild cause I can always come here for a bit of light-hearted fun... and also not have to deal with people who can't understand having kids before 30...
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 8:09 pm
Wicked, I just realized your bouncy head thingie is being rude. xd
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 8:13 pm
Tomoe_Gozen KasumiAngel I like this guild cause I can always come here for a bit of light-hearted fun... and also not have to deal with people who can't understand having kids before 30... That sounds like my family... Every other generation but mine started their families around the ages of 18. This is why my boys actually have a set of living great great grandparents. As it was I only waited until I was 20. I'm 25 with 2 and I'm hoping to have more.
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 8:17 pm
My aunt Lynn had her first at 19 and my aunt Jule had her first at about 24 I think. I'm in the middle ground here. We'll just see what time has planned out for me.
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 8:28 pm
Do you guys ever feel that being younger parents, you get held to a higher standard than people who have children in their 30's? By the general public, I mean. I used to feel that very sharply- but not nearly so much since we moved- our old town was very judgemental/small minded.
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 8:37 pm
I get that from my family. Nevermind the fact my aunt Lynn had her first child at 19. stare
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 8:51 pm
Well, having Logan young worked for me, doesn't work for everyone. Although I haven't really dealt with too much prejuidice, I've gotten it here and there.
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 9:34 pm
I doubt you look like you're 15 though.
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 9:34 pm
I want to have all of my children by the time I'm thirty and have a hard time understanding the changing opinions on ages when people choose to have families and the almost disdain (I want to call it) for people who choose to have families "early"...though I really don't consider before 30 early. :/
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 9:39 pm
I didn't want my first child to be 10 when I'm 40. That and it would be strange when it came to grandchildren. For me that is.
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 9:41 pm
XD For me, I want all of my children gone while I have about half of my life left and I can enjoy it. Also, my mom was 36 when she had my brother and I think that was way too old to have another one. She just didn't have the energy for him like she did for me 10 years earlier.
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 9:44 pm
That's exactly what I mean. I'm glad I have my son though. He is the greatest part of my life aside from Frank. I love them both. I just of course love them in different ways.
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 9:55 pm
Hah, I do look like 16, I'm asian, it's a gift and a curse. Most of the time anyone says a damn thing about being young with a kid, I remind them they don't know me. I get carded for cigs when Logan's with me!
True, he wasn't planned, but I want to be able to have the energy and time to be a SAHM and get my degree by age 30.
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