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Posted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 9:01 pm
Why do we fall down, Bruce? To learn how to pick ourselves up.
I really think you should seperate yourself from Will, Nios. He's pulling you down by guilting you into things to do for him.
... Although I could be wrong, considering my wrong streak lately. Wow, truthspell followed by a wrongstreak. Fun.
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Posted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 9:02 pm
I can't tell if he's guilting me or if I'm ungrateful. He's an amazing guy. My best friend.
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Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 2:18 am
Nios I can't tell if he's guilting me or if I'm ungrateful. He's an amazing guy. My best friend. Why can't it be both? Still, neither makes for a good relationship.
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Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 5:05 am
It doesn't sound like he's the right person for you. You're not cold-hearted, but you need someone who you can love. Sometimes it's not enough that they love you. That, and you can't feel bad because you cannot make the sacrifices he asks you to make. His making sacrifices is his choice. If you don't want to make sacrifices, you shouldn't have to. No one can force you to. His loving you does not give him the right to demand anything from you.
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Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 5:23 am
I wouldn't say demand. More like, hope for.I think I'm going to give him more of a chance to grow on me. We were together for over a year. Then we went on a two month break. Now we're back togethet but we haven't been back together that long. I think I exaggerate things to make them seem worse than they are and forget about the good things.
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Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 5:32 am
Nios I think I'm going to give him more of a chance to grow on me. You'd think he would have grown on you by now. I hope it works out for you, though. I've seen to many people keep themselves in unhappy relationships because they think they complain to much and the relationship would be better if they worked harder to make it work. In most of these cases, the person is already trying their hardest to make it work, but the two people are just incompatible in a partnership. I hope that's not your case.
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Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 8:06 am
I hope not either. I have stayed in a bad relationship in the past. I stayed for a year. It was one of those situations where the solution was so simple, but I stayed anyways thinking it was complicated. I manage to complicate a lot of ideas in my head. Most of this must be in my head.
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Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 8:18 am
Yeah, everything that JoVo's said on this page.
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Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 8:28 am
Just remember that this is just what I'm expressing. My brain thinks silly things. It might make a lot more sense if Will explained a few things here but of course he would never. Maybe I need another talk with him. My head makes stuff up. I've got a crazy imagination. I'm seeing him on Friday so I'll see if he can figure things out for me. He usually understands my feelings better than I do.
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Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 8:29 am
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Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 8:35 am
Thanks. I'll try to limit further personal issues.
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Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 8:42 am
Dude, that's what this thread is for.
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Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 8:45 am
Oh I know, I just don't like talking about myself. It feels kind of weird to me.
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Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 9:00 am
Nios Oh I know, I just don't like talking about myself. It feels kind of weird to me. I know how that is. I don't like to open up either. Then it's a doozie, and Astri yells at me. xp
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Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 9:12 am
London was bombed. 33 people dead. 45 people seriously injured. gonk
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