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Those are nice, though the tobi one looks like it was made on photobucket o.0

On the subject of dating, I am single too. It's fun at times, but then there's times like dances...or little events that require a significant other...other than that I love the singleness, you can do w.e. you want no consequences =)

Being friends with her and her friends is good.

Like I said, if you really feel strong about it, then please add the modesty thing from my sig to yours. By something so small as doing that, we can start a movement.

On the part of the guy asking if you needed a ride: I probably would have asked because your car might have broken down or something. But I wouldn't have asked like that. It probably would have been something along the lines of, "Hey, do you need a ride to someplace, or are you just walking to walk?"

Would that have been better? [I get it though, that guy was a creeper.]

On the subject of movies: Movie and then dinner was the original plan, but I'll probably go with her and her friend. When you just go to the movies, the whole "being alone in the dark" makes both people like they are supposed to do something more then just enjoy a movie together. If you have dinner afterward, it gives you a chance to discuss the movie and enjoy a meal together.

Meta, on the subject of cleavage: Ok, so that girl I was talking about did have a swooping neckline on her shirt today, but it wasn't showing off more than an inch or so of that area. That's really modest compared to her best friend, whom had about half the damn things hanging out. Its rare for the girl I like to wear something that shows chest, and I'm grateful when she keeps it to a minimum. I understand it was hotter than normal today. But I digress: cleavage is attractive when you don't guard against it, and I catch myself sometimes noticing their cleavage and forms. But here's a couple tips. (girls, don't hate me, okay?)

1: It's hard as hell not to look, but the point is if you notice yourself looking there, find something else to look at IMMEDIATELY. Sure, your eyes will wonder on occasion and run across them, but just keep your eyes moving and move on to something else, like their eyes or the board or the floor. After a while, you'll find yourself not staring at girl's "attributes", and when you do look it will be little more than a glance. It also helps to keep your eyes level with the floor when you can.

2: You have to change your mentality from "OH, WOW! BOOBIES!" to "meh, skin." Look, that area is meant to attract us guys, but when a girl that shows it off to everyone and their grandmother, you need to realize that it is nothing but meat to them. When you have someone special wearing something like that, then it IS special. But when its an every-day thing where skin there is showing or they have on those tight booty shorts, just treat it like it's just like looking at a hand or a door. Because in all reality, it isn't attractive when you get right down to it. Its undignified.

3. Face. Face Face Face Face Face. Face. TALK to girls. When you get caught up in a conversation and talk to their FACES, you won't look at their "attributes". And, usually the girls that are worth talking to aren't wearing that crap anyways, except on rare occasion.

I hope this helps you A. Not be labeled a perv and B. Be more comfortable around girls.

That's because both of them are older than you, and something else which I could say, but would be quite mean.

Tell me ninja What is it that you were going to say?

like.....

Oh, do you think my suggestions to Meta are any good?