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 Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2005 8:39 am
Akil shadowlaw okay... wait a sec. You've so left me out of a lot of things that have happened. but if I'm reading this right... and I'd like to think that I am... did he actually tell you it was okay to get a new boy and then ******** guilt trip you about it when you did??? You've got to be ******** joking. He has no right to be calling shots on what you can do and who you can date after ending a relationship with you... okay this is a personal note now... why the ******** would you want someone in your lifes who's making a string of decisions that are making your life more complicated and making you unhappy?
Shadow: I make my own decisions for my own reasons. If I want to keep Cody in my life regardless of him "controlling me", then I will. End of story.
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2005 11:31 am
I know you're just trying to be helpful shadow but pushing what you believe on someone else and argueing with other people when they disagree with you is not the way to go.
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2005 1:23 pm
While you are both right and its Gothy's right to choose, I know shadow is just trying to keep someone he cares about from being hurt again. I think I know from my own experiances that we don't want to see people we care about make the same mistakes we have either made or seen others make. Ultimately, we just want her to be happy and if thats what it takes then so be it 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2005 1:41 pm
Impresarioz While you are both right and its Gothy's right to choose, I know shadow is just trying to keep someone he cares about from being hurt again. I think I know from my own experiances that we don't want to see people we care about make the same mistakes we have either made or seen others make. Ultimately, we just want her to be happy and if thats what it takes then so be it 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2005 3:00 pm
Nyika Why are mothers so bitchy..
I mean..
My mum does not care that my bf stays over at my place during the week...she only wants to know..
but my bf/s mum hates it...get mad and yells at him..
She does not allow it..and I just wonder why?
He helps her more than his brothers do...
And she says that his brothers are also not allowed to do it, but his oldest brother lives very near to his gf and his younger brother sees her at school every day...and we just can not have that, and she knows it..
I often feel its my fault...
she just does not like me...
Perhaps its cos she does love anyone anymore...
cos she divorced a few years ago..
And I know it is not easy for her...
cos her mum died recently..
but we have alwats been supportive..
but it does not seem to matter
Don't feel its your fault. It isn't. My boytoy's mother hates the fact that we're going out. You boyfriend's mother is most likely afraid that she's going to lose him. She may fear that she's going to be replaced by you (silly thought isn't it?). Just give it time and things should smooth out.
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2005 4:23 pm
History class.
spz sneezes once.
-silence-
spz sneezes twice.
-silence-
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Gibson sneeze once.
Class goes:
"BLESS YOU, GIBSON, BLESS YOU!"
neutral grr.
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2005 5:28 pm
Like I said... that last line was on a personal note. Not advising, not breaking down a situation, just asking wtf?
As for upsetting her... I can only act in the way that I act. I may have all the tact, gentleness and grace of a falling anvil but it's just who I am. If she's allowed to make her own decisions however she wants then I'm allowed to react naturally.
I do have her best interest in mind but I can't control her. I don't try to. I just ask the questions I need to ask and it's up to her whether or not she wishes to ask them of herself and/or answer them.
End of story.
@ spZ: Oh come on. God blessed you enough already. I mean have you looked in the mirror lately? Geez. You're so greedy. We need all the blessing we can get just to catch up. xd
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2005 7:16 pm
shadowlaw Like I said... that last line was on a personal note. Not advising, not breaking down a situation, just asking wtf? As for upsetting her... I can only act in the way that I act. I may have all the tact, gentleness and grace of a falling anvil but it's just who I am. If she's allowed to make her own decisions however she wants then I'm allowed to react naturally. I do have her best interest in mind but I can't control her. I don't try to. I just ask the questions I need to ask and it's up to her whether or not she wishes to ask them of herself and/or answer them. End of story.
But if anybody cares I have no work Monday and Tuesday. biggrin Ya'll can complain about that. Go ahead~
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2005 7:39 pm
Thanks to everyone who had input into my situation, it is all appreciated. No, really I never really knew that anyone really cared about my well being so much. It makes me feel genuinely loved, in the friendly way, of course.
Shadow: I appreciate that you're worried for me, but sometimes people chose to take the path that's falling apart that runs along a side of a mountain, meaning that there's a huge chance of falling of the edge if you step wrong. I guess for once, I want to see where this broken path will lead me... I mean, really, I have nothing to lose. Do you know what I mean, or am I just rambling?
Akil: Why on earth would be complain about you not having to work on Monday or Tuesday? eek We should all rejoyce(sp?)!
spZ: That happens to me all the time too. ):
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Posted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 8:12 am
Akil Nyika Why are mothers so bitchy..
I mean..
My mum does not care that my bf stays over at my place during the week...she only wants to know..
but my bf/s mum hates it...get mad and yells at him..
She does not allow it..and I just wonder why?
He helps her more than his brothers do...
And she says that his brothers are also not allowed to do it, but his oldest brother lives very near to his gf and his younger brother sees her at school every day...and we just can not have that, and she knows it..
I often feel its my fault...
she just does not like me...
Perhaps its cos she does love anyone anymore...
cos she divorced a few years ago..
And I know it is not easy for her...
cos her mum died recently..
but we have alwats been supportive..
but it does not seem to matter
I'm the last child in the family and my dad is having some serious hard times.
But she can be bitching against all of them really..
But before I met him she was telling him t find a gf and be away more oftern and now that he is, he needs to be home more often
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Posted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 6:47 pm
XxxLa Rose NoirexxX Thanks to everyone who had input into my situation, it is all appreciated. No, really I never really knew that anyone really cared about my well being so much. It makes me feel genuinely loved, in the friendly way, of course.
Shadow: I appreciate that you're worried for me, but sometimes people chose to take the path that's falling apart that runs along a side of a mountain, meaning that there's a huge chance of falling of the edge if you step wrong. I guess for once, I want to see where this broken path will lead me... I mean, really, I have nothing to lose. Do you know what I mean, or am I just rambling?
Akil: Why on earth would be complain about you not having to work on Monday or Tuesday? eek We should all rejoyce(sp?)!
spZ: That happens to me all the time too. ): I know what you mean. and I've fought the loosing battles in an attempt to defy the gods many times myself. sometimes i win. usually i don't. but to clarify something just so you don't get surprised later... you always have more to loose. be careful sai.
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Posted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 7:05 pm
So, I'm stuck at my parent's house watching TV with my mom. Since it's her house I let her have the remote. I regreted this decisiom due to her lack of "remote controll skill." Basiclay she's watching MTV, and I'm sitting on the other side of the coutch trying really hard to hold back my imenent eye rolling. I'm not really focused on the Tv, but when a music vidoe that sucked came on I had to intervien. First off, I knew she didn't listen to that kind of music, so I had to ask, "Why are you watching this?" She replied, "I don't know, waiting for a good video to come on."
I hold back my eye rolling for the time being and try to ocupy myself with a reader's digest. I'm bored with all the storied in that "publication" since they all start with the same basic begining. "Will they live to tell their tale?" Of course they lived, how else would they be able to wright about what happened in reader's digest?
So fast forward to my mom watching a movie. I look up from the third or fourth story about people that "might not make it to tell thheir tale" and I notice that the movie had been on a comercial break for a while now, so I ask "Why are you watching commercials" and naturally she replies "Cause Im watching this movie"
Now at this point I tried, I really did, to hold back any eye rolling that I might have done, but I wasn't able to. So, I rolled my eyes, no big deal right? My mom saw me roll them, do you have any idea what she did next? She cursed me. She reached up and drew forth demons from the deapest reaches of hades. The sent of fire and brim stone filled the air as the demons circled above. Then she muttered incantation to place the dreaded curse upon me, "I hope you have seven children just like you."
So, I'm sitting there thinking, "Great, seven children just like me..." It made me wonder if my mom has any idea how much college is going to be when these seven children just like me will be old enough to attend, and why must this burden of college payment for seven children be placed upon me because my mom doesn't know how to use a remote controll properly?
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Posted: Mon Oct 10, 2005 10:58 am
*twitches because of Inco's bad grammar* xp
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Posted: Tue Oct 11, 2005 5:58 am
the moral of the story is.... TiVo saves you from being cursed. Go buy one today and save money on college later..
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Posted: Tue Oct 11, 2005 8:05 am
:drags a soap box into the room and stand on it:
I'm so close to making a decision to agree with anyone on this site who decides to bad mouth thier own looks. No one want's to hear how ugly you think you are. It's a cheap trick to get people to argue with you in an attempt to bolster your confisdence or to feel sorry for you so you get some attention. Knock it off. It's so tactless and it's just plain rude. You wouldn't be on this site posting your pic if you actually thought you were ugly. I know for a fact that everyone in here who has posted a pic has been called attractive by someone. And no one who has posted a pic has been found attractive by everyone. It's a matter of taste. And I know sometimes you have a day where you just don't feel attractive. We all do. If you wanna b***h about it in context then fine. But to make over all statements about how ugly you are (or how "not pretty" you are if you're the passive aggressive type) is just no use to anyone. You're just putting people in an awkward position and preying on peoples potential for guilt to snake reply's. It's weak minded and uncalled for.
:gets off the soap box and burns it:
Yeah, I said it! Funk it!
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