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Cornelius loh Quatious

PostPosted: Sat Dec 16, 2006 4:25 pm


Well put.

However, it is a common belief that homosexuality is not determined by choice, and is as up to the people as much as their hair, eye, or skin color. Sexual arousal and attraction are still not well understood by people in general (thanks in part to the social taboo of sex and its associations, perpetrated mostly by religious conservatives), and one can argue that what we are attracted to or aroused by is hardly under our control. There are people who gain sexual satisfaction from pain, or (to really push limits and taboos) by young children. Many of these people, ashamed by this thanks to the previously mentioned social norms and taboos, hide this or try to change, but that does not erase it from their minds.

Whereas a child may lie, and is therefore punished by his/her parents, in this analogy we may be talking about a child who may be a pathological liar, or psychologically is unable to differentiate truth from falsehood.
PostPosted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 2:59 am


alright, I finished...man I'm so tired >.<"

as for my coments on what you[dboyzero] said...

you challenged me saying that homosexuality is not determined by choice but similar to genetics in that they can not choose. However, your only support for that statement was "common belief". Though it may sound sufficient when you skim over the argument, you must realize that common belief is not a valid support. Common belief said that the earth was not round. Common belief said that the universe revolved around the earth.

So before we continue furthur, please, give solid evidence for this claim that homosexuality is not by choice. Because if it is by choice, then I find no need to continue further for the reason that your entire train of thought is based on the assumption that it is not by chioce.

as for the proofs that God exists, I have roughly finished expanding the points/topic I mentioned earlier. for eyes' ease I will post each point in a different post. I do hope you dont mind, if you do, tell me and I'll jam them all up in one post. Though, before you look in, I can tell you that if you refuse to believe, it doesn't matter how much proof i bring you, you will still not believe. I shall post the expansions after this post

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Cornelius loh Quatious

PostPosted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 1:02 pm


On the contrary, I'm an agnostic. If given sufficient proof, I will change my views in either direction. However, I am of the belief that there will never be enough proof in either direction to legitimately prove or disprove the existence of any higher being, thereby requiring a leap of faith as it were to make that sort of judgement.

My apologies for the lack of sources, by "common belief," I was refering to a large percentage of the scientific community, but not necessarily "proved" to be true. Also, it is not necessarily genetic, but possibly influenced early in development as well.

I hope you don't mind wikipedia, I find it a rather unbiased source and much more convenient than doing all the grunt work myself.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality#Academic_study
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality#Biology
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Biology_and_sexual_orientation
PostPosted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 11:19 pm


hmmm, more readings....I'll have a look another time. sorry, kinda tired now.

[edit]

By the way, a teacher of mine once said wikipedia is not a liable source when siting on projects. hmmm, but I'll have a look now anyways and see what it says. Its quite a long document...lol, guess I'll continue reading it periodically.

souloe


Cornelius loh Quatious

PostPosted: Tue Dec 19, 2006 3:17 pm


While not a spectacular source for actual research papers and school projects and the like, it suits my purposes and is relatively objective, thanks to the vast amount of people that tweak it.
PostPosted: Tue Dec 19, 2006 9:38 pm


I'm Christian and straight, and I see no problem with it. Hell, if a guy started hitting on me, I'd be flattered. At least I'd know I was attractive.

You overly-religious people shouldn't take the Bible so literally. It's just God's resume, and what resume doesn't have a little padding?

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PostPosted: Fri Dec 22, 2006 7:48 am


dboyzero
On the contrary, I'm an agnostic. If given sufficient proof, I will change my views in either direction. However, I am of the belief that there will never be enough proof in either direction to legitimately prove or disprove the existence of any higher being, thereby requiring a leap of faith as it were to make that sort of judgement.

My apologies for the lack of sources, by "common belief," I was refering to a large percentage of the scientific community, but not necessarily "proved" to be true. Also, it is not necessarily genetic, but possibly influenced early in development as well.

I hope you don't mind wikipedia, I find it a rather unbiased source and much more convenient than doing all the grunt work myself.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality#Academic_study
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality#Biology
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Biology_and_sexual_orientation
I have taken psy courses all through school, and I have been going to a catholic school my whole life. But even my religion teacher agrees that people are born gay. There is more chemicals related to the female body in the brain if a gay male.

That being said, your God, that is the christian god for I am also agnostic, is a perfect being. If I were to call myself a christian, I would believe that I am created in the image of God, and God is loving, perfect and just.

So, how could a prefect God make a mistake on creating us as humans? We could say we have free choice, but being gay isn't a choice, people are born that way. Would this mean that God made gays to be discriminated against, and be sent to hell? No, of course not, because God doesn't make mistakes. Obviously people were ment to be born that way for a purpose, it is all in God's wonderful plan for us all, hmm?

And for the record, where I come from, gays and lesbians are allowed to be married and are recgonized as couples. And I support this 100%.
PostPosted: Sun Dec 24, 2006 1:12 pm



Because they're different.
And a lot of people don't like
different. D=

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ninja_penguin92

PostPosted: Sun Dec 24, 2006 2:09 pm


[ Zombie ]

Because they're different.
And a lot of people don't like
different. D=


Yeah just look at what happened up until 60s/70s with African Americans. I'm by no means comparing the struggles of African Americans for Civil Rights, to the struggles of gays to be accepted (at the risk of being approached by Carlos Mencia.), but maybe we'll get to the same point with gays, and they'll be more socially accepted. After all, history has a habit of repeating itself....
PostPosted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 11:56 am


I strongly believe this country is afraid of new things. The pursuit of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness are unalienable rights. They are SUPPOSED to be given to EVERY citizen. However we have taken away life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness away from those who are different then us. If you are to judge a person by ones prefrence you might as well judge them by what music they like and what race they hate. Discriminating against gays is just as bad as discriminating against someone that's not the same color as you. It's petty and silly. I also firmly believe that god created Adam and Eve but it's not our place to judge. God will do that on judgement day. If you don't believe in God well here's one for you, you can't control whom your heart falls in love with. Most Americans fall in love with their best friends, because there's a compatibility in their best friend. Most American's best friend is of the same gender. These people that some call fags and so on and so forth, pray to be 'normal' but the question is, who decides where normal starts and where it all ends?

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 9:07 pm


Forever_Night
Gays, lesbians, bisexuals, et cetera, are just people. i dont think they can realy help being who they are. why are they so socially rejected? I dont understand. Must everyone be closeminded to everything?


Gay men: As long as I don't see them kiss or anything like that I'm fine with them.

Lesbian women: Same as gay men...

Bisexuals: Uh......

I don't like seeing people kiss in front of me (Even Straight couples) and I think being Gay/Les/Bi is like being Right handed/Left handed/ I forgot the word used for people who can use both as the dominant hand.....
PostPosted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 12:14 pm


@dboyzero:
I gave up reading the first two but finished the third...though...I'm just wondering but... have you read through the stuff yourself? None of the stuff there are solid proven absolute. Alot of them are flawed, criticized, "possible", "maybe", "most likely"... so...did you want to use that as proof that homosexuality is a biological thing? If so, please forgive my slow-ness but you'll have to elaborate on each.

@Rioku:
you say...
1. your religion teacher agrees that people are born gay
2. there are more chemicals related to the female body in the brain if it is a gay male
3. God made a mistake
4. gay isn't a choice

-//1//-
for a start, using what people say as proof[in your case] is not much of an evidence...suppose he was wrong? then wouldn't it mean that you are blind led by the blind?

-//2.//-
and? first if you make a claim as such perhaps proving it would be a good first step. then point out why this is related to your train of thought would be a good second step. unless you can have a complete train of thought with valid statements...it doesn't amount to too much in terms of convincing points.

-//3. and 4.//-
You're saying that God made a mistake. You're saying that gay isn't a choice and if God is true then He created gay to discriminate them. First of all, you should prove that gay is not a choice. your point 2 doesn't prove that gay is not a choice. Lets suppose that statement is true. that there is more chemicals of female body in gay males than average. Does that mean that it is these chemicals that cauesd a person to be gay? What about the reverse? Could it be that a person is gay and thus caused such a result? Both are equally valid when there is no proof to support either. So unless you can break the balance, your arguments are nulled[as solid proof anyways] because of an equally plausible alternative possibility.

by the way, from my point of view, God doesn't make mistakes. If you try to prove that wrong, I will also use my limited knowledge to try to prove you otherwise

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 2:24 pm


No, that isn't what I am saying at all.

God DID NOT make a mistake. How could he if he is perfect? If you think people are born gay, then it works.

It is christians who think it is a choice to be gay that don't see it that way.

And I refuse to look up a bunch of articles proving the validity of my statements. I have better things to do with my time, and I couldn't give two shits if you believe me or think I am a raving moron.
PostPosted: Thu Dec 28, 2006 9:10 pm


I don't see any problem with it. Though the american goverment can't abide by it's own laws since they are not allowed to bring religon in to ANYTHING political though that's what the whole thing is about but then the pledge of alligance isreligous so we breack the law practically every day. mrgreen

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Ireth_Celebrindal

PostPosted: Sat Dec 30, 2006 6:52 pm


yeah i think everyone should be treated equally, if someone doesnt like bisexuals, lesbians, gays, then they can just leave..becuase wheither some people like it or not we are not gonna vanish through thin air..its just not gonna happen
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