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Would you ever be in a relationship if you knew for a fact that the other person had no interest in being sexually intimate with you (or anyone else)?
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Saint Cranberry

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 26, 2010 3:31 pm
I'm madly in love with this girl and we hardly have sex at all.

But no. I couldn't be in a relationship with this girl if we never had sex... EVER. I'm sexual and my emotions usually come out physically. It would be tough to hold myself back forever.

I don't see the point in staying with someone for a long time if you're not sexually attracted as well. Even if it comes later. For me, I was sexually attracted later, after developing strong feelings.

So, no.  
PostPosted: Sun May 02, 2010 3:12 pm
Yeah. In fact, that's kinda what I'm looking for. I have a low libido, and when I am in the mood I just prefer to take care of myself. I'm just not interested. Can't really explain it any better than that.
(But I still identify as lesbian for simplicity's sake, since I'm only attracted to their personality/appearance in general)


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 16, 2012 7:05 pm
I would be more than fine with that sort of relationship as I would have no sexual interest in the other person either. Or anyone else for that matter.  
PostPosted: Sat Nov 17, 2012 7:12 am
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Would you ever be in a relationship if you knew for a fact that the other person had no interest in being sexually intimate with you?

I would be in the relationship but after a time I'd leave the person for someone else. I love having that intimacy and urge to be with someone super close; it's so calming and exciting. My boyfriend and I aren't having sex but we're kissing and hugging each other and teasing each other through out the school day.  


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 25, 2013 1:28 pm
No, I doubt I could commit to such a relationship. Sex is a really fun and intimate detail that I really believe is important. Obviously, sex isn't everything, but it is something that I doubt I could stay without. I am human and, with that, I have desires that are both physical and metaphysical.  
PostPosted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 8:15 pm

Good God, I'd be so happy in a relationship without sex.
I'm so uncomfortable in sexual situations and everyone I've ever dated
always tried to push it. Don't push me or I'll slap the s**t out of you.

18 year old virgin and not ashamed. xD

I mean, I'm not gonna lie. . .
If I was in the mood and they were like, "Ew." I'd get kinda pissed.
I like to tease my partner and if they don't want that then it's gonna be
a little too boring. =.=;;

But, yeah.

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 22, 2014 11:33 am
I wouldn't care about sex but I'd at least want some smooches!
And if they didn't want even that, no, I wouldn't feel compelled to cheat on them. That's ******** s**t. If it's that much of an issue, I'd just break it off w/ them.  
PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 4:00 pm
My last partner was asexual and that was perfectly fine, I still had a plentiful supply of cuddles and kisses, which are certainly the best bits, and they are what define intimacy for me. We still had that closeness and love, just not sex.

Just Emz

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