I'm madly in love with this girl and we hardly have sex at all.
But no. I couldn't be in a relationship with this girl if we never had sex... EVER. I'm sexual and my emotions usually come out physically. It would be tough to hold myself back forever.
I don't see the point in staying with someone for a long time if you're not sexually attracted as well. Even if it comes later. For me, I was sexually attracted later, after developing strong feelings.
Posted: Sun May 02, 2010 3:12 pm
Yeah. In fact, that's kinda what I'm looking for. I have a low libido, and when I am in the mood I just prefer to take care of myself. I'm just not interested. Can't really explain it any better than that. (But I still identify as lesbian for simplicity's sake, since I'm only attracted to their personality/appearance in general)
I would be more than fine with that sort of relationship as I would have no sexual interest in the other person either. Or anyone else for that matter.
Posted: Sat Nov 17, 2012 7:12 am
milk and teabiscuits
Would you ever be in a relationship if you knew for a fact that the other person had no interest in being sexually intimate with you?
I would be in the relationship but after a time I'd leave the person for someone else. I love having that intimacy and urge to be with someone super close; it's so calming and exciting. My boyfriend and I aren't having sex but we're kissing and hugging each other and teasing each other through out the school day.
No, I doubt I could commit to such a relationship. Sex is a really fun and intimate detail that I really believe is important. Obviously, sex isn't everything, but it is something that I doubt I could stay without. I am human and, with that, I have desires that are both physical and metaphysical.
Posted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 8:15 pm
Good God, I'd be so happy in a relationship without sex. I'm so uncomfortable in sexual situations and everyone I've ever dated always tried to push it. Don't push me or I'll slap the s**t out of you.
18 year old virgin and not ashamed. xD
I mean, I'm not gonna lie. . .
If I was in the mood and they were like, "Ew." I'd get kinda pissed. I like to tease my partner and if they don't want that then it's gonna be a little too boring. =.=;;
Posted: Sat Nov 22, 2014 11:33 am
I wouldn't care about sex but I'd at least want some smooches! And if they didn't want even that, no, I wouldn't feel compelled to cheat on them. That's ******** s**t. If it's that much of an issue, I'd just break it off w/ them.
Posted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 4:00 pm
My last partner was asexual and that was perfectly fine, I still had a plentiful supply of cuddles and kisses, which are certainly the best bits, and they are what define intimacy for me. We still had that closeness and love, just not sex.