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Because some of us never overcome our instincts. Guys are naturally hard-wired to be dumbasses. I mean, testosterone is good for exactly two things: sex and fighting. That's one reason hockey and football are guy sports (the other is obvious physical differences, although I know some girls that could pick me up if they wanted). That's also why we sometimes turn into dumbasses when we get close to any sort of intimacy. Our hormones initiate a hostile takeover of our brains.

Thus, those of us who are "players," or, what I encounter more commonly, simply cads, are really just never rising above those natural instincts. The smarter ones just turn their intellect towards satisfying those urges, hence the sterotypical "say anything to get in your pants" guy. The rest of us actively wage war on our sub-subconscious, and as a result tend to be more honest and, I dare say, effeminate, which isn't a bad thing in moderation. Unless you're into that whole "Me name Josh. Me plays futbal." thing.

Well, the guy that did this never tried to get into my pants.

In today's society, "love" is a word that is over worked, under paid, used, and abused. "Love" can mean physical attraction, sex, close friendship, excitement, pleasure, or even a hobby. So, that's part of the reason why guys (and girls) will sometimes say they "love" you, yet not mean the same thing that you think they mean.

Another possibility is that they think that they are in love. It's very common for a teenage kid to truly believe that they are "in love" with someone simply because they've not yet encountered stronger feelings for someone in their short lifetime. They may be, as Nadils Head put it, "hopeless romantics."

And finally, there are the few, the dishonorable, the jerk-wads. A.k.a players. These fellows will do anything, say anything, and pretend to be anything that gets them into a relationship and, all too often, the girl's pants. This kind of scum is usually sly, good with words, and willing to pull out all the stops to get a girl to commit to him, yet when it's crunch time, he will always refuse to commit himself. His excuse is that he likes his "freedom" too much. The truth is that the sleaze ball had intended to break the girl's heart all along. Often, the day after he breaks up with one girl, the walking pile of slime has found himself a new girlfriend, and all those other ones were just "practice." These creatures are unworthy of being human. They are lower, at least in my view, than pond scum. I'd rather be thrown headfirst into a pile of horse maneur than to be thought of as being a part of them. Avoid this kind of person AT ALL COSTS!

Now, don't take me wrong. I'm not saying that a guy shouldn't date many girls. I'm just saying that, once a guy is in a serious, one-on-one relationship, he MUST put aside dating any others until such a time as that relationship is dissolved. And if the relationship lasts, all the better!

sorrie if this puestion has already been asked or answered, but how come a lot of guys are perverts? confused