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PostPosted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 10:06 pm


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Okay, make that three people in this guild I think I made mad/am no longer on good terms with. if I can just get in contact with them, I hope to sort things out or at least find out what I did wrong and try to fix it. If not, it'll tell me what not to do so I won't make a repeat mistake..

I don't know what to do @_@ I want to make things right again.

Try reaching them through a mule maybe. I mean if you're really trying to contact them to sort things out, that's the only thing I can suggest

One of them has PMs set to friends only.. There seems to be no way to contact them at all. confused


Get one of their friends to pass it along?

I'm trying that, yet I haven't heard back yet from the person I asked to send the message along.

@Tas: I resent a friend invite with a message, but she hasn't accepted the invite and I don't know if she red the message. I had sent a PM before she set PMs to friends only, yet she has not read that either. It just seems like she doesn't want anything to do with me anymore atm.

Oh wow, damn. I commend you for going out of your way to fix what's broken. This person must mean a lot to you.
However, I'm the type of person that if I try on numerous occasions to fix something with someone and they're not even making an effort on their end or just being nasty about it, I just let it go. You can't say you didn't try.
I've had situations like this with different people on different occasions, sometimes I was able to work it out, and other times I just had to let it go. I just don't like unnecessary stress.

She was (and hopefully still is) a good friend, yes. I've had this happen to me before as well, and the first time I handled it.. a bit differently and ended up making things worse. After I hear back from the mutual friend (if I do and depeneding on it's message back), I'll likely drop it for a while and try again later on down the road when she's had time to cool off or take her break from me, or whatever her reason may be. =3

I don't want to try to force things, but I do at least want to know why this happened so I can know to avoid it in the future.
PostPosted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 10:13 pm


Kuroyanagika

She was (and hopefully still is) a good friend, yes. I've had this happen to me before as well, and the first time I handled it.. a bit differently and ended up making things worse. After I hear back from the mutual friend (if I do and depeneding on it's message back), I'll likely drop it for a while and try again later on down the road when she's had time to cool off or take her break from me, or whatever her reason may be. =3

I don't want to try to force things, but I do at least want to know why this happened so I can know to avoid it in the future.

Okay well, I really hope things work out for you. I really do. It sucks/hurts to lose a good friend regardless the situation

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 10:21 pm


Women are soooooo stupid. Can't live with them, can't live with out them. gonk
PostPosted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 10:22 pm


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Women are soooooo stupid. Can't live with them, can't live with out them. gonk


What the ********? Don't be an a*****e.

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 10:33 pm


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Women are soooooo stupid. Can't live with them, can't live with out them. gonk


What the ********? Don't be an a*****e.

What the ********? Don't be an a*****e.
PostPosted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 10:43 pm


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Women are soooooo stupid. Can't live with them, can't live with out them. gonk


What the ********? Don't be an a*****e.
You've never called men stupid?

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 10:45 pm


WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
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Women are soooooo stupid. Can't live with them, can't live with out them. gonk


What the ********? Don't be an a*****e.
You've never called men stupid?


Certain men, sure. But not all men in general. I'm not gonna insult an entire group of people just to insult one person who's bugging me =/
PostPosted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 10:56 pm


LMF you need to be a bit less uptight with things. Every time when somebody posts anything you come and b***h at them. It's not funny anymore.

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 11:00 pm


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LMF you need to be a bit less uptight with things. Every time when somebody posts anything you come and b***h at them. It's not funny anymore.


You're right. I (and about half the population) totally deserved to be insulted just because some woman got on your nerves. Silly me for having a problem with that rolleyes
PostPosted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 11:06 pm


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LMF you need to be a bit less uptight with things. Every time when somebody posts anything you come and b***h at them. It's not funny anymore.


You're right. I (and about half the population) totally deserved to be insulted just because some woman got on your nerves. Silly me for having a problem with that rolleyes
Yes, silly you. Every single damn time I see some one expressing an opinion you come right in and start bitching about it. Seriously? Can't a person just rant a little. Not even in this thread? Wow, LMF, wow.

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 11:08 pm


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Yes, silly you. Every single damn time I see some one expressing an opinion you come right in and start bitching about it. Seriously? Can't a person just rant a little. Not even in this thread? Wow, LMF, wow.


Why do you have to bring down so many other people in the process, though? That's the part I have a problem with =/
PostPosted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 11:09 pm


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LMF you need to be a bit less uptight with things. Every time when somebody posts anything you come and b***h at them. It's not funny anymore.


You're right. I (and about half the population) totally deserved to be insulted just because some woman got on your nerves. Silly me for having a problem with that rolleyes
Yes, silly you. Every single damn time I see some one expressing an opinion you come right in and start bitching about it. Seriously? Can't a person just rant a little. Not even in this thread? Wow, LMF, wow.

So I guess your 'opinion' is all women suck.

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 11:10 pm


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Yes, silly you. Every single damn time I see some one expressing an opinion you come right in and start bitching about it. Seriously? Can't a person just rant a little. Not even in this thread? Wow, LMF, wow.


Why do you have to bring down so many other people in the process, though? That's the part I have a problem with =/

Because it's easier that way. But seriously, if you can have an opinion, why can't I?

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 11:10 pm


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Yes, silly you. Every single damn time I see some one expressing an opinion you come right in and start bitching about it. Seriously? Can't a person just rant a little. Not even in this thread? Wow, LMF, wow.


Why do you have to bring down so many other people in the process, though? That's the part I have a problem with =/
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I doubt it meant it literally and I doubt he meant to insult everyone.

you really do take things a bit too serious sometimes confused

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 11:18 pm


I can't help how I react to things... I hate having my intelligence insulted... especially when I didn't even do anything to deserve it =/

People are constantly telling me that I'm overly sensitive, I take things too seriously, overreact to things... etc. I get it. But do you really think I would still react like this if I could help it? I hate that an offhand comment from someone I don't even care about can get to me this much... but I don't know how to change that.
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