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 Posted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 8:20 pm
VampireNekoChan @Saivanima: I hope it works out. If you and your uncle have a common interest that no one else in your family has you could go out under the guise of doing something like that. When I need to talk to my aunt alone we just go 'book shopping' cause no one else in my family is really into reading much except her. Or you could simply go with 'I haven't really seen him in awhile so I want some us time.' On a happy side note: I finally found a rainbow belt!!! *dances in circles* I've wanted one for ages but I couldn't find any and then the other day i'm just walking out of the mall with my friends and we saw goofy sequined belts to look at and then bam, hidden on the other side of the kiosk was a rainbow belt! Yay me! *claps* My grandmother and I were laughing yesterday about how alike my unlce and I are. We think it's odd that I'm more like my uncle than my dad. She just doesn't really realize how alike we are. Lol. And yes, we've gone out just the two of us before when he was in town. I just hadn't realized I needed to talk to him at the time. Yay rainbow belts!! Would anyone by chance know where I might be able to get a bracelet with the blue/purple/pink (bi-pride) stripes? I'm thinking styled like those old WWJD bracelets, ya know?: 
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Posted: Wed Jan 31, 2007 12:00 pm
It's cool that you have realtives you can talk and relate too. ^_^ The only one I've got lives 1000miles away and hasn't come out of the closet yet - we're all still assuming he's gay. Anywho, can't really chat to him because it's all awkward anyway since I only see him once a year for like 10min.
Anywho, bi-pride braclets? No ******** clue. If anyone knows, clue me in, lol.
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Posted: Wed Jan 31, 2007 5:45 pm
I don't know if I should post this here or in Life Issues or where but I need to get it out. I'm sorry if it doesn't make sense or is really long.
So I'm in grade 12 (last year of highschool). My dad isn't very school savvy and he's really quiet so I don't really talk to him about it at all. And my mom was Miss Popularity in highschool and is really school smart and stuff. She thrived there, she's the person who says that high school is the best years of her life. I'm not. I hate high school. I do horribly there and have never felt comfortable (and i've been in high school since grade 8 ). My mom is harassing me about school and university and everything and it's getting to me. She's a very organied person and has things planned out for months in advance. If I have any more then two weeks planned out at a time I get nervous. My stomach knots up and I can't concentrate. I just don't like having things set in stone like that. I relaly really don't. I can handle a thing or two, like knowing I have an assignement due in three weeks but fully planned out on a calendar just freaks me out.
Well my mom hates that and all year she's been harrassing me and it's really getting to me. I mean...tonight she's been hounding me about what's wrong. What's wrong is that she brought home a calendar from now until the end of highschool (and part way into the summer) and has all our dates marked down in it. Including half days or days off of school. I didn't even know some of this s**t. And so within 15 minutes of her being home my stomach was knotted and I was nervous. But I knew she'd get upset when I said that so I didn't tell her what was wrong. Eventually I did and she just shook her head and ignored me. A little while later she came in and asked me what was wrong and I said 'what's worng is that you keep asking me what's wrong and I feel like you're harassing me and I told you and it's getting to me-' and then seh just walked out and said 'i was going to make you supper but you know what, screw you'. and so I've pretty much hidden myself away and am crying and using toilet paper to blow my nose cause the kleenex is in the room where she is.
It's been like this since september and she keeps having these mood swings. It's like one second i'm on her good side and the next i'm on her bad side. and one minute she expects me to be a young lady, the next an adult and the next a kid. And I don't know what to do anymore. I don't feel like I have a single adult I can talk to anymore. I barely passed my classes last semester because I was so stressed from all of this. I'm only three days into second semester and she already has me worrying about this stuff. It's not fair.
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Posted: Thu Feb 01, 2007 6:43 pm
1) Tell her to "******** off".
2) Sit her down and before she even says a word, lay down the ground rules. Tell her that you want to get everything off your chest before she begins and that you'll signal that your finished by saying whatever word you want to use to signal "the end". AFTER ((remember to really stress that word)) you are FINISHED ((Oh, also tell her that if you pause it does NOT invite her to speak)) she can say what she has to say. You, too, will not say anything while she is speaking because that would be hypocritical. Go back and forth in this manor for as long as you need. Trust, it works.
Then again, she might just not want to do this at all and be a total b***h, you never know.
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Posted: Sun Feb 18, 2007 8:24 pm
hey...
this thread hasn't moved for a while...
i guess i could start off with saying i get to hang out with this girl tomorrow... we really like each other and i'm pretty stoked.
hows everyone?
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Posted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 8:19 am
SubHumanRemains hey... this thread hasn't moved for a while... i guess i could start off with saying i get to hang out with this girl tomorrow... we really like each other and i'm pretty stoked. hows everyone? I'm good. I saw Brokeback Mountain a few days ago, my god that movie sucked! rofl
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Posted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 7:37 pm
neoncode SubHumanRemains hey... this thread hasn't moved for a while... i guess i could start off with saying i get to hang out with this girl tomorrow... we really like each other and i'm pretty stoked. hows everyone? I'm good. I saw Brokeback Mountain a few days ago, my god that movie sucked! rofl no i was not very fond of it. though i stood behind it when people protested at the movies theatres and they stopped playing it. sad it sucks to be LGBT where i live ninja
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Posted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 7:41 pm
*jumps around thread* I'm so excited!!! *glomps nearest person*
WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OH
MY
FREAKING
GOD
I made out with the HOTTEST girl today.
freaking a.
best day in my life.
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Posted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 8:16 pm
*giggles* Yay for you SubHumanRemains! heart Keep us updated on how that's going wink
Though I disagree, Brokeback Mountain rocked. Two hot guys making out, what's not to like?
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Posted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 8:21 pm
VampireNekoChan *giggles* Yay for you SubHumanRemains! heart Keep us updated on how that's going wink Though I disagree, Brokeback Mountain rocked. Two hot guys making out, what's not to like? I agree with Vampire. :]] Seriously. I <3 that movie. It makes me cry every time I see it.
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Posted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 8:25 pm
A.Dream.Within.A.Dream. VampireNekoChan *giggles* Yay for you SubHumanRemains! heart Keep us updated on how that's going wink Though I disagree, Brokeback Mountain rocked. Two hot guys making out, what's not to like? I agree with Vampire. :]] Seriously. I <3 that movie. It makes me cry every time I see it. well, i mean. yeah, i thought it was a good movies, but it was just like any other western movie, but with a gay twist... i didn't find it very original besides that. I don't know. i'm glad you liked it... i guess i'm just not fond of it. wink
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Posted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 8:29 pm
VampireNekoChan *giggles* Yay for you SubHumanRemains! heart Keep us updated on how that's going wink Though I disagree, Brokeback Mountain rocked. Two hot guys making out, what's not to like? eh... i have another thread in life issues explaining all the crap behind the girl... well not behind her because i know about it but its frustrating being in my position, we could never really date. gonk
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Posted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 9:35 pm
I just thought it was boring. But that's just my opinion.
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Posted: Tue Feb 20, 2007 5:37 am
VampireNekoChan I don't know if I should post this here or in Life Issues or where but I need to get it out. I'm sorry if it doesn't make sense or is really long. So I'm in grade 12 (last year of highschool). My dad isn't very school savvy and he's really quiet so I don't really talk to him about it at all. And my mom was Miss Popularity in highschool and is really school smart and stuff. She thrived there, she's the person who says that high school is the best years of her life. I'm not. I hate high school. I do horribly there and have never felt comfortable (and i've been in high school since grade 8 ). My mom is harassing me about school and university and everything and it's getting to me. She's a very organied person and has things planned out for months in advance. If I have any more then two weeks planned out at a time I get nervous. My stomach knots up and I can't concentrate. I just don't like having things set in stone like that. I relaly really don't. I can handle a thing or two, like knowing I have an assignement due in three weeks but fully planned out on a calendar just freaks me out. Well my mom hates that and all year she's been harrassing me and it's really getting to me. I mean...tonight she's been hounding me about what's wrong. What's wrong is that she brought home a calendar from now until the end of highschool (and part way into the summer) and has all our dates marked down in it. Including half days or days off of school. I didn't even know some of this s**t. And so within 15 minutes of her being home my stomach was knotted and I was nervous. But I knew she'd get upset when I said that so I didn't tell her what was wrong. Eventually I did and she just shook her head and ignored me. A little while later she came in and asked me what was wrong and I said 'what's worng is that you keep asking me what's wrong and I feel like you're harassing me and I told you and it's getting to me-' and then seh just walked out and said 'i was going to make you supper but you know what, screw you'. and so I've pretty much hidden myself away and am crying and using toilet paper to blow my nose cause the kleenex is in the room where she is. It's been like this since september and she keeps having these mood swings. It's like one second i'm on her good side and the next i'm on her bad side. and one minute she expects me to be a young lady, the next an adult and the next a kid. And I don't know what to do anymore. I don't feel like I have a single adult I can talk to anymore. I barely passed my classes last semester because I was so stressed from all of this. I'm only three days into second semester and she already has me worrying about this stuff. It's not fair. Have you ever spoken to a psychiatrist? It's possible that you may have some sort of anxiety issue, hence the stressing about planning things out.
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Posted: Tue Feb 20, 2007 4:00 pm
she was holding hands with a guy, and kissed him on the cheek.
we could never be together! i don't know why i'm even bothring with emotions in this one. I wasn't supposed to like, fall in love with her or anything.
this makes me so sad!
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