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Chieftain Twilight

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 29, 2012 12:08 am


so, get this s**t. stare in the Pokemon Forum, this chick randomly posts "faggots" on a thread. just that, one hateful word by itself. so when I respond taht cunts like her belong in concentration camps, everyone in that thread attacks me like I'm the bad guy. defending her, and syaing that it doesn't matter cause she was only joking.

and when I refuse to apologize, I get reported and sent a warning by the Gaia Staff.

with a follow-up warning emmediately after. stare

what the ********!?
PostPosted: Sat Dec 29, 2012 12:18 am


Chieftain Twilight

I agree that the word "f*****t" is just a foul word and I don't like people who use it in a derogatory way. . but bringing The Concentration camp bit into it was taking it a bit too far. . Not just that, but she was clearly trolling and there are rules against responding to trolls.
I think that what you should've done was: Just reported her, and the thread and just moved on.

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Sabe Hudson

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 29, 2012 12:56 am


Chieftain Twilight
I respond taht cunts like her belong in concentration camps

Found your problem.
That's a touchy spot for just about everyone and usually carries unfortunate implications. To put things in context, not even on 4chan can you get away with saying something like that without some form of repercussion.

'f*****t' (and plenty of other epithets) on the other hand is ymmv. Some use it for joke fodder, some try to use it for shock value, others are offended by it, and some use it ironically to 'reclaim' the word. Others, like me, just don't care at all and will call someone a f*****t if they're being a f*****t.
PostPosted: Sat Dec 29, 2012 1:01 am


Sabe Hudson
Chieftain Twilight
I respond taht cunts like her belong in concentration camps

Found your problem.
That's a touchy spot for just about everyone and usually carries unfortunate implications. To put things in context, not even on 4chan can you get away with saying something like that without some form of repercussion.

'f*****t' (and plenty of other epithets) on the other hand is ymmv. Some use it for joke fodder, some try to use it for shock value, others are offended by it, and some use it ironically to 'reclaim' the word. Others, like me, just don't care at all and will call someone a f*****t if they're being a f*****t.


1.) what is ymmv?

2.) I am not about to let someone get away with using it for a joke. I would call someone by an epithet if they were behaving terribly enough to warrant one, but then and only then. words hurt! sticks and stones my a**!

3.) I also understand that what I said won't make me very popular, and I accept any punishment without flinching. after all, I earned it. I was just upset that the other user get's a freaking get-out-of-jail-free pass due to technicalities. it's bullshit in my opinion, plain and simple.

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 29, 2012 1:20 am


Chieftain Twilight

1. 'Your mileage may vary'
2. Devil's advocate here: Using it jokingly or affectionately often cheapens the shock value and impact of the word. As a side effect it just as often spawns new language to take its place. A good starting point to read about it is the wiki page on dysphemisms, the opposite of euphemisms. I also recommend reading the page on the 'euphemism treadmill' phenomena, as essentially the same drift happens but in reverse.
3. Just like as if I attempt to break the legs of people who taunted me every day, made me feel like s**t, or destroyed my trust (true story), the teacher will ignore what they see as the smaller crime (the taunting and etc.) and focus on the bigger crime (the leg-breaking attempts) when doling out punishment.
PostPosted: Sat Dec 29, 2012 2:09 am


Sabe Hudson
Chieftain Twilight

1. 'Your mileage may vary'
2. Devil's advocate here: Using it jokingly or affectionately often cheapens the shock value and impact of the word. As a side effect it just as often spawns new language to take its place. A good starting point to read about it is the wiki page on dysphemisms, the opposite of euphemisms. I also recommend reading the page on the 'euphemism treadmill' phenomena, as essentially the same drift happens but in reverse.
3. Just like as if I attempt to break the legs of people who taunted me every day, made me feel like s**t, or destroyed my trust (true story), the teacher will ignore what they see as the smaller crime (the taunting and etc.) and focus on the bigger crime (the leg-breaking attempts) when doling out punishment.


and yet there was literally no difference between what she said and what I said.... meh.

and maybe I'm just being stubborn now, but I don't feel like it's any better to cheapen or soften the blow of the word... I'd rather it NOT be taken lightly at all.

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 29, 2012 8:17 am


Idk why you got so upset. There are plenty worse slanders on the web. Like they said, report and live online another day. It wasn't directed to you at least.. neutral

Sabe Hudson

I bet you got bugs in there. emotion_puke
PostPosted: Sat Dec 29, 2012 1:13 pm


Nariana

Do you want to check? lol

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Nariana
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 29, 2012 2:14 pm


Sabe Hudson

I'll leave that to Waffle, thanks... emotion_puke
PostPosted: Sat Dec 29, 2012 2:32 pm


Nariana

Oh Christ I forgot about her for a second gonk
She'll kill me on sight if I still look like this!

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Nariana
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 29, 2012 2:40 pm


Sabe Hudson

I'd take a looooong shower if I were you...
PostPosted: Sat Dec 29, 2012 2:55 pm


Nariana

Last time I did that, she barged in. I'd rather not explain the rest. cry

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Nariana
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 29, 2012 5:41 pm


Sabe Hudson

Bom chika wow wow~? emotion_awesome
PostPosted: Sat Dec 29, 2012 5:53 pm


Nariana

For her perhaps.
For me it was 'ow ow ow stop that you b***h gonk '

Sabe Hudson

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Nariana
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 29, 2012 6:04 pm


Sabe Hudson

Guess you weren't on top then. sweatdrop
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