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AkureiKnight

PostPosted: Thu Aug 03, 2006 2:10 pm


Nope I guess not. For a while alot of ppl stopped posting.
PostPosted: Fri Aug 04, 2006 12:56 pm


yeah there's not a good conversation going the only thing i remember is people talking about us having the longest thread or whatever.
I think i am going to delete my account on Free Thoughts forum.

SubHumanRemains


AkureiKnight

PostPosted: Fri Aug 04, 2006 8:17 pm


SubHumanRemains
yeah there's not a good conversation going the only thing i remember is people talking about us having the longest thread or whatever.
I think i am going to delete my account on Free Thoughts forum.


Why? eek
PostPosted: Fri Aug 04, 2006 9:40 pm


AkureiKnight
SubHumanRemains
yeah there's not a good conversation going the only thing i remember is people talking about us having the longest thread or whatever.
I think i am going to delete my account on Free Thoughts forum.


Why? eek
I don't know i just feel like i am constantly being contradicted about my opinion... i never contradict other people i simply state my own opinion and everyone else treats me as if i'm like retarded especailly the moderators its usually the the way they say it though i just always feel contradicted.
But i met Tie on there and shes hecka awesome so i'm kind of stuck in the middle.
and its like the only place where people like talk to me whether its nice or not.
maybe i'm just PMSing and overreacting. i don't know.

SubHumanRemains


Paranoid Confusion

PostPosted: Fri Aug 04, 2006 10:35 pm


my mom confuses me...
PostPosted: Sat Aug 05, 2006 8:34 am


Paranoid Confusion
my mom confuses me...


How so?

VampireNekoChan


AkureiKnight

PostPosted: Sat Aug 05, 2006 1:29 pm


SubHumanRemains
AkureiKnight
SubHumanRemains
yeah there's not a good conversation going the only thing i remember is people talking about us having the longest thread or whatever.
I think i am going to delete my account on Free Thoughts forum.


Why? eek
I don't know i just feel like i am constantly being contradicted about my opinion... i never contradict other people i simply state my own opinion and everyone else treats me as if i'm like retarded especailly the moderators its usually the the way they say it though i just always feel contradicted.
But i met Tie on there and shes hecka awesome so i'm kind of stuck in the middle.
and its like the only place where people like talk to me whether its nice or not.
maybe i'm just PMSing and overreacting. i don't know.


I dunno but Saknika is a really good friend of mine and I've never seen her contradict anyone. Aub seems ok too but I dont talk to her that much. (hugs) Im sorry thing are getting hard for you on there but I ask you to stay. I'll try to get on there more often myself if that'll make you feel better
PostPosted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 12:21 pm


I loveses you?

The Two of Hearts


xGollyEmma

PostPosted: Sun Aug 13, 2006 9:41 pm


o.o
Band camp starts in lessthan nine hours.
& I haven't slept yet.
PostPosted: Sun Aug 13, 2006 10:54 pm


RaddXLoser
o.o
Band camp starts in lessthan nine hours.
& I haven't slept yet.


Then gooo! Go sleep! Now! Go! Hurry! gonk

AkureiKnight


losingthesanity

PostPosted: Wed Aug 16, 2006 10:26 am


DetermindGopher
well im bi, i guess you could say im still 'in the closet bi' though. The reason is because my best friend is homophobic slightly. Im ve trying to figure out how to tell her with out having her flip out on me, yea i know " If shes really your friend, your sexuality wont matter". The thing is, i dont think she notices that shes homophoobic, or at least doesnt ean to make homophobic comments. any ideas?


Just tell her. When my friend found out, she was perfectly fine, but she was actually slightly upset w/ me for waiting to tell her. See, she was on vacation when I told all my other friends, but I didn't want to tell her when she called me [she gave me calls every night while she was on vacation to tell me how things were going] because if she got pissed at me or uncomfortable because of my sexuality, I didn't want to ruin her vacation. Tell her, asap, she'll accept you. You just gotta make it clear that you see her as a sister. If she has a brother or a male cousin, explain to her its as impossible for you to like her as it is for her to like one of them.

Hope I was some help.
PostPosted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 10:55 am


losingthesanity
When my friend found out, she was perfectly fine, but she was actually slightly upset w/ me for waiting to tell her.
That's almost exactly what happened with my one of my closest friends. x-x

Not only was she away and I couldn't contact her, she also had a past history of not really being comfortable on the subject, so I hesitated. My gay friend made up my mind for me and when he came out two years after ending it with her she turned to me and I admitted to it too. Oy, that was not a fun night. Again, she wasn't mad that I was bisexual or that the guy was gay, but because we'd waited so long to tell her when everyone else already knew.

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AkureiKnight

PostPosted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 2:54 pm


That's how my mom was kinda. I think she was a little hurt that I didnt trust her enough to tell her sooner. But I think she understands that it's tough and it's hard to know what will happen when coming out to certain people. Even parents.
PostPosted: Sat Aug 19, 2006 1:34 am


This is probably going to sound overdramatic but I just need to get it out to people who are in no way involved.

I have the worst crush on my best friend. And I mean best friend, finish each other sentences, presents for no reasons, talk every single day best friends. I liked her back around feb but the crush kinda got pushed back when another crush of mine started liking me back. And at that time I didn't like her as much as i do now. So I started dating my other friend (only to have my ex stop talking to me because of it). Then on our three week anniversary he broke up with me saying that since he was starting university in the fall he didn't think he could deal with the distance. So she comes and with her cousin we go get ice cream. And she helps me deal with it.

Then my ex (the one who stopped talking to me) tells me he has a new girlfriend whom he's really good with right now so we should start talking now. That makes me happy *sarcasm* A while after that he breaks up with her and tells me he wants me back. I told him why we broke up in the first place (on my end) and he promises to try harder. Three nights later we talk again and go over what I said. That night in the space of an hour he completely screws it over. and then proceeds to ruin a day of hanging out with my friends for me by showing up unannounced. And then I get to break his heart.

Around this point I'm falling for her again. Problems: 1) she's as straight as an arrow, we're both girls. 2) I'm her best friend. 3) I've had my heart smooshed too much lately so i have panic attacks at the thought for awhile. 4) she likes another friend of ours. 5) She the only person I feel safe with right now so I can't even cut myself off for awhile.

Now my friend is trying to get me to move on or tell her. Which sends me into panic attacks. Already I've had 2 break downs these past two weeks. And I'm pretty sure I'm gonna have another one soon since I keep crying.

Sorry but I just...needed that out...

VampireNekoChan


AkureiKnight

PostPosted: Sun Aug 20, 2006 5:53 pm


Well.. I wouldnt worry about it right now. If she's your friend and you need her for that purpose I wouldnt risk telling her your feelings right now. Just try to settle things down before you do that.. just in case things would escalade into a bad situation if you ever told her.

Take one step at a time.
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