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 Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2007 8:34 pm
Brago Bellmond Thank you all, I'll be sure to use your advice when I approach my parents
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 11:50 am
Okay, I have a little problem which doesn`t really match with family / friends category or something like that but I will give it a try: One month ago I opened a minishop at the official gaia main forum. I am offering there personal animations by using zodiac signs. If you want to have a look, just use the link below. Please don't misunderstand me at this point - I don't want to spam here or something but as you can see ... ... I really put a lot of work in it. And there is hardly anyone on Gaia who just drops a little "bump" you know ... I did alot of marketing on gaia for it and I shortly started a contest to make my offers more attractive but at least there have not been a lot of response. I have a lot of ideas to put into practice for this shop (for example I already created tekteks, one for each western zodiac sign, and I am planning to come up with a little storyline and use them in several animations ...) but if there is no one on gaia who would show a little interest, I don't know any reason to put more work into ... Maybe I have to be a little more patient. Do you have any advice?
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 12:26 pm
Well if you want pepople to chat, you have to chat first.
I know it gets boring, but the more you bump yourself, and the more pages and post it has, the more other people will want to visit.
Like when I had my quest thread, I made a mule go in there, and I started up a fake conversation with myself.
And more people came in, and more people donated.
I know it seems silly, so you don't have to talk to yourself.
But at least post the crap out of it on this account.
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 12:27 pm
I've got a typical high school drama situation, but I don't really know what to do about it. I'm sorry to bother you with it, but no one else is giving me reasonable advice.
Anyway, right now I guess going through the whole sexual identity crisis thing and I don't know whether I'm heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual. This isn't the point, so I'll go ahead and get to that:
I think, no, I'm positive, that I'm crushing on my friend (Rachel) that I've known for 6 years now. She means everything to me. The problem is, we don't see each other a lot anymore. The last time we talked to each other face to face was early last year. We've been talking some over the phone, and the last few times our conversations have had long awkward silences that didn't exist until recently.
Here's the background/story/stuff: I told a couple of my so-called friends about my crush on her. This was back in January during school. I told all of my galfriends because I know they wouldn't tell anyone. But, I made the mistake of telling one of my guyfriends (Stan) with the hugest mouth ever.
Anyway, early this summer I found out that Stan had gotten in touch with Rachel. I wasn't concerned about it. It was a "Ok, they're talking again (they stopped talking in 5th grade), so what?" situation at the time. Later on Rachel started dropping hints that she knew that I liked her. Finally, she told me that Stan had told her, and that we would talk about it the next day. Yeah, smooth for now, right?
The next day Stan leaves me a comment on my profile (a rude one at that), telling me that he is dating Rachel. I wouldn't have cared if it wasn't for the fact that he was bragging about it, and it seemed like he was flaunting her like trophy he had won. This is was got my steamed.
So, after this I called Rachel and asked her about what we were going to talk about. She said it wasn't important anymore, and it didn't matter. This hurt me a lot. I felt like she had basically told me my feelings weren't important and didn't matter. Now, I didn't believe Stan was dating Rachel, so I asked her. Her reply: "Kinda."
Anyway, back to the point, I don't know if I should come out and tell Rachel that I like her, considering that she is seeing Stan right now, and it also seems like she doesn't really care about how I feel towards her. If nothing else, I want to at least have her as a friend, but I think it's come to the point where we are going to end up going our separate ways soon, regardless of what happens.
Do you have any advice on what I should do, and how to deal with the situation?
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 12:35 pm
whatser_name Well if you want pepople to chat, you have to chat first.
I know it gets boring, but the more you bump yourself, and the more pages and post it has, the more other people will want to visit.
Like when I had my quest thread, I made a mule go in there, and I started up a fake conversation with myself.
And more people came in, and more people donated.
I know it seems silly, so you don't have to talk to yourself.
But at least post the crap out of it on this account.
yeah, this sounds really funny but it makes sense. thx for your advice.
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 12:36 pm
Slave of a Shadow I've got a typical high school drama situation, but I don't really know what to do about it. I'm sorry to bother you with it, but no one else is giving me reasonable advice.
Anyway, right now I guess going through the whole sexual identity crisis thing and I don't know whether I'm heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual. This isn't the point, so I'll go ahead and get to that:
I think, no, I'm positive, that I'm crushing on my friend (Rachel) that I've known for 6 years now. She means everything to me. The problem is, we don't see each other a lot anymore. The last time we talked to each other face to face was early last year. We've been talking some over the phone, and the last few times our conversations have had long awkward silences that didn't exist until recently.
Here's the background/story/stuff: I told a couple of my so-called friends about my crush on her. This was back in January during school. I told all of my galfriends because I know they wouldn't tell anyone. But, I made the mistake of telling one of my guyfriends (Stan) with the hugest mouth ever.
Anyway, early this summer I found out that Stan had gotten in touch with Rachel. I wasn't concerned about it. It was an "Ok, they're talking again (they stopped talking in 5th grade), so what?" situation at the time. Later on Rachel started dropping hints that she knew that I liked her. Finally, she told me that Stan had told her, and that we would talk about it the next day. Yeah, smooth for now, right?
The next day Stan leaves me a comment on my profile (a rude one at that), telling me that he is dating Rachel. I wouldn't have cared if it wasn't for the fact that he was bragging about it, and it seemed like he was flaunting her like trophy he had won. This is was got my steamed.
So, after this I called Rachel and asked her about what we were going to talk about. She said it wasn't important anymore, and it didn't matter. This hurt me a lot. I felt like she had basically told me my feelings weren't important and didn't matter. Now, I didn't believe Stan was dating Rachel, so I asked her. Her reply: "Kinda."
Anyway, back to the point, I don't know if I should come out and tell Rachel that I like her, considering that she is seeing Stan right now, and it also seems like she doesn't really care about how I feel towards her. If nothing else, I want to at least have her as a friend, but I think it's come to the point where we are going to end up going our separate ways soon, regardless of what happens.
Do you have any advice on what I should do, and how to deal with the situation?
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 12:40 pm
midnightrhose Slave of a Shadow I've got a typical high school drama situation, but I don't really know what to do about it. I'm sorry to bother you with it, but no one else is giving me reasonable advice.
Anyway, right now I guess going through the whole sexual identity crisis thing and I don't know whether I'm heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual. This isn't the point, so I'll go ahead and get to that:
I think, no, I'm positive, that I'm crushing on my friend (Rachel) that I've known for 6 years now. She means everything to me. The problem is, we don't see each other a lot anymore. The last time we talked to each other face to face was early last year. We've been talking some over the phone, and the last few times our conversations have had long awkward silences that didn't exist until recently.
Here's the background/story/stuff: I told a couple of my so-called friends about my crush on her. This was back in January during school. I told all of my galfriends because I know they wouldn't tell anyone. But, I made the mistake of telling one of my guyfriends (Stan) with the hugest mouth ever.
Anyway, early this summer I found out that Stan had gotten in touch with Rachel. I wasn't concerned about it. It was an "Ok, they're talking again (they stopped talking in 5th grade), so what?" situation at the time. Later on Rachel started dropping hints that she knew that I liked her. Finally, she told me that Stan had told her, and that we would talk about it the next day. Yeah, smooth for now, right?
The next day Stan leaves me a comment on my profile (a rude one at that), telling me that he is dating Rachel. I wouldn't have cared if it wasn't for the fact that he was bragging about it, and it seemed like he was flaunting her like trophy he had won. This is was got my steamed.
So, after this I called Rachel and asked her about what we were going to talk about. She said it wasn't important anymore, and it didn't matter. This hurt me a lot. I felt like she had basically told me my feelings weren't important and didn't matter. Now, I didn't believe Stan was dating Rachel, so I asked her. Her reply: "Kinda."
Anyway, back to the point, I don't know if I should come out and tell Rachel that I like her, considering that she is seeing Stan right now, and it also seems like she doesn't really care about how I feel towards her. If nothing else, I want to at least have her as a friend, but I think it's come to the point where we are going to end up going our separate ways soon, regardless of what happens.
Do you have any advice on what I should do, and how to deal with the situation? Stan is bisexual. He's not homophobic at all. I couldn't care less if he was my friend or not, honestly. I want Rachel to be my friend. I don't want to lose her. That why I don't know if I should tell her and try to hold on to her for a little longer, or just let her go.
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 12:48 pm
I have no problems, the chinchilla in my head stuffs them all into bottles. Then stuffs the bottles into other bottles, right now its trying to stick a 40 bottle in a 16, it will fit sooner or later. smile Or it will break. And I agree, tell him to suck 2 eggs.
<(^.^<) (>^.^)> V(^.^)V ^(^.^)^
Dance Kirby Dance.
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 12:48 pm
Slave of a Shadow midnightrhose Slave of a Shadow I've got a typical high school drama situation, but I don't really know what to do about it. I'm sorry to bother you with it, but no one else is giving me reasonable advice.
Anyway, right now I guess going through the whole sexual identity crisis thing and I don't know whether I'm heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual. This isn't the point, so I'll go ahead and get to that:
I think, no, I'm positive, that I'm crushing on my friend (Rachel) that I've known for 6 years now. She means everything to me. The problem is, we don't see each other a lot anymore. The last time we talked to each other face to face was early last year. We've been talking some over the phone, and the last few times our conversations have had long awkward silences that didn't exist until recently.
Here's the background/story/stuff: I told a couple of my so-called friends about my crush on her. This was back in January during school. I told all of my galfriends because I know they wouldn't tell anyone. But, I made the mistake of telling one of my guyfriends (Stan) with the hugest mouth ever.
Anyway, early this summer I found out that Stan had gotten in touch with Rachel. I wasn't concerned about it. It was an "Ok, they're talking again (they stopped talking in 5th grade), so what?" situation at the time. Later on Rachel started dropping hints that she knew that I liked her. Finally, she told me that Stan had told her, and that we would talk about it the next day. Yeah, smooth for now, right?
The next day Stan leaves me a comment on my profile (a rude one at that), telling me that he is dating Rachel. I wouldn't have cared if it wasn't for the fact that he was bragging about it, and it seemed like he was flaunting her like trophy he had won. This is was got my steamed.
So, after this I called Rachel and asked her about what we were going to talk about. She said it wasn't important anymore, and it didn't matter. This hurt me a lot. I felt like she had basically told me my feelings weren't important and didn't matter. Now, I didn't believe Stan was dating Rachel, so I asked her. Her reply: "Kinda."
Anyway, back to the point, I don't know if I should come out and tell Rachel that I like her, considering that she is seeing Stan right now, and it also seems like she doesn't really care about how I feel towards her. If nothing else, I want to at least have her as a friend, but I think it's come to the point where we are going to end up going our separate ways soon, regardless of what happens.
Do you have any advice on what I should do, and how to deal with the situation? Stan is bisexual. He's not homophobic at all. I couldn't care less if he was my friend or not, honestly. I want Rachel to be my friend. I don't want to lose her. That why I don't know if I should tell her and try to hold on to her for a little longer, or just let her go.
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 12:51 pm
midnightrhose Slave of a Shadow midnightrhose Slave of a Shadow I've got a typical high school drama situation, but I don't really know what to do about it. I'm sorry to bother you with it, but no one else is giving me reasonable advice.
Anyway, right now I guess going through the whole sexual identity crisis thing and I don't know whether I'm heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual. This isn't the point, so I'll go ahead and get to that:
I think, no, I'm positive, that I'm crushing on my friend (Rachel) that I've known for 6 years now. She means everything to me. The problem is, we don't see each other a lot anymore. The last time we talked to each other face to face was early last year. We've been talking some over the phone, and the last few times our conversations have had long awkward silences that didn't exist until recently.
Here's the background/story/stuff: I told a couple of my so-called friends about my crush on her. This was back in January during school. I told all of my galfriends because I know they wouldn't tell anyone. But, I made the mistake of telling one of my guyfriends (Stan) with the hugest mouth ever.
Anyway, early this summer I found out that Stan had gotten in touch with Rachel. I wasn't concerned about it. It was an "Ok, they're talking again (they stopped talking in 5th grade), so what?" situation at the time. Later on Rachel started dropping hints that she knew that I liked her. Finally, she told me that Stan had told her, and that we would talk about it the next day. Yeah, smooth for now, right?
The next day Stan leaves me a comment on my profile (a rude one at that), telling me that he is dating Rachel. I wouldn't have cared if it wasn't for the fact that he was bragging about it, and it seemed like he was flaunting her like trophy he had won. This is was got my steamed.
So, after this I called Rachel and asked her about what we were going to talk about. She said it wasn't important anymore, and it didn't matter. This hurt me a lot. I felt like she had basically told me my feelings weren't important and didn't matter. Now, I didn't believe Stan was dating Rachel, so I asked her. Her reply: "Kinda."
Anyway, back to the point, I don't know if I should come out and tell Rachel that I like her, considering that she is seeing Stan right now, and it also seems like she doesn't really care about how I feel towards her. If nothing else, I want to at least have her as a friend, but I think it's come to the point where we are going to end up going our separate ways soon, regardless of what happens.
Do you have any advice on what I should do, and how to deal with the situation? Stan is bisexual. He's not homophobic at all. I couldn't care less if he was my friend or not, honestly. I want Rachel to be my friend. I don't want to lose her. That why I don't know if I should tell her and try to hold on to her for a little longer, or just let her go. I like her a lot, but it doesn't hurt that much to think of the together. I want her to be happy, regardless of whether it hurts me or not.
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 6:43 pm
Shadow.
Okay.
I've been in this exact situation before.
I told her how I felt, and she said that she had liked me too.
Now I don't know if Rachel is straight or not.
But regardless.
I told her how I felt, but she still dated the guy.
Which was fine with me.
We did stop being friends for a while, but now our friendship is stronger than ever.
I think you should tell her how you feel.
Although the outcome may not be satisfactory, you need to share your feelings.
But what you have to realize is, if you tell her and she doesn't want to talk to you, that's her problem.
It's her loss. Not yours.
And you never know.
Maybe taking a break from each other for a while, she'll realize how much she misses have you as a friend. :3
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 6:45 pm
Q
what do you do when your in a verbally abusive relationship with a close family member who is about to be divorced out of the family when u have no one to turn to except friends?
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 6:53 pm
mousy angel Q what do you do when your in a verbally abusive relationship with a close family member who is about to be divorced out of the family when u have no one to turn to except friends? Can you talk to anyone else in your family about it?
I don't really understand what you're asking.
Are you going to be living with the abusive parent, or the non-abusive parent?
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 6:55 pm
whatser_name mousy angel Q what do you do when your in a verbally abusive relationship with a close family member who is about to be divorced out of the family when u have no one to turn to except friends? Can you talk to anyone else in your family about it?
I don't really understand what you're asking.
Are you going to be living with the abusive parent, or the non-abusive parent? no i cant talk to my family about they know and dont care and i live with both of them my step father the verbally abusive one does it to me and my mother but not my sister she was always the favorite that y i dont talk to my dad any more (another problem for another day)
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 6:58 pm
mousy angel whatser_name mousy angel Q what do you do when your in a verbally abusive relationship with a close family member who is about to be divorced out of the family when u have no one to turn to except friends? Can you talk to anyone else in your family about it?
I don't really understand what you're asking.
Are you going to be living with the abusive parent, or the non-abusive parent? no i cant talk to my family about they know and dont care and i live with both of them my step father the verbally abusive one does it to me and my mother but not my sister she was always the favorite that y i dont talk to my dad any more (another problem for another day) Okay. But once again, who are you going to be living with, and what exactally are you asking me?
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