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I agree with Chalda. You're 15, and it's quite common for a 15 year old to not have been kissed yet, or to not have a boyfriend. Ignore what people say, a lot of 15 year olds and their popularity stuff are stupid anyways. I was never popular in high school - I had a group of close friends and nerds I hung out with, and that was literally it. In grade 12, for awhile people thought one of my close friends and I were sisters, and then later on they thought we were lesbians. xd What people think about you really doesn't matter, only you know what you are really like.

So give it time, and don't rush it. Guys tend to mature more when they're older, and maybe when you're a bit older, you'll find a nice and responsible guy who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. 3nodding

Heh.. My first kiss was last saturday... And ya know.. its not magical like it shows in the movies... Me and this co-worker of mine have always flirted with each other.. He's a senior, I'm a junior and he's only 30 days older than me... He is also a lot more experienced than I am... But anyway, we were hanging out after work around 10:30 at night, and I was sitting on my car and he was leaning against it and he looked at me and was like "Would it be bad if I kissed you right now?" And I was like "uhhh.. I dunno..." and I was probably blushing super bad.. but he was like "lets find out.." and he came over and kissed me.. but he stuck his tongue in my mouth so I pulled away after a few seconds and laid my head on his shoulder cause i was NOT expecting that.. Needless to say, around 11:50 when I was sitting on his lap on the ground and I had to leave I did sorta make out with him.. lol! That was a little better, but I thought I was like a horrible kisser... He must not have thought so, cause friday he kissed me AT work in the freezer.. Whats better than making out with a bunch of lettuce? But I was scared we'd get caught.. He kissed me in front of his friend, who he had to give a ride home... His friend honked so he had to leave.. stupid friend... And then yesterday (saturday) was better, cause I had a better idea of what to do, lol. and ya know, french kissing isn't as bad as I thought it would be, i thought it'd be all slobbery and like taste bad.. but it doesn't taste... I was afraid he'd steal my gum though.. We sat in my car for a while listening to music.. kissed a lot... talked a lot... and as we were hugging goodbye he was like "I don't wanna let you go..."
But here's what DOES suck, he's like afraid of relationships right now.. cause every relationship he's had with a girl has turned out bad, like she's cheated on him or dumped him for no reason. Oh and I'm a christian, he's not.. I KNOW my parents would hate him, so its not like I can tell them anything and if we ever hang out besides after work, which he has asked me to tonight but I have church, I'd have to lie to them... But I really do like him.

Yah, I like him even though he isn't saved, and I'd go for him, but if my parents don't let me.. there isn't much I can do for another year an like 40 some days. That just seems so long away... A long time to sneak around behind their backs anyway... And I woudln't cheat on him, cause I sure woudln't wanna be cheated on... If I would break up with him I'd have to have a reason too... If you're going to break up with them for no reason you must not even like them.

This could take a while, I got invited to join the guild because you saw my thread about kissing... and that thread didnt really help... sweatdrop I want to kiss him etc but I just dunno what to do, (Never been kissed, 14 xp ) I dont know, he told me he wanted to kiss me but I get confused because he never does anything about it! I know he kissed his previous girlfriend but she was a bit of a whore and probably kissed him, rather than it happening the other way around... any way, I dont really know what to do and he never does anything and I suppose your obvious answer to this is maybe we should break up and just be friends... but I dont want to, I just dont know what to do. My biggest problem is that I'm so attached to my friends and we are ALWAYS with them, If I/we went off, they would all follow me! I really CANT tell them to not! I dont think I like the prospect of explaining! So... sorry about how legnthy that was... heh! sweatdrop Any suggestions on what I could do...? As for talking to him about it, I would but it would have to be by text... I would be FAR too embarassed! xp (this is my mule so if you wish to read my thread, its in my post history, straight away...) Thank you! =B

The back section (closer to the inside mouth) of my lips gets chapped every frikin day...and that chapstick thing doesn't seem to work on that part of my lips. I wonder why. Anyways, I was just thinking of how to deal with chapped lips before kissing?

OH yeah...I forgot to mention that I am really a male in real life. I use this female avatar as a double agent. I am a spy that probes other political guilds.

Back to the topic, I just wanna make sure that you guys know that I am a male IRL.

Ok...I'll try vaseline. I already said that chap stick don't work...despite how they come in flavors sometimes is such a good thing.