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 Posted: Sat May 28, 2005 12:47 am
Well, sometimes I think about having sex with my friends.
But that doesn't only apply to bi or gay people.
Straight males often think about having sex with their female friends, and females sometimes think about having sex with their male friends.
This is an age-old question that there really isn't a good reply to.
Right now I am living with a straight couple (only for a couple of months while my new place gets in order) and both of them are my friends.
The girl in this relationship isn't that hot, but the man is. (He's a real cutie)
Now, neither of them are probably interested in me (since they love eachother!), but sometimes I have fantasies about him.
It's unavoidable that I think about it, but I would never do anything with him as long as he is "taken".
So yes, it's possible to stay friends, and still have sexual thoughts about them.
Just be mature about your feelings, and everything will be fine.
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Posted: Sun May 29, 2005 6:59 pm
Well, I'm bi and for some reason I don't find it that hard to be in a real friendship with others. For some reason, I can't see my friends having... well private parts, I don't see them like that at all. even though I've had feelings for some of my friends in the begining, that was all due to the fact that they were nice to me (mostly towards my friend Josh and Mathew) and I liked that about them, but now it's all different, I see them as my second (well maybe third, my girlfriend is my 2nd family) so I don't see them like that. We may goof around and act sexual but it's all in good fun for myself, we're not serious about it (atleast I'm not) the only person I act sexual towards, and mean it, is my girlfriend but who isn't like that with their partner? Meh... that is me, but I'm only in grade 10... okay well I'm almost out of grade 10, going to be in grade 11 next year lol Kinda scary if ya ask me cry Anyways, this is what it is like for myself so who knows... so maybe I did feel sexual for a friend but she felt the same way towards me, but we're together now, for more then a year now cool so I have no time to think about anyone else... meh... exclaim
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Posted: Mon May 30, 2005 2:03 pm
I've only been attracted to one of my female friends. The friendship wasn't going to well and she told me that another one of her friends liked her and that she was bi as well. I told her I liked her. I think she and the other girl are together now and I was pretty dissapointed. Now when I see her, she's attractive but I don't see us together. Not even as friends...I think we just split apart, but I tell myself there will be others.
I have a very small group of friends and I'm not attracted to any of them. It's like thinking about having sex with a sister. But then again, I'm not sure if my feelings would change if I found they were bi or lesbian too.
If I made a new friend who I found out was bi rather quickly, I would be interested in having a relationship with them...or at least try to direct in in that path, if they were interested too. If nothing happens, nothing happens. But if we both liked eachother, it probably will.
And I'm fine with all of this.
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Posted: Sat Jun 04, 2005 10:13 am
I may not be bi, but I thought I was at one point. I thought I was attracted to a girl friend of mine at one point but I realized that I wasn't, I later found that I had no interest in girls, yeah they're fun to hang out with but that's it, my guy friends I find no problem to hang out with either and just be friends, they know I'm gay and they accept it and that's good, I don't like them in a sexual way because them liking girls is more of a turn-off anyways. But if I made a new friend and found out they were gay I would probably get interested in them just because I would build a friendship around getting to know them on a personal level and trying to find what they liked and what they disliked. I dunno, my explaination is probably alittle off on what I would really do but oh well... you must know me in real life to really know what I would do rolleyes
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 4:45 pm
i only got one other friend that is bi.. and only a few of my other friends know i am... i have really close female friends.. so i try to avoid any thoughts like that towards them @__@... i know they ain't bi so... if they knew i thought stuff like that they'd probably freak out... crying .. but.. i can be friends with both sexes and not have any sorta sexual thing going... atleast i try not to... ((it sorta hard with guys though ~__~.. *shakes head*))..
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Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2005 8:51 am
well i feel if i have some thoughts i tell my buds, and they know how i feel, but we are always cool with it, non of us wanna mess up our friendships
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Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2005 9:03 am
almost all f my friends are bi, and have known that we were since we were 11 or 12...so were comfortable with each other, and well cuddle and stuff. i have a crush on one of my friends, but she knows i would never do anything that she doesn't want me to do. are relationship, just as really close friends, doesn't change at all.
we decided, as a group, me and all of my bi friends, that we wouldn't date. we all love each other,we don't like to look at each other as taken.
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Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2005 7:48 pm
Can straight people have just friendship? blaugh
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Posted: Tue Jun 07, 2005 5:44 pm
well, i sometimes think that way with my frinds. i sometimes want to make out with one of them, but then i think "they are my FRIENDS" and it would just seem weird, so i get over it.
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Posted: Tue Jun 07, 2005 6:02 pm
Well my ex bf's friend named Will is okay looking. one time i had dreamed of us making out... it was wierd. It's hard not to think of my friends like that even tho it was only once. it kind of sucked though since at that time my bf was actually mad at me for thinking that. but of course, my friend will wasn't mad. cuz he didnt kno blaugh
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Posted: Fri Jun 10, 2005 12:52 pm
Well my best friend and i are both bi and we rarly have sexual thoughts about eachother ...but she confessed to me that if weren't such good friends that we would have sex and maybe date. But we don't want to ruin what we have.
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Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2005 6:11 pm
Of course we can! *speaks from personal experience...Is bi!* We can have many regular friendships! Why would you think we couldn't?
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Posted: Thu Jun 16, 2005 8:17 pm
Xander69 I may not be bi, but I thought I was at one point. I thought I was attracted to a girl friend of mine at one point but I realized that I wasn't, I later found that I had no interest in girls, yeah they're fun to hang out with but that's it, my guy friends I find no problem to hang out with either and just be friends, they know I'm gay and they accept it and that's good, I don't like them in a sexual way because them liking girls is more of a turn-off anyways. But if I made a new friend and found out they were gay I would probably get interested in them just because I would build a friendship around getting to know them on a personal level and trying to find what they liked and what they disliked. I dunno, my explaination is probably alittle off on what I would really do but oh well... you must know me in real life to really know what I would do rolleyes I agree with that, however, I still have feelings for a straight freind who hasn't dated anyone. We have many things in common, and I can't help but feel attracted to him. We are allready good freinds as it is, but all I can do is helplessly wish for more, or that he is actually bisexual and in the closet about it. I'm glad he lets me hug him now and then...Still, it sort of teases me. *sigh*At least I now have my Seme.
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Posted: Fri Jun 17, 2005 9:49 am
Lalobee It really makes me wonder sometimes. People keep telling that males and females can't have real friendship because there would always be some sexual part in between. And it makes me wonder how hard it must be for us bi people to have real friendship? I can just tell for myself, I guess I've found some true friends. But nevertheless I can't really deny it that some sexual thoughts about the one or the other of them comes up. So I wonder if this is just me, I don't consider myself being that fixed on sexuality, but still it happens. Do the others of you also have this feelings sometimes? Do you feel bad about them? Do you speak with the others about it? If so, how do they react? Just some simple rules for this thread: The usual guild rules, pretty please read them. I think you are cute if you guess this is a nice thread and you want to bump it, but don't. If the thread is going to die then I know it's a non-issue. If it is going to stay it would be fine, but there is no need to bump. If you like bumping go to the chatterbox. Thanks for any input of yours, I'll appreciate it. Lalobee Edit made by YukiDo NOT ask is Lalobee got permission to make this thread. She did, so please don't ask anymore questions regaurding that matter. Thank you. i have real freindships i mean yeah theirs tension but so what be my freind.
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Posted: Fri Jun 17, 2005 10:32 am
Yes, of course. I'm bisexual, and the majority of my friends are straight. Granted, most of my female friends and I play-flirt, but both of us understand that it's all meant in a kidding way.
Though, I do have to admit. I'm in love with my best friend. But, she's also bi, and we dated for 2 months.
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