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 Posted: Sun Feb 27, 2005 7:18 pm
I just came out last night surprised ...In my dream. sweatdrop
Me and some guy were in this room and doing some major snogging. whee In the dream, he said he was sick, and this morning, I wake up and my throat hurts like mad crazy. I'm starting to think that it really wasn't a dream. eek
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Posted: Sun Feb 27, 2005 10:23 pm
O_o wow. I ahvnt even came out to my hamster yet sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 9:54 am
i'm kinda angry... last night i wrote a pretty long message about the situation i find myself in, but when i submitted it the "sushi" server was down, and when i went back, my message was deleted! stressed
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 11:26 am
HHHmmmm.. i have only told My Girl friend , a good friend online (who is bi as well), Another Friend Named Shelly(she says its so hot that im Bi), My Ex (she knows cause she is bi aswell and thats who we met), And some people i know online a total of 6 people.... sweatdrop My friends and family wouldn't except the fact that im Bi even if i told them sweatdrop So... i haven't told any oneelse till now im starting to build up corage 3nodding but i dont know how they will react sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 11:35 am
myro14650 HHHmmmm.. i have only told My Girl friend last night (she took it well) , a friend named Romeo online (who is bi as well), Another Friend Named Shelly(she says its so hot that im Bi), My Ex (she knows cause she is bi aswell and thats who we met), And some people i know online a total of 6 people.... sweatdrop My friends in real life and family wouldn't except the fact that im Bi even if i told them sweatdrop So... i haven't told any oneelse till now im starting to build up corage 3nodding but i dont know how they will react sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 7:24 pm
Right now, I've told only the people on here that meh bi. Will probably tell friends and others when ready but have no clue about my family. Not sure how they are on the whole issue. I have a friend whose bi and her as well as a good friend all support gays. I would tell my good friend but the thing is, I really like her. I just love being around her and I'm afraid that if I say something about it, it might ruin the good friendship we have.
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 9:26 pm
This is killing me people!!! Im right on the line of telling my parents and not telling them and its killing me!!!
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Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2005 2:01 pm
i didnt tell me parents that i am bi they found a pic of my and my boyfriend kissing at my friends house and thats how they found out but i was and still am really open about it and everything thats how i found my true friends in all cause the ones that didnt except me for me left me and im glad they did.
and everyone out here if your parents dont know that your bi or what ever i know that it is the hardest thing to do and i want all or you to know that the faster you tell them the better off youll be and dont let them find out like mine did.
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Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2005 2:22 pm
Gahnna i didnt tell me parents that i am bi they found a pic of my and my boyfriend kissing at my friends house and thats how they found out but i was and still am really open about it and everything thats how i found my true friends in all cause the ones that didnt except me for me left me and im glad they did. and everyone out here if your parents dont know that your bi or what ever i know that it is the hardest thing to do and i want all or you to know that the faster you tell them the better off youll be and dont let them find out like mine did. AMEN
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Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2005 5:07 pm
Well my friend keeps telling me I should tell my parents but I don't think I can. But I told my friends, online, because we movd so I really don't get to see them.
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Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2005 9:27 pm
Lol!!! Erm, i don't think i will ever tell my parents @_@
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Posted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 10:41 pm
well if anyone cares about how I came out.......
My parents were the first people I came out to, they didn't like it, they thought that I was making it up to get attention or something....bunch of retards.......
Then slowly but surely I started coming out to my friends and touching on the subject to people I just know....... There is one friend that I wont ever tell because she is homophobic and I don't want to ruin a good friendship over my sexuality....yes I know if she was such a good friend she would accept, but she was raised in one of those homes where it is wrong to love differently, so I just skipped over here...eventually she will hear it around school, because I make it well noticeable now..... but yeah, coming out was not the best thing I have done, but it is something that feels good to get off of your chest....My parents accept me, but don't approve of it....every once in a while I will come across somebody who has something to say about me and I just reply with a smile, "I can't change who I am, I won't change who I am, and if you don't like me, ******** YOU!!!!!!!!!!!"
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Posted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 11:10 pm
I got with a girl..... (go me?) so if I came out, nobody would believe me.
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Posted: Sun Mar 13, 2005 8:52 am
I can predict what would happen if i told my parents
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Posted: Sun Mar 13, 2005 2:20 pm
Heh, I haven't posted in this thread yet, because I thought I already had redface (Yes I know that made no sense blaugh ) Ok... here's my story.
Well, when I was younger, maybe about 12-13, I figured, I'm not coming out to anybody... ever... hell, I might as well force myself to like girls... Well, by the time I got to 8th grade, I figured, I'm gay, get over it. However, I just never thought about it much. I mean, I never thought about actually being with someone... Then came high school. This girl, Jennay, ended up falling for me, big time. You see, that's a problem, because I don't do girls XD So yea, we somehow ended up being a couple, even though I didn't want to be in a relationship with a girl... but I really didn't get a choice. It just sorta happened... and I figured, hey, it's a good cover. So yea, we "went out" for 3 months or so. Some friends of hers that are gay (one of which has become my friend) told her that they they swore up and down that I was gay. Poor, naive, Jennay "stood up" for me and said that I wasn't. However, later that day, I finally broke down and told her. So I guess you could say that November 5, 2003 was the day I officially came out.
Well, you see, Jennay is the biggest blabbermouth in the school. By the end of the year, the entire band department and their dog knew. Also, people I didn't know knew. Oh well... I haven't had problems with any yet.
Around homecoming, I actually had my first boyfriend. I dumped him after 5 days though, because he couldn't respect my opinions, or anything of the kind. We were definitely not made for each other. That actually threw me for a loop on being gay, because I haven't had a boyfriend since, and I hope that I can find someone better than him...
Now, on January 5 of this year, I finally came out to my mom. It was a weird conversation... Especially when the way she found out was, "Have you had sex with a girl? (No) with a guy? (Yes, (not my bf btw, but somebody else... long story))" So yea, it was weird. I don't think she really believes that I'm gay. She thinks all gay people are rapists or something, I swear... So, whenever I bring up the topic of being gay, she clams up and doesn't talk about it. She has also told me not to rule out girls. Heh, no offense girls, but the thought of doing something with a girl makes me sick xd So yea... as you might be able to guess, my mom and I don't have a very good relationship...
Now, the other day, I saw a brochure in the mail for Focus on the Family's ex-gay convention. I have no clue if she specifically requested this or if it's just another flyer she got from them... However, since I went through the mail before she did, I sent it through the shredder after reading it. I'm not sure if my mom wants to make me an ex-gay or not... but the though freightens me... Thankfull she won't have time to force me to one of those things... Starting Thursday, I have a foreign exchange student for a month, and she won't want to do something like that with him here. Then, I have two months at home. Then, I go to Germany for a month. Then, after a month at home, I go to high school on a college campus for the next two years, so I'll be free of strict parental influence... So yea... but the thought that my mom could try to turn me away from being gay scares me...
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