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 Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 10:20 am
Passion_Dragon Lupin The Great Passion_Dragon Lupin The Great Soothsayer Jeckal It sounds as if dating to you is more of a social status thing. In a way yes, but isn't it to most people.... [Not to me, it isn't. I'm too self-centered to care about social status. xd That would imply that when it comes to dating, I care more about what it does for me socially than I care about what it does for me personally, which isn't the case. I care much more about my personal life than how my personal choices look to other people.] Meh, still that doesn't help my problem, since you're older than me I'm in the middle of high school and so I have more social obligations that I need to establish for later exploitations. [Oookay...Being in hgihschool doesn't mean you have more "social obligations." It just means your "social choices" are generally scrutinized more by people who have petty little ideals about how their peers should act if they want to be considered "popular" or be "accepted."
Metal Discharge is right: you CAN ignore that s**t altogether. No amount of "advice" is going to change who you are. If you're a nerdy Republican, then there's nothing anyone else can do about it. If you don't like your image, it's up to you to change it. wink ] I guess so, I mean what do I have to lose. Oh I do have another question Passon. whee
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Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 2:52 pm
Lupin The Great I guess so, I mean what do I have to lose. Oh I do have another question Passon. whee [ question Huh?
@ mshonesty: I too would like to hear more. 3nodding ]
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Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 6:23 pm
Passion_Dragon Lupin The Great I guess so, I mean what do I have to lose. Oh I do have another question Passon. whee [ question Huh?
@ mshonesty: I too would like to hear more. 3nodding ] If you were ever in the Atlanta area would you ever go out on a friendly dinner date with me. *blushes*
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 4:45 am
[That couldn't be more off-topic, hun. Unless of course it would be "inter-racial dating." xd
Anyway, you should PM stuff like this to people. 3nodding But since the question has already been posted, my answer would be "Probably not." Now, any further questions like this should be sent via PMs.]
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 5:40 am
Lupin The Great Soothsayer Jeckal Lupin The Great Soothsayer Jeckal Lupin The Great In a way yes, but isn't it to most people.... Hell no. To most people having someone else is more of an emotional thing. Maybe thats your problem. You want a girl for social status, to you they're objects to boost your image. Yes, that my plan I don't want to be seen as the lonely Nerdy Republican. sad You're gonna die alone, and it will be your own fault. 3nodding Thanks for rubbing it in... rolleyes blaugh Its your own fault.
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 5:41 am
Lupin The Great Passion_Dragon Lupin The Great I guess so, I mean what do I have to lose. Oh I do have another question Passon. whee [ question Huh?
@ mshonesty: I too would like to hear more. 3nodding ] If you were ever in the Atlanta area would you ever go out on a friendly dinner date with me. *blushes* OH my god! I was so depressed today and then I read that. That made me laugh so hard I had tears in my eyes.
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 5:42 am
Passion_Dragon [That couldn't be more off-topic, hun. Unless of course it would be "inter-racial dating." xd
Anyway, you should PM stuff like this to people. 3nodding But since the question has already been posted, my answer would be "Probably not." Now, any further questions like this should be sent via PMs.] OOOOOOOOOOOH Rejected! xd lol
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 9:33 am
Soothsayer Jeckal mshonesty In general I'm against it. But if two people involved genuinely care about each other, then I have no problem with it. care to elaborate? Sure. From what I have seen and am continually shown, interracial relationships are for the most part based on shallow and selfish reasons, and that is why I am against them. From what I have seen and am constantly shown, interracial relationships are mainly based on (among other things): Sexual stereotypes: someone (or both) is only involved because of sexual stories told about a certain race (for example, how black men are all well endowed and good in bed, how asian women are small and tight and submissive, how white men do certain things that other races aren't as likely to do, how white women will do anything, etc...) Self hatred against the person's own race: one person (or both) feels that somehow if they're with someone of a different race, that makes them a little less whatever race they happen to be Subtly erasing their own race because of features they don't like about themselves: I think the best example I can think of at the moment are the black women who refuse to have children with black men because they want their children to have "good hair" and be lighter skinned, or women of other races having children with someone who is of a different race because they want their children to have certain features that they see as desirable but are mainly associated with a certain race Status/money/power/etc: The main example I can think of are black men who get involved with white women (or any race other than black-but mainly white) because it improves their status in society, and it's not just athletes who do it, it's black men of all socio-economic classes and levels and occupatons Very seldom do I see an interracial couple that is together because the two individuals truly like each other regardless of what is going on around them; there's almost always something else under the surface.
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 12:57 pm
Soothsayer Jeckal Lupin The Great Soothsayer Jeckal Lupin The Great Soothsayer Jeckal Lupin The Great In a way yes, but isn't it to most people.... Hell no. To most people having someone else is more of an emotional thing. Maybe thats your problem. You want a girl for social status, to you they're objects to boost your image. Yes, that my plan I don't want to be seen as the lonely Nerdy Republican. sad You're gonna die alone, and it will be your own fault. 3nodding Thanks for rubbing it in... rolleyes blaugh Its your own fault. And your rubbing it in.... gonk
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 12:58 pm
Passion_Dragon [That couldn't be more off-topic, hun. Unless of course it would be "inter-racial dating." xd
Anyway, you should PM stuff like this to people. 3nodding But since the question has already been posted, my answer would be "Probably not." Now, any further questions like this should be sent via PMs.] Not even if it's friendly? sad
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 1:04 pm
Lupin The Great Passion_Dragon [That couldn't be more off-topic, hun. Unless of course it would be "inter-racial dating." xd
Anyway, you should PM stuff like this to people. 3nodding But since the question has already been posted, my answer would be "Probably not." Now, any further questions like this should be sent via PMs.] Not even if it's friendly? sad Didn't she just say PM her?
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 3:06 pm
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 3:12 pm
Lupin The Great Soothsayer Jeckal Lupin The Great Soothsayer Jeckal Lupin The Great Yes, that my plan I don't want to be seen as the lonely Nerdy Republican. sad You're gonna die alone, and it will be your own fault. 3nodding Thanks for rubbing it in... rolleyes blaugh Its your own fault. And your rubbing it in.... gonk don't worry. Theres nothing wrong with dying alone at all man. Ill prolly do the same thing, Just as long as your fine with it then its cool is the way i see it. just make your life useful so you won't have to think about it as much... like .... i ono, try being a extreme sports guy, or be a musician, but just make sure your a WELL KNOWN one, that gets girls. or ********, join the military man, thats what im doing. and besides, im sure marrrage isn't what its crackedd up to be.. i mean sure its great and all, you have someone to connect with and blah blah blah... all that good stuff.. but think about it.....you have to share a ******** bed. what kinda s**t is that? well you dont HAVE to but you know, come on. I would hate sharing my bed or sleeping on the floor.
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 3:56 pm
Personally, I am attracted to white dudes more than black guys. I have found myself only using black guys as sex tools but only falling in love with white dudes. There is a lot of irony in that but that is just how I have been feeling lately.
It is a real problem that needs to be solved,
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 8:32 pm
Metal Discharge Lupin The Great Soothsayer Jeckal Lupin The Great Soothsayer Jeckal Lupin The Great Yes, that my plan I don't want to be seen as the lonely Nerdy Republican. sad You're gonna die alone, and it will be your own fault. 3nodding Thanks for rubbing it in... rolleyes blaugh Its your own fault. And your rubbing it in.... gonk don't worry. Theres nothing wrong with dying alone at all man. Ill prolly do the same thing, Just as long as your fine with it then its cool is the way i see it. just make your life useful so you won't have to think about it as much... like .... i ono, try being a extreme sports guy, or be a musician, but just make sure your a WELL KNOWN one, that gets girls. or ********, join the military man, thats what im doing. and besides, im sure marrrage isn't what its crackedd up to be.. i mean sure its great and all, you have someone to connect with and blah blah blah... all that good stuff.. but think about it.....you have to share a ******** bed. what kinda s**t is that? well you dont HAVE to but you know, come on. I would hate sharing my bed or sleeping on the floor. Are you joing the marines or army?
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