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 Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 7:36 am
Proudly_Jewish My current bf is a goy and I feel guilty as hell (I've been thinking of ending things for a while now though). I would never marry a goy though. Ever, ever, ever. I know that tecnically speaking it doesn't matter since I'm female and my children will still be Jewish no matter what, but still... if you feel like it has no chance to ever work then yes end it, don't say oh i'm dumping you because you're goy either because no offence thats really rude and mean. just say "hey you know we've been falling apart latly and i just think it's the best for you and me if we stop dating" don't do the lets be friends because it never works, but that doesn't mean you can't say hi to them or wave in the hallway when you see eachother randomly. if he asks if it's because of his relgion say something along the lines of relgion is very important to me so yes it was one of the barriers we have that is keeping us from getting really close. okie dokie ^.^ and i know how stressful stuff like this can be, don't put your self through all that guilt and stress you are far better than that. so if you want to end it then end it don't wait around for something to happen.
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 6:40 pm
darkphoenix1247 ZonkotheSane darkphoenix1247 rofl hmm...I'd say about 15, because I seem to remember that from somewhere. If it was just your writing style/thought process, about 17-18. thanks i really do have to stop posting my age on the internet.... sweatdrop it's alright-still haven't seen any pictures of you, though! blaugh muahahha!! I said it to you for once! Take that! XD : P well, i wouldn't want to make anyone jealous, now, would i?
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 6:54 pm
ZonkotheSane darkphoenix1247 ZonkotheSane darkphoenix1247 rofl hmm...I'd say about 15, because I seem to remember that from somewhere. If it was just your writing style/thought process, about 17-18. thanks i really do have to stop posting my age on the internet.... sweatdrop it's alright-still haven't seen any pictures of you, though! blaugh muahahha!! I said it to you for once! Take that! XD : P well, i wouldn't want to make anyone jealous, now, would i? Well, I think that more an issue of you making the GUYS jealous.
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 7:09 pm
Lady_Pocky ZonkotheSane darkphoenix1247 ZonkotheSane darkphoenix1247 rofl hmm...I'd say about 15, because I seem to remember that from somewhere. If it was just your writing style/thought process, about 17-18. thanks i really do have to stop posting my age on the internet.... sweatdrop it's alright-still haven't seen any pictures of you, though! blaugh muahahha!! I said it to you for once! Take that! XD : P well, i wouldn't want to make anyone jealous, now, would i? Well, I think that more an issue of you making the GUYS jealous. .... what did you think i meant?
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 8:06 pm
ZonkotheSane Lady_Pocky ZonkotheSane Well, I think that more an issue of you making the GUYS jealous. .... what did you think i meant? I thought you meant that, mbut you know Gackt and Hyde are prettier than most girls. XD BUt, yes I'm sure you would make guys jealous!
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 9:45 pm
ZonkotheSane well, i wouldn't want to make anyone jealous, now, would i? Somehow I seriously doubt that xd rofl
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 6:31 am
Lady_Pocky ZonkotheSane Lady_Pocky Well, I think that more an issue of you making the GUYS jealous. .... what did you think i meant? I thought you meant that, mbut you know Gackt and Hyde are prettier than most girls. XD BUt, yes I'm sure you would make guys jealous! uch don't even talk to me about gakt xp
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 8:55 am
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darkphoenix1247 Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 9:36 pm
Alright, this doesn't have much to do with my views on Jewish dating. However, I want to talk about emotions in general. I just, as in a few minutes ago broke up with my exboyfriend who was is not Jewish. I still fell in love with him and it still hurts. However we both noticed thta we were tdrifting apart and it was a mutual break up and on my part religion was not a reason at all. It still hurts. So, yes, religion is a factor, but there are many others too. Please, consider them all.
We are broken up. Thanks for all the support.
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Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 5:13 am
Lady_Pocky Alright, this doesn't have much to do with my views on Jewish dating. However, I want to talk about emotions in general. I just, as in a few minutes ago broke up with my exboyfriend who was is not Jewish. I still fell in love with him and it still hurts. However we both noticed thta we were tdrifting apart and it was a mutual break up and on my part religion was not a reason at all. It still hurts. So, yes, relationship is a factor, but there are many others too. Please, consider them all. Your right, but religion is a factor that depends on how far apart the two are, and how willing they are to comprimise. Of course there are many other issues, but if your a serious religious jew, differences in religion is quite a block in the road. Imagine an apikores going out with an orthodox jew. It would cause alot of problems... xd I'm sorry... I hope you feel better sad
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Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 5:52 pm
nathan_ngl Lady_Pocky Alright, this doesn't have much to do with my views on Jewish dating. However, I want to talk about emotions in general. I just, as in a few minutes ago broke up with my exboyfriend who was is not Jewish. I still fell in love with him and it still hurts. However we both noticed thta we were tdrifting apart and it was a mutual break up and on my part religion was not a reason at all. It still hurts. So, yes, relationship is a factor, but there are many others too. Please, consider them all. Your right, but religion is a factor that depends on how far apart the two are, and how willing they are to comprimise. Of course there are many other issues, but if your a serious religious jew, differences in religion is quite a block in the road. Imagine an apikores going out with an orthodox jew. It would cause alot of problems... xd I'm sorry... I hope you feel better sad apikores: blasphemer, heretic, etc
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 6:04 am
Sometimes I wonder if zonko is dating himself rofl .
Is that even allowed according to the torah? xd . Does the torah even express such a stupid issue? rofl . I won't ask my rabbi, he will think I'm insane sweatdrop ... no wait.. maybe I am rolleyes ...
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 6:13 am
nathan_ngl Sometimes I wonder if zonko is dating himself rofl . Is that even allowed according to the torah? xd . Does the torah even express such a stupid issue? rofl . I won't ask my rabbi, he will think I'm insane sweatdrop ... no wait.. maybe I am rolleyes ... you're insane ^.^
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 6:20 am
YvetteEmilieDupont nathan_ngl Sometimes I wonder if zonko is dating himself rofl . Is that even allowed according to the torah? xd . Does the torah even express such a stupid issue? rofl . I won't ask my rabbi, he will think I'm insane sweatdrop ... no wait.. maybe I am rolleyes ... you're insane ^.^ Oh well, I guess I suspected as much sweatdrop . Isn't one commanded to love others just as he would love himself? So I guess I have to love myself? sweatdrop . I love me! I love me so much heart xd ...
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 6:35 am
nathan_ngl YvetteEmilieDupont nathan_ngl Sometimes I wonder if zonko is dating himself rofl . Is that even allowed according to the torah? xd . Does the torah even express such a stupid issue? rofl . I won't ask my rabbi, he will think I'm insane sweatdrop ... no wait.. maybe I am rolleyes ... you're insane ^.^ Oh well, I guess I suspected as much sweatdrop . Isn't one commanded to love others just as he would love himself? So I guess I have to love myself? sweatdrop . I love me! I love me so much heart xd ... oh gee now you're dating yourself like zonko lol ^.^ yay nathan loves himself.. i love myself too... ::gives you a cookie::
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