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 Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 12:02 pm
Because I have to tell somebody...
Sometimes Nam gets really mad. Usually at stupid things like losing at Go. And when he does, he hits stuff. NOT ME. Let's make that straight up and clear. He has NEVER, EVER raised his hand to me in anger. But he has punched walls and doors. Once, before we were dating, he threw a chair at his wall.
This morning he punched the desk our computers are on and broke the glass that covers it (it was a custom cut piece just to keep our antique desk clean). I called my mom and told her I needed a new one, but I didn't tell her how it broke. And I probably won't.
I hate when Nam gets that angry. It doesn't happen often. But when it does I get scared and run off to cry.
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Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 12:38 pm
Kaenai wow... um...
i think it would depend on who sent them D:
An anonymous benefactor.
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Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 12:41 pm
MingSao Because I have to tell somebody... Sometimes Nam gets really mad. Usually at stupid things like losing at Go. And when he does, he hits stuff. NOT ME. Let's make that straight up and clear. He has NEVER, EVER raised his hand to me in anger. But he has punched walls and doors. Once, before we were dating, he threw a chair at his wall. This morning he punched the desk our computers are on and broke the glass that covers it (it was a custom cut piece just to keep our antique desk clean). I called my mom and told her I needed a new one, but I didn't tell her how it broke. And I probably won't. I hate when Nam gets that angry. It doesn't happen often. But when it does I get scared and run off to cry. Oh Ming, I'm so sorry. I know how scary it is when the person you live with loses control. Have you tried talking to him about how much it scares you?
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Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 2:23 pm
Amarillo Sky Oh Ming, I'm so sorry. I know how scary it is when the person you live with loses control. Have you tried talking to him about how much it scares you? We did talk shortly after we cleaned up the broken glass. He pinkie swore that next time he feels angry that like, he'll punch a pillow, or our matress... or something equally soft. He appologized for scaring me and making me cry... and cuddled with me until I stopped sobbing and shaking. heart He's a good man.
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Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 3:26 pm
MingSao Because I have to tell somebody... Sometimes Nam gets really mad. Usually at stupid things like losing at Go. And when he does, he hits stuff. NOT ME. Let's make that straight up and clear. He has NEVER, EVER raised his hand to me in anger. But he has punched walls and doors. Once, before we were dating, he threw a chair at his wall. This morning he punched the desk our computers are on and broke the glass that covers it (it was a custom cut piece just to keep our antique desk clean). I called my mom and told her I needed a new one, but I didn't tell her how it broke. And I probably won't. I hate when Nam gets that angry. It doesn't happen often. But when it does I get scared and run off to cry. I currently release my anger IRL in a similar fashion, but not so much that I destroy things. sweatdrop That seems to be really scary. But I get scared easily by other people.
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Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 3:28 pm
MingSao We did talk shortly after we cleaned up the broken glass. He pinkie swore that next time he feels angry that like, he'll punch a pillow, or our matress... or something equally soft. He appologized for scaring me and making me cry... and cuddled with me until I stopped sobbing and shaking. heart He's a good man.
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Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 3:37 pm
MingSao We did talk shortly after we cleaned up the broken glass. He pinkie swore that next time he feels angry that like, he'll punch a pillow, or our matress... or something equally soft. He appologized for scaring me and making me cry... and cuddled with me until I stopped sobbing and shaking. heart He's a good man. It sounds like he is. I'm glad you were able to talk about it.
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Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 4:30 pm
So, I was organizing my inventory. Daily Chance items go into my storage (to save for a rainy day). And I had this horrible impulse to sell all my items... all my commons to the npc I mean. All my MC's in the MP.
I have too much junk I guess. Even my storage mule is full of event hoard. I must resist the impulse to sell my stuff though, what would I give away then? Maybe this is how people feel before they give all their stuffs away and claim they are quitting.
Weird day.
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Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 5:49 pm
*frets* Don't quit Gaia, Ama!
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Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 5:51 pm
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Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 6:01 pm
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Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 6:05 pm
I punched my best friend. He was being annoying, and then he started teasing me about a bunch of things including my parents not being together, and at that point I turned towards him and punched him in the face. I didn't even stay to say sorry, or even to look what I had done, the only thing I did was run out. I feel really bad.
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Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 6:24 pm
Erik The Remarkable I punched my best friend. He was being annoying, and then he started teasing me about a bunch of things including my parents not being together, and at that point I turned towards him and punched him in the face. I didn't even stay to say sorry, or even to look what I had done, the only thing I did was run out. I feel really bad.
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Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 7:48 pm
gonk
-pulls everyone to him and holds on-
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Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 7:56 pm
Phoenix Fajita gonk
-pulls everyone to him and holds on- *clings*
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